Look man, almost every guy is complaining about how hard dating is nowadays because dating is all
about competing against all the other guys that are vying for her attention and if you want really
beautiful women then guess what she has a lot of guys after her and you need to be number one
the way to do that is through these three dating funnels so that there's virtually no competition
now you're probably wondering what the hell is a dating funnel a dating funnel is simply
a streamlined process for you to meet women build rapport with them and take them on dates and most
guys honestly have no idea that this even exists so it's going to give you a big advantage and the
best thing is it actually saves you a ton of time my name is matt artisan from the attractive man
coaching team and in this video i'm going to share with you three different dating funnels that you
can use as soon as today to double or even triple the number of dates you're getting and make sure
to watch it until the end because the third funnel is the most powerful and it's actually
how i met my wife which i'll tell you a little bit about later so be ready to take some notes
and let's get started now i used to suck at dating i was lucky if i could get one date per month but
when i figured out these three dating funnels i actually had five dates in one day i kid you not
it was a very busy day but see most single guys usually only have one funnel
and that's the online dating funnel the problem with this funnel is you're competing against
tons and tons and thousands and hundreds of thousands of guys but i still like it
because if you do it the right way that i'm going to tell you at the end of this video
you can actually completely automate your online dating that means do nothing literally no work
but still get dates but we'll get to that later essentially it works like this let's say you swipe
on 100 profiles and you get 10 matches and out of 10 matches let's say five of them right back and
out of those five that write back let's say you get three numbers and out of three numbers you get
one date and this thing is falling over something like that i just made those numbers up but you get
it it's a funnel now the key to any funnel that you have is to optimize it so then that instead of
doing 100 swipes and only getting 10 matches you do 100 swipes and you get 50 matches and out of 50
matches you get 40 messages back you get the idea the more you optimize it the better results you
get the better results you get the more dates you go on and they're going to be a lot higher quality
and i'll be honest with you at first i used to never do the online funnel because i don't know
i'm just not that attractive i guess my pictures kind of suck until i went to asia and like all of
a sudden my results were way way better and then in asia this became my primary funnel but then
when i came back to the us i didn't get as good results until i started optimizing this i actually
had one of our coaches on our team named lin help me with my online dating profile and when she
looked at it and she told me what kind of pictures to take and stop doing this and start doing this
i started getting much better results and this is now no matter where i go one of my funnels
that i'll use now nothing revolutionary about this yet except when you learn how to automate this aha
get somebody else to do it for you but we'll talk more about that at the end now the next funnel is
your approach funnel that means you're walking around living your life and you see a beautiful
woman and you go talk to her this thing is not gonna stay up okay stay so for example maybe
you approach 10 women and five of them give you their phone number out of five numbers
three texts you back and you get one date again i just made up these numbers but it's literally
something like that our clients who go through our coaching program they can do 10 approaches
which takes about 20 minutes at the very most and they can get a date often times it's right there
on the spot if she's not busy and he's not busy now the great thing about this is you just do it
while you're going about your day you don't need to go out and run around and approach all these
girls and spend hours and hours doing it you just go to the grocery store you just go to the gym you
just live your life you walk your dog and when you see beautiful women you go talk to them and
hardly anybody does this so there's almost zero competition sure you can go to bars and clubs and
approach women but you're going to be competing against a lot of the other guys that are there for
the same reason during the daytime guys literally walk by a girl and they say oh i wish she was on
tinder so i could swipe on her don't be that guy go talk to her this is one of the best funnels now
i'm going to get to the best funnel in my opinion in just a second because these two will lead into
this third funnel but i really want to stress that you should be meeting women in everyday situations
because they absolutely love it think about it do you think a woman wants to meet the man of her
dreams her future husband or whatever on a dating app no she wants to meet him at the coffee shop
or in the bookstore walking down the street it's so romantic and you can be that guy that creates
that movie moment for her that's why this is one of the main funnels we focus on in our coaching
program so that your approach can be as confident effective and charming and genuine as possible and
of course as attractive as possible and the beauty about approaching is you're actually
working on yourself you're getting out of your comfort zone you're dealing with rejection i know
that sounds scary that's why nobody does this and everybody does this because there's no rejection
with online dating for the most part but you're not working on any skill set you're not working on
your confidence you're just sitting there swiping and typing here you're actually improving yourself
you're becoming a [ __ ] badass even if you did go out and do ten approaches and got zero numbers and
zero messages back in zero dates you would still get something out of it as long as you have the
right mindset because you would get practice you would learn what doesn't work you'd be building
resilience you'd be toughening yourself up you'd be stepping into courage every single time all
10 of those times you're literally becoming more confident with every approach again with the right
mindset with the wrong mindset you're going to feel like [ __ ] that's why mindset is so
important but this is not an inner game video i'll save that for another video i digress and i have
