Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on how to get a girl's attention. This
is how to get a girl to notice you. Have you ever been in that situation where you noticed someone
really cute and you want her to notice you too but you don't know how to get her to notice you?
Or maybe you do get her attention initially and then it kind of starts to not go so good and then
pretty soon she ghosts you? If that is you you are in the right place. I'm going to be teaching you
four steps to getting her attention. And the last step is how to keep her attention so you're going
to want to make sure you watch to the end so you don't miss that very important piece. Because it's
no good to get her attention if you're just going to lose it, right? I can't wait to share these
tips with you. Now before we dive into those if this is your first time watching one of my videos,
my name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men. I teach you how to find, attract,
and keep the girl of your dreams. The best part is as a certified coach, I never teach you
mind games or tricks that frankly don't work. So make sure to subscribe, ring the
notification bell, and give me a big thumbs up. Okay, for just a second I want you to imagine
your dream girl. Imagine what she looks like. You know the type of girl I'm talking about. She gives
you those butterflies in your stomach and when you think about her you can't help but just like
smile all over. You know the type of girl I'm talking about, right? Let's pretend that you are
going on your first date with your dream girl. Exciting, huh? So you've already asked her out
and she said yes and you've been texting back and forth a little bit and you are even more excited
to see her than you were before you asked her out. And you didn't think it was possible,
but you're starting to be even more attracted to her as you've been texting her. Then it's
time for your date and you go to pick her up or maybe you meet her there. And when you see her
she kind of takes your breath away a little bit. She looks so gorgeous from head to toe. Her hair,
what she's wearing, she looks amazing, right? Now your date starts and you start talking and
having fun and you start noticing that you feel really relaxed when you're around her.
You're feeling even more attracted to her than before and you're feeling super confident and
super masculine when you're around her. It's an amazing feeling, right? That's the kind of
feeling your dream girl gives you. That's the kind of woman you want, right? That's your dream girl.
Seriously, shout out an amen in the comments. Comment "dream girl" if this is the kind of woman
you are looking for and you are committed to learning how to get. If that's you comment "dream
girl" right now. So basically you have the time of your life and you cannot wait for another date.
And you're texting afterwards, she's letting you know that she's interested in seeing you again,
you're feeling even more interested in seeing her again, and basically it was a complete and total
success. That's the dream scenario, right? That's how it would be with your dream girl, right?
Can you see it in your mind? Do you know what I'm talking about? Here's a really important question.
How did she do that? Why did you feel the way you did with your dream girl? There's actually a
science behind why you felt that way and I'm going to explain it to you quickly. When she texted you
she knew what to say to make the conversation fun and how to make you feel encouraged and better
when you are around her. Because that's how she makes everyone feel when they're around her. And
then when you showed up and you saw her looking so amazing, do you want to know why? Because she
understood how to do her hair, she had learned how to do her hair so it looks really attractive.
She had learned what outfits look really good on her, what colors look really good on her,
and because she wanted to dress really nicely for you she rocked it. Then when you were on the date
and you know you were feeling relaxed when you were around her you were feeling masculine and
confident and even more attracted to her the reason why is she, through her conversation,
knew how to help you feel relaxed, how to make you feel more masculine, and see her as more feminine.
She had learned some basic small talk and conversation skills that made you feel amazing
when you were with her. And then afterwards when you were texting she understood what to say
to let you know that she was really interested in you and attracted to you and wanted to spend more
time with you. Basically, she learned the skills she needed that made her attractive. These skills
are why she is your dream girl. She has learned the skills she needs to be attractive to you, to
be the kind of person who you feel amazing around and you want to spend the rest of your life with.
She is your dream girl because of these skills. This means if you want a woman like that,
if you want that type of woman, you need to have the masculine equivalent of those skills. This
is what I teach in my program and this is why my clients are able to see such amazing results and
see them so quickly. Now we are going to be going over some of the skills you need
right now. These are the skills that allow you to get her attention and get her to notice you.
