So here's the deal, this continues while we're on the ground,
I'm gonna have pull back to the gate.
Everybody's gonna have to get off, we're gonna have to get security involved, and
it's vacation that's gonna be ruined.
So, folks, whatever that [INAUDIBLE] thing is, wouldn't send a naked picture let's
get yourself [INAUDIBLE] >> What you just heard was
a southwest pilot literally threatening to turn the plane around mid air,
because unruly passengers did not wanna stop sending nudes through AirDrop.
>> It's a long flight.
>> What happened to us?
>> Mm-hm.
>> You're on the plane with the people that you are sending unsolicited nudes to.
>> Yeah, well, I think to them, that's the advantage, sending unsolicited
nudes to a person where you can't see their response is good,
that'll get you going a little bit.
But the idea that you're making someone really uncomfortable nearby,
I bet that's forbidden fruit for them.
>> All right, so it may seem funny,
but crimes like cyber flashing are on the rise.
Cyber flash, I got news for you guys, crimes like flashing in real life also on
the rise, I would know from personal experience.
But before we get to that, here's what happened on this southwest flight, okay?
The pilot's announcement came after one of the passengers complained to
a member of the cabin crew about naked picture she received.
The video was posted on TikTok by user Bio user,
and she shared that she also got nude, okay?
>> It wasn't just the pilot?
Okay, that I didn't know.
>> Yeah.
>> I thought it was just the pilot that was getting them.
>> Teighlor Marsalis, [LAUGH] if that's how you say the name,
who told Insider, she thought the pilot handled the situation perfectly.
Said she also received an AirDrop request but denied it.
>> Okay.
>> Some commenters made light of the video.
One person said, I'm gonna turn this plane around and
everyone's vacation will be ruined.
One user wrote, haha, major dad vibes.
No, not major dad vibes, don't defend weirdos sending
unsolicited nudes to- >> No, the pilot's the major dad vibes.
>> No, the pilot did the right thing.
>> In the metaphor, this would be a family vacation where you're all in the car, but
two of the family members are sending nudes to each other,
that would be the equivalent situation here.
And at that point, you should pull over, and
it's gonna be an uncomfortable talk, but it needs to happen.
Anyway- >> God.
>> Yeah, don't send people unsolicited nudes, I think.
And the fact that it's the pilot, I think, makes it a lot easier for
people to laugh about it.
But it should be just as bad as sending it to anyone, sending it to a librarian,
sending it to a doctor, or whatever.
>> I'm here to give people advice and
inform as much as I can, and here's my advice to men.
There has never been a woman in existence ever, ever, literally ever,
who has received a penis picture and got hot and bothered by it or impressed.
>> Well, at least an unsolicited one definitely.
>> No.
>> A random one of some guy.
>> We're not wired like you guys, okay?
>> First of all, every woman is not the same.
>> No. >> Women contain multitudes.
>> I'm gonna speak for all women, okay?
>> Okay, well, then I will too- >> We don't get
excited by a penis picture.
You guys get excited about a woman sending you nudes, right?
Assuming you're straight, whatever or if you're gay,
another man sending his Johnson over to you.
But for women, getting hot and
bothered is far more psychological than just seeing a body part.
>> I think we need a poll, sorry, let me word that differently.
I'm gonna deny your AirDrop request, don't send me any polls, but
we should set up a poll.
>> Mm-hm. >> And find out, now, this would,
of course, have to be for consensual ones.
I'm not interested in, I don't think people are getting hot and
bothered over like, God!
But have you ever wanted it to be sent to you?
It was sent to you, and it did something, I think it's more than you think.
>> Okay. >> And
I'm talking about, I guess in this case, you wanna talk about women.
>> I do.
Yeah, I'm talking about women specifically.
>> I think it's more than you think, I don't think it's nearly as much as men,
I agree that there's a difference.
I think there's a lot of interesting reasons why that might be, but
I think it's more than you think.
>> I mean, there is such thing as a better looking penis, okay?
But even if it's a beautiful penis- >> Well, there's a six point grading
curve, actually curve is one of the points, but yes.
>> Yeah.
>> There's differences.
>> But even so, if it is an impressively
large penis or if it's- >> Impressively small.
>> Or it's just a beautiful penis,
I just don't think a picture of a penis is what gets women hot and bothered.
But if you're watching, holler at me.
If I'm wrong,
I don't want to make blanket statements based on my own personal preferences.
But based on conversations I've had with women, and I do know quite a few,
they're like that doesn't excite them, that's my point,
it doesn't arouse them to look at a penis picture.
>> I think the issue is that women have become very good through the course of
their lives in taking flattering pictures of themselves, but guys are lazy and
haven't learned how to do it.
So they take bad angles, it's not the right situation,
you need to get nice depth of field, get a little bit of background separation,
some good light and dynamic lighting.
You wanna light the penis with a higher light from this side, so
you get a bit of it really emphasize, yeah, you wanna do that.
>> I'm now starting to understand you.
>> You wanna get some bouquet in the background.
>> Mm-hm, depth of field, gotta make sure.
>> Maybe get some string lights that you can sort of blur a little bit,
make it hardy.
>> John, as someone who is a public figure, just be careful.
>> [LAUGH] >> All right, let me continue.
>> No, that's the thing, I'm so blurred [LAUGH] in the photo,
you can tell it's me.
It's just a smear of hair and face.
>> Yeah.
All right, well, let's actually get into some numbers about how women do feel
about cyber flashing, okay?
So in a 2017 Pew Research Center report,
53% of women ages 18 to 29 reported having been sent unsolicited
obscene images compared to 37% of men within the same range.
>> That's not that different, honestly, I thought it would be way bigger gap.
>> Look.
>> Who's getting unsolicited, men are getting,
I'm not saying I've never gotten unsolicited, but I don't.
Is that common or women like forcing their photos on random guys at school?
>> I'm sure force is- >> Well, they said it's unsolicited.
>> Exaggerated word in the case of women.
>> Do you think they're lying?
Cuz they're saying it's unsolicited, they did not ask for
this was just sent to them.
>> Unsolicited just means that the person you're sending it to didn't ask for
the image, right?
>> I'm shocked that 37% of men are getting unsolicited photos,
that's what I'm saying.
Maybe those are penises too, honestly.
Maybe it's penises all around.
>> A 2021 report, let's continue, a 2021 report found that 33% of
women under 35 reported having been sexually harassed online in general.
Three times more than men with, come on, of course-
>> That's a bigger gap.
>> Of course, three times more than men within the same age group.
>> And a lot of those men were probably harassed by other men, honestly.