#1 Actually practice your game.
This may sound obvious but it’s not.
Most of the messages I get are from guys who are just going from one girl to another, falling
in love every other week.
This is where most guys fuck up.
If you’re like most guys, your version of “getting good at game” goes something
like this.
You meet a hot girl in class, at the bar, at work, among your friends, or some other
circumstances and you get her number or get her instagram if you’re lucky.
You then proceed to stalk the shit out of her on social media until you know everything
about her, including her social security number, date of birth, and address.
And then you do something stupid when texting her, or in person, and you realize “Holy
shit, I have no idea how to talk to girls and when it comes to talking to girls and
making them like me, my social skills go out the window and I freeze up.”
So then you end up searching for videos on how to get girls on YouTube and you come to
my channel and that’s why you’re probably watching this video right now.
Yeah I know, I just read your mind didn’t I?
I told you, I really am a god!
But this is probably the WORST way to get good at talking to girls.
How are you supposed to get good at talking to girls, if they only time you spend talking
to girls is when you’ve already halfway fucked things up with the one hot girl you
like and are talking to at the moment.
Good game comes down to the ability to effectively use your social skills to communicate your
value and awesomeness to a girl in a way that’s socially calibrated and non-creepy.
There’s so much pressure and awkwardness on guys when it comes to getting girls because
they feel as though the girl is in control and they have to impress her to win her attention.
But it’s quite the opposite, your interactions with a girl should be you communicating your
value and personality to her in a fun and authentic way, but in a way that’s socially
acceptable and smooth.
So the biggest problem that guys face is 1) learning how to communicate who they are in
a non-verbal and verbal way, and 2) learning the right social skillset, so that they can
communicate who they are in a way that’s smooth, socially in tune, and authentic to
who they are as a person.
In order to get good at this, you need to constantly be practicing your game just like
you would any other skill.
You need to work on how to have conversations with girls in person and via text, you need
to practice approaching girls, you need to practice going on dates with girls, and you
need to practice all of these things with multiple different girls.
How else are you going to get good at this if you’re not willing to commit time to
practicing?
Imagine you wanted to get in crazy good shape, would you be able to achieve that if you only
lifted weights here and there sporadically with no set schedule or plan?
Of course not, the same thing applies to getting good with girls.
Additionally, how could you possibly know what you like in a girl and what you want
in a romantic long-term relationship with a girl if you haven’t experimented and dated
multiple girls?
#2 Wear what you like and what makes you feel most comfortable in.
Now before you click off this video and say “OH c’mon Zeus that’s basic bullshit
advice I’d hear from Disney Channel” or some other bullshit place like that, let me
break it down for you.
I’m not saying this because I want you to feel all warm and fuzzy on the inside and
I don’t want to hurt your feelings.
NO fuck that.
It’s purely pragmatic.
You know we’re all about results here at Based Zeus.
From a practical standpoint, it’s going to be really hard for you to be your most
comfortable, confident, and coolest self when you’re out gaming if you’re dressed in
a way that you’re not comfortable with.
You want to eliminate any variables that can negatively affect your confidence, therefore
if you can get a confident boost by taking care of yourself and looking your best, then
you should definitely take full advantage of this.
This is why you should find a style that works best for you and you feel comfortable and
confident in, don’t try to be someone you’re not.
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#3 Measure and manage your results.
You’re probably thinking, “Huh?
Measure and manage?
What the fuck am I trying to do here, a science experiment or get some pussy?”
But here’s where most guys fuck up.
Guys who actually do go out and practice their game will sometimes go out with the intention
of bringing a girl back that same night, but if you don’t know how to approach, how to
keep her interest during the conversation, or how to deal with all the subtle complications
that come with that, it’s going to be impossible.
It’s like going to the gym and trying to do one handed pushups with a weight on your
back…
How the fuck you gonna do that if you’ve never even done a regular two handed pushup
with no weight added?
If you’re trying to do the whole thing at once your first night out, you’re gonna
effectively learn nothing.
When you’re a noob, you want to focus on one thing at time.
So maybe one week your goal is to do 10 approaches per day because you want to work on your approach
anxiety.
And then the next week, you focus on improving your flirting skills while in conversation,
now that you’re able to comfortably approach.
And then the next week you focus on building attraction, and so on.
Every guy is different, therefore, some guys will be naturally good at certain skills and
terrible at others.
At the end of the day, it’s about improving YOUR social skills, and communicating to the
girl your personality, in a fun, flirty way.
So everybody’s experience will be a little bit different.
Another crucial element to rapidly improving your results is to track your progress after
every day or night out.
So if one day you worked on approaching, right after you get home, you should sit down and
write what you did well that day, what you did wrong and, what you’re going to improve
on the next time.
This way, you can see where you’re winning and where you’re fucking up.
Writing it down on paper makes it really easy and clear for you to see what elements of
your game needs work and what elements of your game you’re good at.
This is crucial because if you realize that you’re better at approaching girls in a
nightlife environment like parties or clubs, then you know that you should spend more time
approaching there because you’ll have more success.
#4 Don’t put on an act.
A lot of guys who are new to game will watch a bunch of videos and pump their egos up so
that they can go out and replicate everything they saw in a video word for word, and pretend
to be someone they’re not.
This is the LAST thing you want to do.
Remember, the whole point is to get the girl to like you, for YOU!
When you do some pussy shit like putting on an act it’ll actually work against you because
you won’t be able to communicate your authentic value to the girl if you’re putting on an
act.
Girls are way better socially than guys are so chances are, she’ll catch on to what
you’re doing and reject you upfront.
This is also detrimental to your success in the long run because you’re not actually
working on and improving your game, you’re just taking someone else’s game and trying
to copy paste it to work for you.
Like I said earlier, it’s important to understand what YOUR strengths are and what your weaknesses
are, so you can improve them and develop a style of game that’s best for who you are
as a person.
And that my disciples is it.
Let’s wrap this bitch up.
In summary:
Actually go out and practice your game often Wear what you like and feel most comfortable
in Measure and track your results
Don’t put on an act
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Zeus out.