this video I'm gonna show you how 90% of attracting a relationship our love is
complete when you change this one belief and I'm gonna show you exactly how to do
that welcome back to another video my name's
Erin and I hope people expand their consciousness now in this video I'm
gonna show you how you when you change one belief 90% of attracting a
relationship or more love into your life is complete and it's something that
happens quickly now understand first off our beliefs create our reality so
whatever we believe to be true on the inside is then reflected to us on the
outside so what a lot of people do is they go around and they try to change
the outside that's what I did for years I would go around trying to change the
way things were happening almost trying to control things probably look like a
little maniacs trying to control everything in my life however when I
then realized that it's not about what I can do out here it's about what I can
change or not even change but let go of the limiting beliefs that we're keeping
me in a reality where I wasn't experiencing abundance or love or
perfect or you know great health when I realized that that's when I change my
beliefs then my outer reality began to change now here is what I realized
recently about this process now we're going to be focusing on that of
understanding love and relationships in this video however more important than
this in general though is an understanding for how reality works then
give it like this so we have that and by the way if this camera gets a little
foggy I might do this a couple times just to make it so that it's not so
foggy because so humid here in Tulum Mexico for those you don't know I've
been living in Tulum Mexico for a month after this I go to Costa Rica for a
month and then I'll be going back to the States for a while and then traveling
and stuff like that doing the events and stuff however this is how it works okay
and get back on my train of thought so the we have our beliefs about
relationships our beliefs about money our beliefs about health now we can go
through and look at our beliefs about health say what do I believe about how
I believe it's easy to lose weight do I believe that in order to do so I have to
count my calories and I have to be very strict with myself or that if I did do
it I eat food that didn't taste good like what are my beliefs about health
then we could look at that I could let go of limiting beliefs and you become
aware that maybe growing up we had a couple times we had to eat our broccoli
or something and we started to associate pain with the green vegetables you know
we could look at those beliefs and we can then let them go once we realize
that at some point in the past we just agreed that this kind of food doesn't
taste good or we were just realized that we've been so stimulated by other food
that that's what we thought we needed in order to be happy or then we could go to
that of money and said well my parents believe this about money and I can look
at my own beliefs about money and see you know maybe that's not true for
myself and we can work on our beliefs about money and then we could go over
love and relationships and say well what are the first relationships I was in
somebody was treating me like this and I had been thought that I wasn't worthy or
my parents treated me like this growing up and then see what those limiting
beliefs are about that of of relationships however this is what I
found to be even more powerful instead of going under each individual category
whether that is love money or health or whatever another category spirituality
many different categories what about understanding how reality
works in general what if we believed that things had to man if I things were
hard to manifest so we thought money was hard to manifest we thought that
relationships were hard to manifest we thought it was hard to manifest a
perfect body if we believe things are hard then they will be hard you see
that's a self-fulfilling prophecy that's a general core belief so it's a core
belief versus these individual beliefs but what I found is when you get to your
core belief then everything else happens automatically because it's all connected
so if you start to understand that the way reality works is reality is so much
more flexible than you can imagine it to be then reality will become more
flexible and it'll be easier to manifest a relationship it'll be easier to
manifest more money it'll be easy to manage
the perfect body because you've let go of believing things have to be hard
so what quantum physics shows us as well is that we are constantly shifting
through these different realities there's every possible reality you can
imagine it already exists there's a version of you that's already in the
perfect relationship there's a version of you that already has the ideal body
that you prefer that you are the perfect energy there's a version of you just
living an abundant lifestyle doing what you love all of these versions of you
already exists and the cool thing about that is then you can focus on okay this
version of me already exists you can then use your imagination to imagine
what does that version of me believe I call it belief hacking you look at this
version of you what do they believe about money about relationships about
health about reality in general but when you start to question your reality
instead of seeing it as this solid thing where this linear fashion the story that
we tell ourselves about how reality works where things are very hard you
have to do this and then you have to do this and you have to do this and if you
want to be successful then you have to go to school for four years of college
and you have to do this and you have to climb up the corporate ladder that's all
a story it's all a belief system that we may have been bought into but when you
start to see that there are other opportunities you start to spread the
awareness out of that you then see that things can be much more magical but it's
about challenging the belief that reality is so solid and real understand
reality is a dream you're dreaming right now that this is the real reality you're
in spirit right now dreaming projecting your consciousness here on earth to have
the experience and this experience that you have and you may have lived most of
your life not knowing that you are an eternal spiritual being live in a
temporary human experience and in these higher realms of consciousness you have
more ability to create magic what we'd consider be magic here you create there
naturally because that's who you are that's the higher realms things happen
quicker here we have time-space reality so we can have the experience that
things take a while the man fast that you have to put your intention
into something and then you have to focus on it for a period of time and
then eventually you can experience it once you allow it into your life that's
a story it is a collective thing we've agreed to this whole time-space reality
thing but understand that you can create things easier than ever when you get
into alignment especially so alignment is a high vibrational state alignment is
about really letting go of the limiting belief so what is the one belief that
when you change 90 percent of attracting love in a relationship is complete
believing things are easy things are easy if you believe they're hard if you
believe that it's something that takes a lot of time to do and it's something
that takes a lot of resistance to do then you create a lot of resistance
because it's a self-fulfilling prophecy but if you allow it to be easy
it will then become and be easy if you allow yourself to realize that it's
really about alignment more than it is hard work that changes everything it's
really about the vibrational state that you're going into it
you've probably seen me share that vibration that vibrational vibrational
the vibrational scale of consciousness that I've shared before and you have at
the bottom like shame fear guilt anger all the way up to joy love and peace
enlightenment as you raise your frequency manifestation is easier and
