hi guys um this is ronnie as you know
and you know what i've been thinking
a lot about the last
couple videos that i've made and
i just really really i'm just so
sorry that i've never taught you guys
how to apologize
so here's my apology video do you need
to learn how to apologize to someone
let's do it
first of all you need to figure out what
are you apologizing for
now what does this mean there's about
three different
reasons why you need to apologize one
you did something wrong okay or you did
something bad
let's say that you see a kangaroo
on the street and you just take out your
gun and shoot it
that's bad okay
no matter how arrogant the kangaroo
might seem to you
you just cannot kill them as much as you
want to so
what you're going to do is you're going
to admit that you were wrong
or you're going to admit that you did
something bad
and you're going to say i am so
so sorry
that i killed your kangaroo now the
trick about english is the more
words that you say the more formal
or serious you seem so you can even
throw in another so here if you'd like
you could say i am
so so so sorry
it helps if you close your eyes a lot
fake tears
are always a good option that i killed
your kangaroo
your kangaroo is annoying but don't say
that just
end and go off stage go just that's all
you need because you don't want to get
into more trouble
next one you made a mistake so this
could be at work right
okay so you're working you're doing your
best job you're hungover
oh but you just made a mistake and
that's normal that's natural
why because we're humans but maybe your
boss or your co-worker is angry and
so to smooth things over which means
make things good again you're going to
apologize
because you made a mistake and you're
going to say wow oh
oh that was stupid of me oh i'm sorry
that i sent the wrong file to my boss
okay i just got confused
blame some caffeine blame it on the
coronavirus because of the coronavirus
it's the greatest excuse right now
blame it on everything but make sure you
tell them what you're sorry for
and apologize i'm sorry that i sent the
wrong file
please accept my apology now
there's the thing about accepting an
apology people will say
you need to say you're sorry so you go
oh i'm sorry
and the people no it's not good enough
what do you mean it's not good enough i
just apologized
so it's better not to ask them if they
accept your apology just
straight up apologize and then carry on
exit stage again one more time now
this one it's a very special one
somebody else is upset maybe you said
something
or maybe you did something that the
other person didn't like
we use this a lot in our relationships
and i'm getting a feeling it has a lot
to do with men
okay i have a feeling that women get
upset about things because we're very
emotional people most of us
and you know your boyfriend or your
husband or your partner or
somebody else does something that upsets
you so you tell them
i'm upset i want an apology and that's
normal i do that
um or you say something
that you believe to be true but other
people don't think so
and then they they get mad okay so
you can very easily say to the people
i'm sorry that you
feel that way but
it's not my intention so you're not
really apologizing for something you did
because
honestly you don't think you did
anything wrong and
the other person says oh yeah they
apologize to me
this actually has a cool meaning too
it's called a backhanded apology
so that means that you are apologizing
but
not really apologizing but we're not
going to go into that
i'm sorry works very well um but make
sure you know exactly
what the person is angry at because you
could get into more trouble now
the last one is oh we use this so much
in canada this is so crazy
just to be polite um i've talked about
this before
i'm going to the supermarket i have my
cart remember
and somebody walks in front of me
they say i'm sorry meanwhile i kinda
walked in front of them so we say sorry
sorry sorry sorry to be polite to people
um if i'm walking behind someone and
they don't hold the door open for me
which happens actually people say oh i'm
sorry
oh that's cool i'll get the door myself
that's fine
so we use this a lot to be polite we
don't really mean oh my god i'm so sorry
i didn't know the door we're just saying
like excuse me it's more
excuse me another way that we say this
is my bad
this is a very common slang expression
my bad
and i was like oh that's an apology now
that's cool so
my apology video is make sure
that you know what you're apologizing
for and
don't apologize for things that you're
not really sorry for
oh maybe if it's in a relationship you
gotta do that okay so good luck out
there
i hope everyone has a fantastic time and
sorry
you