Dirty talk or sexy talk in the bedroom can be an incredible turn-on for a lot
of people. But most of us don't actually do it
because we don't know how to. In this video I'm going to give you very
simple tips and techniques to drive your lover crazy using just
your words. My name is Helena Nista and I am a sex
therapist and a Tantra practitioner. I make videos about great sex, legendary
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whenever I post. And now let's get into some dirty talk.
When I was younger, I was never into talking dirty in bed.
I wasn't into talking in bed - period. Once the sexy action started,
all you would hear from me would be an occasional moan
or a giggle. And that's it! All of that changed in my late 20s when I got
together with a particularly talkative lover. It was a casual affair but
lasted at least six months because we really liked each other and sex was
really good. And he always talked in bed. It seemed so natural to him, so
effortless, like he didn't have to think about it,
he didn't have to wonder what to say, he would just speak.
And I could clearly tell that it was giving him a lot of pleasure
and that it was increasing his turn-on.
And he would ask me to speak as well. And the great thing about him was that
he would really help me out in the beginning. He knew that I wasn't
used to talking dirty and he was happy to help.
So he would say things like: "Tell me this or that" - "Tell me how wet you are" or
"Tell me how great my cock feels inside of you."
etc. He taught me a lot, not just about talking
dirty but about making it fun and about really
enjoying myself in the process. I actually learned how to get really
turned on by dirty talk, whether it was me who was speaking or my lover.
So if talking dirty is something you'd like to try or
learn how to do masterfully, here are my top 5 tips for hot sexy talk.
Telling your partner what you want can be a true turn on.
This will be particularly hot when these are things you're authentically desiring,
something that truly excites you. It will also help them give you more
pleasure since you're clearly expressing what you want.
And then they can fulfil those desires. This can be things like:
"I want to ravish you!" "I can't wait to taste you on my lips."
"I want you inside of me" or "I want to be inside of you."
"I want you to come all over me." "I want you to spank my bum while you're putting
that big hard c*ck of yours inside of my p*ssy." Before you
do something, tell your partner what you're going to
do. When you're talking about things that are about to happen,
you're actually increasing the hotness of the moment for both of you
because you're creating anticipation of the yummy things to come.
For example: "I'm going to suck you and lick you until you're hot and
ready to explode." "I'm going to make you scream with pleasure." "Relax and let me
take care of you." "I'm going to tease you until you can't
take it any longer..." And my favorite one: I'm going to...
until you..."
Was that too much? The next easy way to talk dirty is to actually express what
you're feeling in the moment. And the more descriptive
you are about what's happening in the particular moment, the better this
will work. So this can be things like: "This feels so fucking amazing!"
"I'm getting so turned on." "I'm dripping wet for you!" "I love it when
you squeeze your pussy around me like that."
"Your cock feels so incredibly good inside of me." "You lick
my pussy so good." "I could spend all day between your legs..."
Tell your lover what's really yummy and delicious about them, about how they look,
about their scent, about how their body and touch feels on
your skin. And about all those amazing things you love
about them as your lover, etc. For example: "You have such perfect c*ck"
or "You have such perfect p*ssy". "You taste so good baby!"
"You fuck me so well! "You're an incredible lover!"
"You look so sexy right now." "I love the sounds you're making!"
As a bonus tip, chances are that there are particular
words, body parts, expressions or activities that
are a special turn-on for your partner.
So make sure to use them. Speak in a way that is most customized for your
partner's desires and preferences. If you're not sure what
they are, start listening to your partner closely when they are talking about your
sex life or even ask them about their specific
fantasies, or about things that they would enjoy
hearing from you in be. If you enjoyed this video, please give it a 'Like'
and also let me know in the comments below if talking dirty is something you
ever tried or you would like to try. I always
respond personally to all of the comments and I cannot wait to read yours.
Thank you so much for watching and see you in my next video!