We're gonna go over four steps of how to get her attention, how to get her to notice you. And the
best part is they allow you to stay true to who you are and make you feel amazing in the process.
So how to get a girl's attention step number one. This is all about your mindset
and being prepared before you're in the situation. The last thing you want is to figure out how to
get her attention when you're standing right in front of her. It's not going to work very well.
Instead you want to go in with the right mindset so you are a boss at this, so you rock this,
so you feel comfortable and confident. Just like the secret to winning a football game is to be
in the right mindset, the secret to getting her attention and getting her to notice you is being
in the right mindset. Now some of the ways I teach my clients to do this are you want to make sure
you're feeling confident. And you deserve to feel confident, right? It just feels
better to feel confident. When you apply the simple skills that allow you to be a
confident person that's how you stay in that confident mindset all the time. Another thing
is to remember to keep things in perspective. The fear of rejection is real. Everyone has it.
But when you keep things in perspective that's how you're able to not let it hold you back anymore.
And the last thing I'm going to mention to help you with that mindset is make sure you have an
understanding of what you're going to say and how to interact with her before you're in that
situation. Just like your dream girl, just like we just talked about, you felt amazing when you were
around her because it was really automatic and natural for her to talk to you and make you feel
really good and flirt with you because she just understood how to do it. So again the last thing
you want is to try and figure out how to flirt with her when you're standing in front of her.
That's going to lead to disaster. So just make sure you have that understanding up front. That is
how you rock it. That's how you get in the mindset so that you can get her attention very easily and
very quickly. Make sense? Are you seeing why this is important? Step number two is for when you're
in the same area with her. You haven't talked to her yet but you're in the right mindset and
you're in the same area and you can see her. The things I teach my clients that allow you to get
her attention at this stage is one, make sure that you are dressed very well. The way you dress
affects how she sees you, and she wants to see you is really attractive. But it also affects how you
feel about yourself. And if you're dressed awesome you're going to feel like approaching and flirting
and interacting with her. I'm going to let you in on a little bit of a secret. Most people do not
know how to dress to increase their confidence. And if you don't put your clothes on and feel
attractive and confident and good in your own skin, so to speak, then you need to work more on
knowing and understanding how to dress to empower. Another thing I love to teach, I love to teach,
is body language. You want to make sure your body language is friendly and masculine and
confident and open. That's going to totally get her attention. You'd be surprised how powerful
this is, guys. Your body language will get her attention when it is confident and attractive. And
then you want to make sure you look for signals that she is interested. If you have not yet seen
this video you need to watch it. It's going to blow your mind. Women really do pursue men,
it just looks differently from how men pursue women. So you want to look for the signals that
she's interested because that's what lets you know, "Oh, it is safe to approach." And then
you want to look for easy, natural ways to connect with her, to approach her, to talk to her. If you
watched this video you know that one of the things that attracts women like crazy is when you pursue
her. As a matter of fact, if you don't pursue her it kind of destroys the attraction. But if instead
you do pursue it skyrockets the attraction. By the way, there are links to all the videos I mention
in the description below. So if you haven't seen any of them do watch them through the
links in the description below. Do not wait for her to approach you because this will destroy
the attraction and/or she just won't approach because it will destroy the attraction. So you
want to look for easy, natural ways to talk to her, to connect with her. One of my favorite
things that I teach my clients in my program is how to create a conversation out of thin
air and how to just naturally talk to her and create fun small talk no matter where you are or
what you are doing. My clients who go through my program also learn how to approach her naturally
and really increase her attraction for them while they do this. To learn more about my program,
what I teach, why it works, I have a free masterclass for you where you're going to learn
the same strategies I teach in my paid program and learn more about my program. There's a link
to watch this free masterclass in the description below. If you want in on these secrets,
if you want to know all the secrets I share with my clients that gets them the results
they are getting, make sure you watch that free masterclass. There's a link in the description
below and I'll put a link in the pinned comment. My program is for men who want a good woman and
they're tired of trying to figure it out on their own. If that's you make sure you give it a watch.
