Number 10.
People who are reliable and responsible.
You were chosen because you are trustworthy, emotionally mature, and capable of leading.
You may have grown up caring for siblings or supporting a sick parent, and you may be
the primary caregiver for your children.
You may be in desperate need of adventure and enjoyment rather than taking on more duties.
A healthy lifestyle necessitates a well-balanced life.
Allow yourself the freedom to be a free spirit.
Number 9.
People Pleasers
It is beautiful to wish to be of service to people and spread happiness.
However, it is crucial to consider whether your sense of identity and self-worth is based
on satisfying other people or pleasing yourself.
If this is the case, you may be more prone to enabling your partner to take advantage
of your position in life.
Narcissists will encourage you to believe that meeting their demands will make you indispensable
in their lives, which is not valid.
Because they will become more and more demanding, you will never be able to please them.
This means you will have to work more to please them.
Allowing this could attract narcissistic people to you, as they can often detect those who
will enable them to misbehave and make the relationship all about them—instead of equally
about both parties, as a relationship should be—by making the connection all about them.
Number 8.
People who don’t value your own needs and feelings.
Put others' feelings ahead of your own consistently, even putting yourself at risk of physical
or emotional harm?
It is critical in relationships (and in life) to emphasize one's own wants and emotions.
Having clear rules about what you want from a partner and what you can and can't will
help you communicate more effectively.
Other than that, narcissistic people may desire to be with you because it would be easy for
them to overstep boundaries and take advantage of you.
As long as they can ignore your sentiments and hurt you, they will be able to satisfy
their own demands while also keeping their fears under wraps.
A good partner can take care of the other’s needs while completely forgetting about their
own.
People who know you well will think you're the best person for them.
Number 7.
People who need approval and emotional connection.
In the beginning, selfish people will try anything to attract the other person to them.
Their relationships lavish affection, approval, and even confessions of love.
This may appeal to anyone, but it is particularly enticing to individuals with an unmet desire
for acceptance or emotional connection.
If you identify with these emotions, the beginning of a relationship with a narcissist may be
what draws you in.
They may get insecure (since narcissism is rooted in deep-seated insecurity) and worry
that they won't be able to supply your requirements once you've been hooked.
But, because they can't accept their own flaws, they'll take it out on you by demanding more
and more from you.
Compliments devolve into complaints, approbation devolves into judgment, and so on, leaving
you feeling inadequate.
If you're desperate for approval, you could work harder and harder to get it.
You may be doing so to reclaim the affection they once lavished on you.
Sadly, what tends to happen instead is that their demands grow increasingly difficult
to meet.
Number 6.
People with low self-esteem.
People frequently seek out other people who confirm their own beliefs about what is true—even
if such ideas are destructive to them.
Suppose your self-esteem has been injured (by parents, prior relationships, etc.).
In that case, you may be attracted to a narcissistic spouse who will continue to make you feel
like you are not good enough to be with them.
You may suffer mistreatment because you have low self-esteem and believe you do not deserve
better treatment.
This attitude might make a narcissistic partner want to stay with you because they know that
you would let them do bad things.
Number 5.
People who feels worthless or unlovable.
When have you ever had the feeling that you're either impossible to love or impossible to
love by someone?
Or how about the fact that meeting someone who will admire you and want to spend the
rest of their lives with you is extremely rare?
You are not alone in terms of how you feel about the issue.
True self-love is a process that lasts a lifetime.
Those who believe they are worthless and unlovable may think that they do not deserve to be treated
well or that they will be unable to find anybody else to spend time with them because they
believe they are unworthy of love.
If this is the case, you may feel compelled to remain with whoever chooses to keep you
in their life, even if they do so to feed their own anxieties and struggles rather than
respect you for the beautiful person you indeed are.
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Number 4.
People who feel Narcissistic behavior is expected.
Even when we are not conscious of it, we tend to gravitate toward behaviors that are comfortable
for us to engage in.
Several studies have found that people drawn to and attracted to narcissistic partners
have either grown up with narcissistic parents or caregivers or have previously had relationships
with people who demonstrate narcissistic characteristics.
This means that it's probable that your contacts with these people shaped your perspective
on the world and on yourself.
Suppose you've been the victim of narcissistic abuse in the past.
In that case, you're more likely to seek the same treatment from a partner because their
mistreatment reinforces what you already believe to be true: that you must behave in a certain
way to "earn" love and that you deserve the ill-treatment and manipulation you've received
from others.
Number 3.
People who have a Narcissistic Parent.
If you grew up with a narcissistic parent, you are prone to repeating childhood tendencies
as an adult.
Parents who are narcissists are lousy.
It's impossible to sugarcoat it.
Children of narcissists are taught that their own needs are unimportant from an early age.
Their only mission is to acknowledge, affirm, and address the needs of others.
Because there can only be one person whose wants and feelings matter in any connection
with a narcissist, including a parent-child bond.
It's hard for kids of narcissists to value or acknowledge their own boundaries, and they
also don't want or need to be loved.
In short, growing up with a narcissist can leave you with a shattered sense of self-worth,
a lack of boundaries, and severe trauma.
This is quite appealing to the narcissist.
A narcissist hides a frail and wounded ego beneath layers of external charm, an internal
need for attention and validation, and manipulative behavior.
Number 2.
Empaths.
An empath is the perfect soul candy for a narcissist.
Empaths are susceptible, intuitive individuals who are typically compelled to help others
heal.
They tend to see the good in others and think about their "higher self," which is inside
of them.
Unfortunately, empaths frequently put their own needs, goals, and desires on the back
burner to focus on loving, healing, and enduring others.
A narcissist has an exaggerated sense of entitlement and desires to be loved, cherished, admired,
and holy.
Gaslighting and derailment are common narcissistic behaviors that empaths fall prey to.
It's a disaster waiting to happen.
If you're an empath or compassionate person, you're the only one who can end this cycle
of narcissistic abuse.
Because the narcissists in your life aren't going to wake up one day and realize they've
been exploiting you, ignoring your needs, and putting you through the wringer of emotions.
You should be aware that this beautiful aspect of yourself attracts narcissists.
(It's a blessing to be an empath!)
Begin to establish limits, Enter relationships with your eyes wide open, and don't make excuses
for disrespectful behavior.
Number 1.
People with Low Permission Levels.
As a meditation and mindfulness coach, Cara Steinmann says, "Permission levels are internal
thresholds we set for ourselves that determine how much happiness, success, love, and abundance
we allow ourselves to have."
Internal permission levels are essentially a gauge that determines if you're allowed
to be joyful, confident, prosperous, worthwhile, etc.
You're more likely to have healthy, high-functioning relationships with good boundaries if you
have a lot of permission (and healthy partners).
If your permission levels are low, on the other hand, you're more likely to invite a
lot of drama and disorder into your life.
The problem with authorization levels is this: You might not even be aware that you have
low authorization levels.
Because your subconscious mind controls your permission levels.
To complicate matters, you may have high permission levels in some areas of your life, such as
work and economics, but low permission levels in others, such as love relationships.
So you may have a strong sense of self-worth and confidence in many facets of your life,
including working in your dream job, mentoring or leading others, and attracting financial
wealth in droves.
In some locations, though, permit levels are low.
And it's there that the narcissists will try to fill the hole, preying on your lack of
consent and manipulating you into their game.
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