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Now let's begin.
All of us hope to be the best versions of ourselves, right?
And sometimes we can stress about achieving our goals.
And the overwhelming pressure can stop us in our tracks
and leave us unmotivated or stressed.
Most of us think we need to start with big changes
in order to improve our lives and mental health.
But what if I told you some simple, small actions
you could put into place
that could cause some real change?
It's the small things that add up
and can make a real difference with time
and some with no time at all.
So here are seven small changes
that will improve your life
and your mental health.
Number one,
put your phone on silent and face down.
Social media can be on our minds quite often.
With our attention being pulled from one place to the next,
it's best to slowly peel back our distractions
and focus on the present.
That means you browsing endlessly
like a wide-eyed zombie on social media
is a habit undeserving of your time.
Leave the zombie look to the horror movies,
not your phone screen reflection.
Try leaving your phone on silent,
always.
If you need it for work,
leave it off when you aren't expecting a call
and on the weekends.
When you enter a room or go out for dinner
with family or friends,
put your phone away
or face down,
so the bright glow of your screen won't bother you
with a notification.
Our phones have a way of causing
a bit of undue stress on us.
Social media can be unhealthy.
Emails from work can distract us when it's the weekend.
And those random notifications beside our apps,
they aren't even real notifications.
Who cares if my long lost cousin Larry posted a new video?
He posts them all the time.
Number two,
if you set your alarm,
place it opposite your bed.
Do you often wait to the sounds of birds chirping
in a sweet morning breeze?
The smell of a fresh cup of coffee
and splendidly cooked eggs.
That's right, splendidly.
(sighing)
What pleasures!
No.
You wake up to the sounds of that horrid alarm tone?
That was once set to sound peaceful.
(chuckling)
You naive little you.
And what is it you smell?
Not fresh coffee,
but dirty socks and last nights take-out pizza.
Mmm, pizza.
But the point is our mornings aren't always the greatest
to wake up to.
That's why sleep is so blissful.
But we can't sleep all day.
Oversleeping can have a negative impact
on our mental health,
which is why if your sleep schedule is off,
you'll likely need an alarm to kick things into gear.
If you use an alarm in the morning,
it's best to place it near the opposite wall from your bed.
Keep it as far as possible while still in your bedroom.
Or if you don't have anywhere to be,
or you work nights,
make sure your schedule is on track,
then wake naturally.
I know, kind of contradicting, right?
But if we don't need to be somewhere,
we should give our brains the relaxing reset it needs,
then wake up naturally.
But if we're doomed to often sleep in,
go ahead and set your alarm
and then put it somewhere far across the room
on its own comfy little pillow.
That way,
you'll have to force yourself out of bed
to turn it off in the morning.
Jump-starting the awakening process.
You can't drowsily hit snooze
if you're already up and walking, right?
Number three,
carry a bottle of water with you,
always.
- [Psy] Eight cups a day.
- [Narrator] Yep, that's right, Psy,
eight cups a day.
- [Psy] Yep, eight cups a day.
That's what they always say,
and hey, I won't have it any other way.
You can even try it today.
What do you would have to say?
(chuckling)
Sorry, I was giving myself a little rhyming challenge.
- [Narrator] That was very nice.
- [Psy] I can't stop once I started the rhyming process.
- [Narrator] No, it's cool.
It's very important
that we stay hydrated throughout our day.
Drinking plenty of water helps our mood and our memory.
Not enough water,
and we feel mentally foggy and on alert.
So try keeping a bottle by your side at all times.
This will remind you to drink when you get the chance.
And you may realize you've been more thirsty
than you thought.
My solution?
That water bottle by your side,
drink up and drink a lot.
Number four,
allow yourself to say no.
We oftentimes feel pressured
into doing things that we don't want to,
or we feel guilty if we don't do someone a favor.
You only have so much energy to expend in a day.
And guess what?
I'm fully giving you permission to say no.
You don't have to feel guilty
every time you turn down your buddy's bowling invite
or invitation for a night out with pizza.
I mean pizza is pizza.
It sure is good.
But you wanted tacos tonight.
And the truth is,
we can feel good when we develop confidence
and make our own decisions.
One way to gain confidence,
stand up for yourself.
I know doing a favor is a good thing.
But if you're often taken advantage of
or simply don't want to do something,
say no.
And once you do so allow yourself not to feel guilty
and simply do whatever it is that you want to do.
It's tacos for you tonight.
Number five,
keep a journal and share your ideas.
We can often bundle up our feelings tightly
and then shove them into the cold dark freezer
at the back of our minds.
You know, like that leftover smelly pizza from this morning?
But it's important to get any strong thoughts out
in some way,
good or bad.
So who are you going to tell these thoughts?
Yourself for starters.
But not in your head.
Get them out in words.
Research published in APA's
Journal of Experimental Psychology,
generally found that expressive writing
reduces suppressed and intrusive negative thoughts
and can improve our working memory.
This freed-up mental room
can allow us to use our cognitive resources
to focus on other things
and improve how we handle stress.
So start writing your thoughts down
or share your ideas and thoughts
with someone you feel comfortable with.
You can even write down
what you're grateful for each morning in a journal
to start your day with positivity.
Expression leads us to feel better about ourselves
and frees up some space in our mental room,
even our old mental freezers.
Number six,
replace the bad thoughts with good ones
by acknowledging them first.
It's best to express what's bothering us
by talking to someone
or journaling and sorting out these problems on paper.
But if unnecessary worries find a way inside your mind,
try acknowledging them
and then consciously allow yourself to move on.
This can be tricky for a lot of people.
We tend to ruminate and worry about things
that generally won't harm us in the long run.
We can be watching a movie
with a worry lurking in the back of our minds
or the pain from a harsh comment still weighing down on us.
Take a moment.
Take a breath.
Acknowledge what you're feeling.
And then distract yourself.
Lay your feet out.
Your favorite scene is coming up.
Take a potato chip.
Mmm, how salty!
Start up a conversation
and tell your friends about
how much you enjoyed those tacos last night.
Mmm, sorry, I must be hungry.
And number seven,
think before you react.
Someone just said the most annoying thing to you,
and you can't help but scream.
But you can help it, can't you?
And while the odds are you won't scream,
but you sure feel like it.
Before you go on to reacting angrily from a bad mood
or rude comment,
take a moment to consciously question it.
How will your reaction change the scene?
Your words hold power in many situations
for better or for worse.
You can worsen a situation or improve it.
It only takes a moment to decide.
Which will it be?
So which small change will you enact first?
- [Psy] Do you like pizza or tacos?
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Psy, you wanna say it.
- [Psy] Okay.
(throat clearing)
thank you for watching.
- [Narrator] We'll see you real soon.