My Ghosts on this episode of Demons Row Tv
we talk being a father and a 1%er
the decisions you gotta make
the times you gotta get up and go
do you put your kids first club first we get into it
on this episode of Demons Row TV
and oh yea we Ghostin baby
My ghosts welcome to Demons Row TV The Holy Grail of MC Culture
where we cover everything motorcycle club involved
im Sose The Ghost im your host for the evening
and today were gonna talk about fatherhood being a 1%er
MC doesn't matter kind of club your in
i just say 1%er cuz i speak from my perspective
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but lets get into it being a 1%er
and a father there's a lot of misconceptions
on if your in a 1% club
do you have to drop everything and run
when it comes to the club
now there is truths to that there are gonna be times
when you just gotta pick up and go
and theres no if ands or buts about it
you gotta go you gotta go
but its not how its said where
its you gotta choose your club over your family
over your kids all of that
now every club is different and everybody got a different way of doing things
there are brothers that will leave there family flat
and just straight up rock the club to the death
and then there the majority of brothers that
balance family life and club
you can be a great father
and be a mc i know some of the best fathers
in the world in mc culture
coming from a crip background where almost everybody i knew was a baby father
has problems with his baby mom baby mom has him in child support
he never sees the kid
its that type of messed up relationship
and im not saying everybody in gangs
are on that note but it was alot of that
in gang culture in mc culture
theres alot of fathers with there kid with the
with the baby version of
of the cut on of the clubs vest on
with the insignia on it there alot more cookouts
and family vibe stuff
that goes on in mc culture so its not
the type of culture where you just give up on your family
and its just all about your brothers
that is not the way it is done
now ima share you my personal story about my daughter
my daughter was born i was up
i was upnorth i was in Gowanda
and her mother was going threw alot of ship while i was up
so they took her away ACS took her away
in NY thats what they call child services its ACS
they took her away from her mother so
one of the worst feelings you could ever feel is being up north and hearing
that your child is basically in a similar situation
not in the danger your in when your up
but you know knowing that she doesn't have her freedom
that was like the worst 10 months of my life
and it changed me as a man
i think completely different after all of that
fastforward i come home i do what i gotta do
i get custody of my daughter
and what happens i have her for a couple years
i raise her by myself
and i decide her mother comes crying to me
o gimme a chance gimme a chance so i give her back to her
and what happens
she gets taken away again so
i had to take custody of her and were not gonna play that game anymore
shes just gonna be with me from now on
but alot of fathers shout to all the fathers
that are raising daughters on there own
it is alot more popular then people think
people big up women all the time
and i big them up too for the job that they do with our children
but never discount the men
that are out here the mcs any type of man
that holds down his child there is
no club in this world that could tell u not
to be a father and if they do thats not the club for you
so the juggling act of being a good brother
in a mc
and being a great father
there will be times when something crazys going on
and you need to be there and you might not
be able to be there for your child
it doesn't mean your not a great father its just sometimes
some things will take precedence
and i dont mean
to constantly not be in there life but there will be
situations where your club really needs you
and you have to make that decision
is this more important or am i going to a
recital am i going to a basketball game
you gotta weigh out your options and pick out your battles
and having a good president
makes it alot easier having good brothers in your club
that are good fathers thereself
it makes it easier having a good president
makes it alot easier
to navigate when it comes to family life
and doing things and also
in clubs if you got the ol ladys
try to utilize then try to work as a team
if you need your child to be watched
ol ladys step it up
offer yo listen ill take
the baby so you and the brothers could go do what you gotta do
when you come back whatever ill make sure shes fed and all that
work like a fine oiled machine
if everybody works together your gonna have
that supreme team let me know in the comments any brothers that have
custody of there kid let me know some storys
cuz you know i love kicking it back and forth
on some stories about how you guys live your lives
its crazy how were all just connected
on so many levels and the reason why
i wanted to bring up fatherhood is because
everybody just talks about what happened
in the news and what club got locked up
you know try to name clickbait
and use a club that's populars name
to just get more clicks and i just want to be as real
as possible i wanna talk protocol
i wanna talk about the shit that ive been threw
pros and cons im not gonna make myself look like super gangsta
ima show every aspect
of myself being a father
ex crip a 1%er
all the things i been threw in my life i want
some young boys that dont have a father that dont have OGs
puttin it down for them to watch this
show and get something out of it to learn something
to not have to go threw the shit i had to go threw
as a child
cuz i had a ruff childhood my father was gone
my father left when i was 4
then he wasnt back in my life till i was 28 so
alot of the knowledge that some of yall take for granted
that yall got from yall fathers i didnt receive that
so now i wanna pay that forward
all of the trials and tribulations all the shit
that i done seen growing up in new york i wanna use that
and feed that to the young
and thats our job in mc culture
we all have to take that upon our shoulders all the
knowledge we have
pass it on to the next stop holding it
there's no more Ogs left no more real OGs giving game
thats the most important thing and thats why
my era was so fucked up with the 80s
with crack and everything i feel
like the OGs do not
did not teach
and did not protect the next generation
and thats what im here for ima protect this culture
ima protect the young boys thats coming up
and any game i could give im always gonna give
cuz thats just what this channels about so if you respect
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