easier as you raise your frequency what happens though is some people their
beliefs their limited beliefs are not worthy I had this pain in my past that
might keep them in a lower vibration so then they're trying to attract love in a
relationship but they're trying to do it from the states where they don't feel so
good the key is to let go of that to let go
of the belief that things have to be hard and a lot of that has to do with
realizing that you can stop putting things on a pedestal stop putting a
relationship on a pedestal love on a pedestal and also just start focusing on
your own worthiness on being in the start of your own movie you see a lot of
people when they want to attract a relationship
what they're doing is when they meet people they're already
vetting them for are they are they gonna last or not can this be
the perfect person for me it's putting on this huge pedestal and giving them a
lot of pressure - how'd you meet someone like hey so what are your plans for the
future and it's like it's like they can feel that you know attracting the love
in a relationship is about you first being the star of your own movie
remember this is a cause this is a dream that we're having right now you're an
eternal spiritual being a high vibrational being who's dreaming this is
who you are but then what happens is we believe at a certain point that in order
to be happy we have to have someone else in our life that is certain is a certain
way and if we could have them then be a certain way and then provide us a
certain level of happiness then eventually we can be happy but this is a
dream called life and in this dream called life you are already whole and
complete and you can enjoy this dream of life by not having the belief and the
rule that you even need someone to begin with no yes it can be nice it can
enhance your journey you could have a soulmate or somebody that you're meant
to be connected to however what I'm sharing is that beyond if you come at it
from that frame that you need someone else it automatically puts them on a
pedestal if you come at it from the frame that I am the star of my own movie
I know this is my dream of life I'm not gonna be the cameo in someone else's
movie at the beck and call of someone else hoping they'll just like give me
some attention because then we could be in a relationship but when you start to
realize you are the star of your own movie and that things can be easy how do
you know things can be easy you realize that everything that is hard is self
perpetuated it's because we believe things need to be hard so it's about
letting go of the belief that things need to be hard it's not about believing
things can be easy not letting go of belief that things are
hard when you realize that the more you raise your vibration the more in
alignment you get it then becomes easier then the focus is how can I increase my
vibration how can I enjoy myself more how can I be the star of my own movie
how can I have fun how can I feel worthiness you see this mindset ship
that I'm sharing in this video changes everything because most people that are
trying to attract love in a relationship and I know that was myself for a while
as well was assuming that someone else would make me happy but then I would be
happy then I'd feel whole and complete then I would be worthy but if we don't
realize that we are the star of our own movie and this is why one of the things
I say as well for attracting love in a relationship make sure that you're first
doing what you love and if not then fall in love with yourself and fall in love
with what you could be doing to add value to other people or fall in love
with what your passion could be because when you fall in love with what your
passion could be or you start asking the question some people say oh I don't know
what my passion is so the intention just said the intention
I intend to find out what my passion could be I intend and then be open to
what happens be open to different synchronicities
but understand when you set that intention you'll start to get feedback
as to what that could be then as you get that feedback you can then you can then
direct it and say oh maybe it's this maybe this is an act on certain things
and figure it out set the intention you you trust yourself you set the intention
you'll find out more of what that is and then when you're doing what you're
passionate about you're most like you're at your true frequency and then you're
gonna meet somebody else who's at their true frequency who's then a match but if
you're working a job you hate you're not in your true frequency how can they find
you you're not putting out their call imagine what your true frequency you're
putting out this mating call and this mating call then they can hear it and
then they vibrationally come towards you but if you're not doing what you're
passionate about then you're putting out some mixed signal and you're attracting
other people that are putting out mixed signals and then it might not be the
most fulfilling relationship so 90% of attracting love in a relationship when
you change the belief that things have to be hard when you change the belief
that you even need them then you're more likely to actually attract them because
then you're in a relationship with yourself you're feeling self-love you're
feeling gratitude for you you're in your start you're the star of
your own movie and because you're the star of your own movie you can then
perceive of them you can then and then they'll feel that off of you as well
there's a certain gravity that you that you have when you realize that you're
the star of your own movie so the point of this video is to understand what do
you believe about reality itself do you believe that reality is hard to attract
love a relationship do you believe it's hard to attract money or hard to have
the the perfect body image that you'd like to have if you believe it's hard
than what you're convenient to do is to question that belief question that
belief and understand that the more you let go of the beliefs that no longer
serve the more you'll allow in amazing things my life as I yes I do what I love
and I do work hard work hard I don't really work hard I work time because I
love what I do but I'll tell you what the more momentum I built the easier
things are the more success comes with way
effort it's because I built up that momentum what I encourage you to do is
to build up the momentum of you being passionate in life you doing what you
love you increasing the excitement in the passion you be in the star of your
own movie give up the belief that things have to be hard give up the belief that
you're not worthy already but you're not the star of your own movie and realize
you are the star of your own movie you are worthy homeland complete change the
meanings you gave to certain things in the past of a girlfriend or boyfriend
breaking up with you of a way that your mom or dad or family member may have
treated you and realize you're worthy for being you and the more you focus on
perspectives like this the more things really begin to change now something
that I have and just read the comments to see what I'm talking about the most
popular meditation I have is over 1 million views and it's them we call it
this title the most powerful meditation for attracting love in a relationship if
you listen for 21 days I do believe it will change your life and you'll start
to experience more love in your life than ever before read the comments
there's hundreds of comments of people that have attracted love after listening
to that meditation for 21 days and what you can do is just click on that
meditation below check out the comments that will increase the belief inside of
yourself and then when you listen to it you'll find that you then start to
experience more and more of this love but you give yourself permission really
but that meditation is something that's very powerful you can listen for 21 days
to the top of the description box below and also link in the comment and section
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other than that as always I will see you on the next video peace
much love and namaste