tons of videos of me approaching just youtube matt artisan approaching so finally you have the event
funnel one of my favorites events now i don't mean going to events and meeting women that's great
you should definitely do that but that's still approaching them that's still walking up to them
and meeting them for the first time i'm talking about throwing an event and inviting women to it
so that you have a really good odds like a three to one girl to guy ratio five to one even ten to
one girl to guy ratio in fact one time i went out with 14 girls and just me and it was really
fun so here's how the events funnel works look at the online funnel right this can fuel your events
you had five girls messaging you back and only one date that means four girls that you were talking
to didn't go on a date with you so that's four that you can add to the top of the events funnel
in this example you got five numbers and only one date that means four didn't turn into dates
so that's four women that you can add to your event funnel not only that but these five women
that had boyfriends let's say that you approached guess what you can actually get their number as
well you don't get their number like hey i want to date you break up with your boyfriend no you just
tell them hey i'm throwing a party this weekend you should invite your boyfriend invite your cute
single friends invite your cat invite anybody you want it's gonna be really really fun it's gonna
be a lot of cool people there let me get your social media and i'll give you all the details
and so that's potentially five more women that you can invite to your event now the cool thing
is you're gonna tell all of them that they can invite friends now here's what you're going to do
you're going to tell these women that you invite to your event and your event can be whatever you
want it can be a house party it can be clubbing it can be a dinner thing so basically all your lower
interest or less likely prospects go into your event funnel for you guys in marketing it's kind
of like a re-offer right you tried to get her on a date through this funnel or this funnel but if she
didn't go for it for whatever reason like she's already kind of dating somebody or she's just not
comfortable enough with you or she just doesn't like going on dates a lot of women hate going on
dates because they're awkward and most guys are just weird and creepy but you invite her to some
cool event there's a good chance she's gonna say yes and here's the thing you're not just telling
her to come alone you're telling her to bring her friends i always tell them to bring cute single
friends so they don't just show up with a bunch of dudes so think about it from her perspective
going on a date with you is like a big deal right that's like spending two three hours with
this guy she doesn't even know especially if it's online dating she has like no sense of who you are
except for your marketing that you put out there you could be a psychopath for all she
knows or a freaking serial killer for a guy to go on a date it's no big deal it's fun like
there's no risk but for a woman oftentimes it feels like life or death because you're bigger
and you're stronger and for her it's like going on a date with a grizzly bear she's hoping he's
a tame circus grizzly bear and not a man-eating monster but when you invite her to an event
oh [ __ ] okay where was i when you invite her to an event and it could be whatever it could be
a house party it could be just going bar hopping it could be hiking my friend used to take a group
of girls boxing every week but when you invite her to something like that in her mind she's
thinking okay i get to hang out with him with a bunch of other people there it's so much safer
i can leave at any point and it's no big deal if she leaves after 20 minutes and a date like
that's awkward if she's not feeling it and she has to make some excuse to leave like that sucks but
just stopping by a club or a house party that's no big deal she can stop by for five minutes if she's
not feeling it she knows she can leave she can just tell you hey i got this other birthday party
thing i have to go to so women are way more likely to say yes to this think of it like a group date
plus like i said she has her friends with her so she feels way more safe and the benefit for you
is she brought her cute single friends so if she's not into you or you're not into her guess what you
can flirt with her friends this is the ultimate date it's like a group date in this example let's
say you invite these four girls you invite these four girls but hopefully you have a few more
numbers or social media contacts than that let's say you invite 20 girls now maybe only five say
yes which is actually really good that's 25 and here's the thing the better the event is the more
women will show up if you're inviting them to some awesome celebrity mansion party like all
of them are gonna show up but if you invite them to your basement probably nobody's gonna show up
if you invite them to a dive bar uh out of 20 maybe one will show up so the better your event
is the more will show up but just a simple house party is fine like i said my friend used to invite
a bunch of girls just to go boxing so just for the example let's say you invite 20 20 invites five
show up but they don't show up alone that's the beauty they're gonna bring one two three four
friends with them so let's say they each brought two friends that's plus 10. now you have 15
15 girls and maybe it's just you or maybe it's you and a couple buddies by the way tell your
buddies to do this as well so that they're showing up with 15 girls also don't let them mooch off of
you they need to be bringing some kind of value if they're not bringing girls then one of your
buddies should own the house that you're partying in or have a limo or a yacht or something like
that i partner with other guys all the time like i don't have all the resources in the world but
i'm pretty good at meeting women so i meet some rich dude who has five yachts or a huge mansion
but he's not very good with women guess what we make a beautiful connection a bromance if you
will he supplies the resources i invite all the beautiful women everybody's happy so now 15 women
are there and they're all there because of you which means they're gonna be wanting to get your
attention they're gonna be watching you the whole night they're gonna be seeing how you operate
and you're just gonna flirt with all of them you're not gonna stick to one you're gonna treat
