Uncle C, back in the office and in today's video, I'm going to be explaining specifically
how to get a girlfriend in 2020 without games without pullbacks without BS.
Now, believe it or not, this topic was actually a requested one.
And since I saw this in the comments on a couple different videos, I thought that it
would be a very good thing to discuss and show and present and really teach specifically
how you can do this without running into the things that majority of common culture is
going to be running into.
You got to understand if you keep following the trend of what most people do, what's going
to happen is that you're going to end up where most people don't want to be.
So if you actually learn throughout this entire presentation exactly what I've done exactly
what I've teach exactly what I've shown others and not only that the exact step by step process
that everybody's been using to get really, really good success.
Well guess what?
You're going to be in good hands.
Okay, so stick with me on this.
Now one of the things that I think is very important is to speak from a standpoint of
credibility and not just some guy with a whiteboard completely talking out of his ass.
Okay, first off In my masculinity blueprint closed members group if you look when one
of my students George cook took a poll he said how many of you would like a relationship
versus how many of you would like a just like to casually sleep around, and you see the
the men that actually want a relationship outweighs the ones that don't over to x, okay,
more more men want to actually have companionship than just complete random occasions with women.
Okay, now keep in mind, this is not me talking out of my ass because as you see in the back
end of myself, or I've sold my courses over 600 times, which means that I've interacted
with like, three, four or five 600 men, depending on how many have been active and actually
engaging with me, once they get access into the community.
Okay, this is coming from a standpoint of not only me being a coach and showing you
my success with my relationship, but what I'm also going to show you is that most most
men want this but they're too scared to admit it, and I'm going to explain why.
So first off, what you have to understand is that Firstly, To do this to get a girlfriend
without games without bullshit without Bs, you have to get square with yourself.
You have to get square with yourself.
You have to get honest with yourself and you have to actually admit to yourself what you
want this square right here is you getting square, you're getting squared up in the mirror
and saying What do I want?
What do I actually want?
Not what does this pill color channel tell me I should want not
what my best friend down the street who drinks
a six pack of beer every single weekend tells me I should walk?
What do I want?
Okay, because your intuition is your soul that will lead you in the right way positive
up up equals positivity.
You need to start trusting your intuition.
Your intuition is all you have as a man, you have to understand that your balls and your
strength to prevail even when you are scared even when you're apprehensive even when you've
been burned.
Even when you've been jaded.
You have to trust your intuition.
It screams at you for the right reasons.
And when you start to do this, what you're going to understand is that you unlock a new
level of consciousness within yourself that says, hey,
what type of person do I want to attract in my life?
This is so key.
What you got to do, especially if you are a guy that has been burned, is you need to
start to learn from your damn mistakes, not just totally scrape the barrel and go the
opposite end because guess what?
Men like to build something.
Men naturally have an intuition of drive and manifestation and desire.
Why is that because we have masculine drive and ambition.
This is key to understand.
This is very key to understand that human beings and men in particular really like to
build they like to have foundation they like structure.
Okay, what you got to understand is that when you apply this to your relationship, most
men who are hooking up or telling themselves that the only way they're alpha or dominant
is if they can have a body count that's a mile long for 2020.
They're settling for something shallower than what their intuition is telling them.
I need you to stop settling for shallowness.
Okay.
What you got to understand is the majority of people are going to tell you that settling.
In general, as in with one companion that's weak.
I'm telling you the exact opposite.
When you settle for the reverse when you settle against your intuition, this is actually killing
your soul more and more.
What this is doing is this is actually crushing the strength that you need to prevail in life.
This is taking what you really want and telling yourself, I'm not going to do that,
okay, and that's weak, its weak because you're not figuring out how to do it.
Learn from your mistakes.
If you're a complete Buttercup before on over validated, and you're like a soft little Pillsbury
Doughboy just pick at all day or she would just pick out what we need to not be like
that.
Okay, we need to be tough, we need to be strong, we need to be masculine, in no way shape or
form, though, does it mean that we need to sleep with her and all of her friends and
crush her spirit and never give her commitment or never actually give ourselves the chance
to have commitment in the first place?
Because we're too scared.
You have to understand most of these players, most of these men that are telling you this
or most of these quote unquote alphas that think they need To sleep with so many women,
they have the the biggest void out of anybody.
And they don't know how to fill that void with anything than their pleasures.
And because of that, they try to convince you to do that, due to the fact that that's
what they're doing.
You got to understand that if you identify your ideal, your ideal life, your ideal companion,
your ideal partner, well, what's going to happen is that when your intuition and that
ideal sense comes together, you're going to start to actually lay the roadmap of what
this may look like.
And that's a hell of a lot better than settling for something that you truly don't want deep
down.
The next thing that you have to understand is the actual substrata of men on YouTube.
