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So what is going on with Amber Heard and Johnny Depp?
My God!
These two.
I wasn't even going to weigh in on this whole thing
because I've gotten so many hundreds of emails and lots
and lots of people that I know actually personally been hoop
and talking to me about this whole thing with these two
and my husband even was getting a haircut
over the weekend and he's like,
“you got to talk about this because everybody's talking about it.”
So for those of you who've been living under a rock
and you haven't been hearing anything about this,
let me just give you a little bit of the back story.
So Johnny Depp is suing Amber Heard, his former wife,
for 50 million dollars over a 2018 op-ed article
that she wrote in The Washington Post
describing herself as a public figure
representing domestic abuse
and she in turn is suing him
for 100 million dollars for being a liar.
So basically he's saying that he lost out
on the Pirates of the Caribbean
because Disney dropped him after that article came out
and you know, there's some stuff that's
swirling about this basically saying
”Hey, you kind of started losing that before that”
and he's like
“Well, but that kind of started coming out after the whole
wife-beater thing came out”
because apparently he tried to sue the
sun back in London unsuccessfully
for them accusing him of being a wife beater
even before that and he had lost that battle actually.
That was the first libel case
that he had filed even before that
but he lost that battle.
So anyway,
there's this massive amount of mudslinging.
It's a three-week trial and I gotta tell you,
there's been tons and tons of videos
both here on YouTube and on TikTok.
Some coming out for him.
He's the golden one. She's the golden one.
He's the narcissist. She's the narcissist.
I got to tell you after you,
after watching this and reading about this,
anyone who would ever potentially want a date with
either of these people,
after listening to this,
they need to just read these trial transcripts
and then run like hell in the other direction.
I mean, both of these two are probably
the most dysfunctional people on the freaking planet.
I mean, they both sound like a total total nightmare.
They're extremely dysfunctional people
and it's funny as I read,
Piers Morgan peas in the New York Post
and he said that they're both Supreme narcissist.
I gotta tell you, it sounds like I completely agree with him
and he even quoted
the Mayo Clinic's definition of a narcissist
where he went on to say that the Mayo Clinic's
definition identifies narcissistic personality disorder
as a mental condition in which
people have an inflated sense of their own importance.
A deep need for excessive attention, admiration,
troubled relationships and a lack of empathy for others.
I mean, they certainly have a lack of empathy for each other.
I mean, neither of these two were considering their spouse
and thinking of each other during this relationship.
I mean, I don't think he was sober during for
like 30 seconds during this entire relationship.
I mean, all of this relationship,
all he was doing was taking drugs and
you know, alcohol.
You guys have heard me say before,
those of you who follow me.
I talk about abuse, addiction and adultery,
the Three A’s
being the three deadly sins of marriage
and I always say, if you have even one of these,
it's very very difficult to maintain
a healthy relationship
because it attacks the foundation of a relationship
and clearly, I'm pretty sure
they had all three that were present here.
But for those of you who missed it,
here are some of the highlights
of what was going on in this relationship.
So Johnny Depp, let's see.
He had one piece of his finger was missing.
He even held it up in court that it's still
like somehow deformed because
it was cut during a fight with Heard.
Yes, she hurled to vodka bottles at him during a
fight and one of them I guess exploded
on him and it caused a piece of his finger to be cut off,
cut down to the bone or something.
The bone was exposed,
the tip of his finger was cut off
and then I guess he took the blood
and he was writing things, messages,
but then he even took more
paint to make it look like it was blood
to continue to write messages
or paint pictures of penises
or something to make it look like
other messages were being written on the wall.
I don't know.
Then he also wrote text messages
about her to a friend of his
that said really lovely things like
“Let's drown her.”
“Let's burn her”
and then he wanted F her burnt corpse
afterwards to make sure that you was dead.
Isn't that lovely?
So lovely.
You know, that's another little highlight.
Another highlight was that he claimed
that she wants took a lit cigarette
and stomped it out on his face
and then there was another one that said
that she had defecated on the floor next to the bed
or something
and you know, she claimed it was the dog.
That was another one.
There was another one where he claimed that she
had left him for Elon Musk and had a threesome.
Something to that effect.
He was taking drugs with Marilyn Manson.
He said he even gave Marilyn Manson a pill one time
because he was talking too much to get him to shut up,
phones being ripped out, kicking each other,
yelling at each other, hurling stuff.
I mean, seriously a total
self-indulgent mess, bags of marijuana.
Drugs around all the time.
Ice cream dribbling between his legs
While he is like naked in the bed,
a total disaster all the time.
These two.
Seriously, Piers Morgan actually said
that these two made Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt
look like an ad for loving Harmony.
I actually had to laugh out loud. I thought that was hilarious
and as he said,
I can't think of anyone less deserving of sympathy.
I mean, the truth of the matter,
if you go back to what the whole point of this lawsuit is,
is he's actually seeking damages
for the lost wages
or the loss of whatever it was
that he said that he potentially lost
because of Disney dropping him
as a result of that article
but then he goes on to admit that it looks like potentially he
was being dropped even before that article.
Which means potentially those damages
didn't happen as a result of that article
and that means that it looks like,
you know, that's going to be a problem
for him because he needs to actually prove
that that 50 million dollars,
which is what he's claiming he lost,
is a direct result of that article that she wrote
and that's really the crux,
the legal crux of this lawsuit
and going back to why they're sitting here.
I mean, they're not sitting here to do this,
but, you know, narcissist.
What a narcissist want?
They want that supply and the supply
that they're getting right now,
the supply that they're getting right now
is they're continuing to get attention from the world
and they're getting attention from each other
because they're continuing to manipulate each other.
They're continuing to get under each other's skin.
They're continuing to trigger each other.
This is not about the lawsuit.
This is about continuing to get under each other's skin.
So they're continuing to get supply from
each other by doing that
and that's what narcissist want now, isn't it?
and that's why the trial verdict is,
that they are supreme narcissist.
So that's the trial verdict from my perspective.
I don't think that either of them are going to win this lawsuit,
but they will win what they've actually set out to accomplish,
which is to get the narcissistic supply that they wanted.
So that's my take on it.
I would love to know what you guys think.
Put it in the comments.
I think they're narcissists.
If you agree with me, put narcissists in the comments or just put total narcs in the comments
and if you have other thoughts,
I would love to know what they are in the comments
and I had done a video about this last year,
but after watching how this is unfolding,
this is, you know, my thought on this because it just seems
like that's what's going on to me.
You know, I don't think either of them
are going to win the lawsuits
that they're going after.
I think that they are really just getting
narcissistic supply from getting under each other's skin.
So, that's my thought
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