Okay, let's move on to step number three. And this is how you actually interact with her. So you were
in the right mindset, right? And then when you were in the area with her you were attractive and
you looked for signals and all of that. Now it's time to approach. You want to focus on
increasing her attraction for you. One way you do this is by flirting. And by flirting I don't mean
this push-pull, hot and cold, mind game nonsense because that does not actually work.
Instead, you want to make her feel even more amazing when she's with you. And then you want
to make the conversation fun and interesting. If you have not yet seen this video and this video
on how to talk to women and best conversation starters there are links in the description below,
they will help you with this. And while you're here flirting with her, chatting with her,
having a good time, you want to make sure you understand how to ask her out to get that
yes instead of a no. Again this is something I do teach in my program so make sure you watch
that masterclass if that's something you would like to learn more about. Now I'm going to let
you in on a huge secret. Are you paying close attention? One of the biggest reasons why
sometimes men get turned down when she really wants to say yes instead is what they ask her
to do on the date. Yes, where you take her or what you do on the date has the power to cause her to
say no instead of yes. If she feels uncomfortable for any reason she's going to say no. That little
thing can be the whole reason she rejects you. Now if you have been through my program remember
that you do have access to my guide 59 Best Date Ideas so make sure you are using that.
Okay, we are to our fourth step, guys. This is how to keep her. A little bit of real talk.
Have you ever been in that situation where you think things are going really good, you
met this girl, you see signals that she's interested in you, and then all of a sudden
it kind of starts to not go so good and then she ghosts you, or she tells you, "I think we'd be
better off as friends." That's painful, right? Or maybe you even date for a couple of months
and then she breaks up. Why does that happen? Here's what you need to understand. God made men
and women differently. That makes sense, right? Women have different needs than men do and they
think differently than men do. Even if a woman is attracted to a man initially, once she gets to
know him better if she sees that he does not have the traits that she needs to have in a husband
she's not interested anymore, she's done, she moves on. Even if a man is very physically
attractive or maybe he's very successful, but socially he comes across as kind of awkward
or she feels awkward when she's around him or if he comes across as kind of arrogant or if he has
no clue how to create a healthy relationship, no clue how to maintain a healthy relationship,
that's not what she's looking for in a partner so she moves on. It looks to her like a bad bet and
she's not going to risk a bad bet. You wouldn't risk a bad bet when it comes to something as big
as a lifelong relationship, right? Well she's not going to either. That just makes sense, doesn't
it? The way I teach my clients to prevent this so that you stop having this vicious rejection
cycle going is you need to understand the traits that a woman is looking for in a man. You need to
know what is actually important to her. And then as you turn those things into habits,
now you have the traits that God made women to need in a partner. Which is really exciting,
right? Can you imagine just knowing that you had all the traits your dream girl was looking for
in a man, because that's the way God made her? The best part is you get to stay true to who you
are as a person. This is never about changing your personality. Only mind games will do that for you.
But instead, if you just take the traits women are looking for and turn them into habits, you keep
your personality, you stay true to who you are, but you become absolutely irresistible to your
dream girl. So that is how you keep her attention after you get her attention. That's exciting,
right? If you're excited about this, if you are committed to getting that dream girl and showing
her that you are her dream man, again, comment "dream girl" in the comments below. It's kind of
like an affirmation or like a battle cry, "Dream girl!" You can do this my friend so leave it
in the comments. Thank you so much for watching my amazing friend! If you enjoyed what you saw
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for watching my amazing friend and have an amazing day. [blooper beep] Okay, for just- [coughing]
I'm fine. [laughter] I don't know what just happened there. Okay, round two. Okay. [pause]
That's how my brain feels right now. [laughter]
Bright lights give you a headache really fast. That's it. I feel like there's something else,
but there better not be because I'm done. I'm going now. This is the end. [laughter] I
couldn't say that straight face. I tried. This is the end. [laughter] Okay, I'm done.