them all the same they're all equal you're just having fun you're just flirting nothing heavy no
making out you're not trying to make out with all of them settle down jeez there'll be time for that
later but the cool thing is this is actually the easiest date because it's not like you're running
around like trying to manage all of them no you're just chilling you're letting all of them talk to
each other and have fun sometimes i just sit back at the club we're in the vip section with like 10
girls i'm just sitting back drinking my drink just watching other times i'm dancing dancing with all
of them dancing with one then switching it's so damn easy compared to a one-on-one date where
all the pressure's on you if she's not the talkative type like you got to keep things
going at an event it's not the case now let's say you do a house party and you invite 15 women
maybe it's just you if you're like me it's probably just going to be you there but
maybe you invited a couple other dudes and they bring a couple other girls whatever but
the point is at the end of the night you're gonna have tons of pre-selection they're gonna be at
this party and they're gonna see other girls flirting with you and when a girl sees other
girls flirting with a guy she presupposes that he must be attractive even if she doesn't know
you really at all you just met her online or an approach it was like a two-minute interaction and
even if you didn't talk to her much at the party she just sees you how you operate with other women
she's very likely to become attracted to you so you're generating all this attraction there just
by being a cool confident social guy who's having a lot of fun that's it you don't have to go crazy
and escalate i don't recommend that because the idea is after the event you're gonna be able to
set up dates typically with a third of the women that were at your event because now they see how
you operate around your friends around other women they can see other women are attracted to
you they can see now that you're a cool confident guy and you have this cool lifestyle so it's very
easy to get dates with these women afterwards so let's say you get like five dates out of that
one evening plus you had a lot of fun there too and here's the other cool thing you're gonna be
taking pictures you're gonna say cheers and take a little video and you're gonna say everybody
come on like scream and you're gonna take a selfie and then you're gonna post that on social media
and guess what these 15 women that didn't show up some of them are gonna see that maybe even send
it directly to them so all of them see this then they start having fomo and guess what next event
you invite them to they're a lot more likely to say yes because they saw how much fun they missed
last time this system really works like clockwork when you set it up the right way but it only works
if you have the right pictures the right messaging basically the right marketing on your online
profile it only works if you're a confident man who can approach women in any situation and you
don't let your fear of rejection or your approach anxiety hold you back and it only works if you're
a cool confident guy if you invite all these women to this party and you're just standing there like
a weirdo you're not gonna get any dates but you don't have to be the super macho alpha male to
make it work you just have to be a cool genuine normal honest guy not some guy who's you know
full of insecurity and shame so i actually met my wife using the online funnel and the events
funnel here's how it happened i basically met this girl on tinder we went on a date together and she
was really pretty but we ended up not hooking up or really like having a romantic connection but
i could tell she was really outgoing she loved to party all the time she was just a really cool
fun person and so i said why don't you be my wing girl you can go out and meet women and i
will invite you to really cool events and she was like yeah totally so it was halloween and i threw
a halloween party at my house and my wing girl that i met on tinder came up to me and she's like
you're gonna really like this girl that i met at the club the other night i invited her and she's
on her way and then when jen walked through the door i was like enamored but she actually
rejected me right away i tried to give her a hug and she literally like like pushed me away but
because i was just you know having fun i didn't care i had all these other girls there at my party
she saw me flirting with them and just having a good time she became really attracted to me
because like i said the event funnel generates all this attraction because all these women are vying
for your attention think about it at that party there was only three guys and i think 12 girls
so they only had a few options so as the night goes on the girls get more and more aggressive and
more and more competitive it's a very interesting and advantageous situation and so jen and i didn't
end up hooking up that night but the next day we spent the whole day together and really the
whole week together and like they say the rest is history so this is exactly what we teach you
how to do in our coaching program we help you optimize all three of these funnels but most
importantly we help you become the best version of yourself removing all those insecurity and shame
roadblocks that are probably holding you back and the cool thing is when you become your best
most confident version of yourself not only does your dating skyrocket but your whole life starts
operating on all cylinders so if you want me and my team to help you with this then book a call
with us there's a link down in the description to apply for our coaching program and if you want to
learn more about the online dating funnel so that you don't have to do anything you don't
have to sit there endlessly swiping or coming up with unique messages or even copying and paste
messaging don't waste your time doing that spend your time approaching women and throwing awesome
events that way you're living this really cool amazing lifestyle what kind of lifestyle is just
sitting on your phone swiping and messaging girls all day you're better than that man so i created
a video showing you exactly how to do that so click the link right now and check out my video
on how to automate your online dating funnel trust me man when you set up your online dating
the way i'm going to show you in this video you don't have to do anything you literally just
show up on dates which is a huge time saver my name is matt artisan from the attractive man
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