Okay, the substrata of men on YouTube is like a very small minority of people.
It's typically men who have already been in relationships and have been cheated on, or
men who are bitter or men who cannot attract women or speak or have any social skills at
all.
These are the types of men that gravitate towards YouTube, and then all of a sudden
they're looking for influencers.
They're looking for other people to give them the direction.
They're looking for other men to give them dating advice.
But here's the problem is that they're coming into it with a predisposition of being bitter
and angry in the first place.
You have to understand that there's lots of culture.
There's lots of people in the world that have amazing relationships and amazing families
and amazing times with a companion, and they do just fine.
Okay, because you get what you focus on.
If you're focusing on the negative, if you're constantly telling yourself this is bullshit.
All women are like this, I'm never going to have what I want.
Because it's impossible, well, then that's what you are.
That's what you become.
If you tell yourself the reverse, and you tell yourself, I'm going to focus on the positive,
I'm going to figure out how to do this in the right format.
Well, that's what you're going to get.
Because here's the thing in order to have a strong sense of well being you have to understand
the backbone to how good you're going to feel is going to be the things that really make
humans come together, like rock solid families, right having companionship with another person
that can help guide you on Your mission and you can help guide her on hers, you got to
realize these things are bread and butter to actually human beings flourishing and not
destroying one another.
So if you actually look at the bigger picture here, you can do this without gains and Bs,
if you start focusing on the right things, if you gravitate towards your attention to
this middle column here, what you're going to understand that seeing what this other
person what this woman is about, is one of the biggest keys to actually having success
with this.
Because you have to understand, most men actually do not know what the woman is about.
They're doing whatever they can to get into that woman's pants as fast as possible.
And it's a completely different way of looking at things.
If you do that.
That's what she's going to think that you're qualifying her on, which means she's going
to follow suit, you have to understand I've been there before.
I've made it my mission for so many years, every time a woman would come into my vicinity,
or I'd go out on a date or she would come to my house.
I would purposely see how fast I could try to sleep with her.
And then that's what would happen is that I would be running into all of these issues
when I stopped doing that.
I actually took some time to see what this woman is about what are her goals?
What are her values?
What is her thoughts on her way of living?
Okay, because one of the best things that I've learned through businesses is hire slow
fire fast if you hire slow fire fast well now you're not going to run until the turmoil
the bullshit the games, because you're slow to commit, you're slow to say yes, this is
the person I would like potentially, you're slow to give her any sort of commitment.
You're slow to do any things of this because you're half the equation as the man to your
your mental physical, emotional well being matters just as much as hers, which means
you need to be looking out for yourself at the same time while screening the woman Okay,
what this means to fire fast is that on the date or in the interactions in the first few
weeks, if I notice that her goals, values and thoughts on ways of late of living does
not necessarily match mine, or she's all about different things that I'm not all about.
You got to understand it's not going to work.
I don't care how big her asses I don't care about I'm looking out for my well being and
the structure of my life.
And when you can do that, and you're not necessarily so quick to fall in love based off of her
beauty, this is when you can have success because what this should be this woman that
you potentially are seeing as you should potentially have a common mission or a goal together that
you can potentially see yourself aligning with.
So that way you guys are potentially better together than you would be apart.
The whole goal with this is that you have to realize it's 5050.
And she has to want it as much or even slightly more than you do.
Because as a woman, she's going to naturally want a strong man in her life, potentially
a leader to help throughout the relationship.
This is also key.
So what you need to do as you're actually meeting these women is you need to take notes
of their habits because actions speak so much louder than words.
If you met her through DMS.
That means she's probably met a lot of guys through DMS.
If you met her on Tinder, that means she's meeting guys on Tinder.
If you met her on Bumble, that means she's meeting guys on Bumble.
It's not going to work.
If you want a girlfriend In 2020, without games without Bs, you need to let the Actions
speak louder than the words if you're hanging out with her and her snapchats blowing up,
she's constantly talking about drama, about media about all of these other things.
Well, it's not going to work with my current relationship.
One of the things that stuck out to me in the beginning is that when I was actually
discussing these things about life with her during the first few weeks or the first month,
it she said, I really wish that relationships were like the olden days, as if my grandparents
were where they met each other and things were just smooth by default, because she doesn't
necessarily need to gravitate towards Snapchat and Instagram and all of these things, she's
actually looking for human to human qualities.
This is going to be harder than ever in 2020 Make no mistake, you have your work cut out
for you.
But I do not want any of you to settle for the shallow being when your deep intuition
tells you that you want a partner that has massive compatibility with massive attraction
with and not only that somebody you can actually flourish with to keep your mental well being
saying as well as her as a potential Have something beautiful one day.
This is my best advice to you.
It is possible but you need to start playing the route of positivity of positive masculinity
and actually set your future up for success not just shallow level failures.
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