Hello my wonderful friend. Let's talk about girls, specifically how to know if
a girl likes you. In today's video I'm going to be sharing with you some of the
most obvious signs that a girl likes you. The worst thing in the world is to get
your hopes up, think someone likes you, and then find out that they really don't
and be crushed. Or on the flip side to think someone doesn't like you when she
really does and just end up having her move on because you didn't make a move.
So knowing how to know if a girl likes you is critical. And some of the most
obvious signs can be a real lifesaver. I'm going to be sharing some of the most
obvious signs with you today, but before we get started I want to mention that if
this is your first time watching or if you have not yet subscribed now is a
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is Melannie, I'm a dating coach for Christian men. I help men find and
attract the girl of your dreams and I don't want you to miss out on any of the
fabulous tips I have coming so be sure to subscribe. Also before we get started
I want to mention that after I share these obvious signs with you I do have
some cautions that you have to be sure you pay attention to. So be sure you
watch to the end. I also have a special gift for you that will help you be able
to find and attract your dream girl a lot easier. So be sure to watch to the
end for that as well. I recently released a video on the top
five signs that a girl likes you. If you have not seen it yet this is what it
looks like. I will put a link in the description below and actually at the
end of this video too so be on the lookout for that one. It has some fabulous
tips that will really be beneficial for you. I also did one that looks like this,
that is How to Know if A Shy Girl Likes You. And that obviously is really
helpful if you're crushing on a shy girl, but let's face it some girls are much
more bold. And so knowing some of the most obvious signs, these are signs that
are like just screaming that she is very interested, she wants to get to know
you better, and knowing some of the most obvious ones honestly sometimes is all
you need to know. So let's get started with five of the
most obvious signs that a girl likes you. If you see these signs it's like
really, really obvious that she likes you. Number one. She suggests that you do
things together. Let's pretend you're talking to her
about like a new movie or a new restaurant or something fun you did and
she says "Wow that sounds so fun. We should totally do that sometime." That's
pretty much as obvious as you can get. She wants to spend time with you. Now one
thing to be aware of with this particular sign is make sure that she
wants to spend time with you one-on-one. If she's suggesting that you and a
group of friends do it or you and a specific friend, if it's a
specific friend she's trying to get to the friend unfortunately, but if it's
like you and a group of friends, that could mean one of two things. It either
means that she is too nervous to let you know she wants to do something with just
you quite yet, or it means that she's just interested in doing it with a group
of friends. So that is one thing to be aware of.
However if she's like wanting you and her to go do it, no that's like as
obvious we can get. Number two is she leaves her friends to be with you. Let's
say you're at some kind of social setting, maybe your at like a singles
activity or some kind of party, if she leaves her groups of- Her groups? [laughter] She has
several groups of friends. If she leaves her group of friends to be with you,
that's like, that's huge. Her group of friends are like the most
important people to her in this area. And so if she leaves the people she feels
safest with, the people she enjoys the most, to talk to you, to be with you, that
says something about how much you matter to her. Tip number three. Do her friends
act differently when you're around. Let's face it, if our friends know who
we're crushing on they act different when that person is around. Either
because they are teasing us and like poking us in the ribs and, you know,
giving us a hard time and mortifying us us. Or they're trying to get that
special someone to notice you even more. So they keep like bringing her up or
trying to pull your attention towards her. That's like a really good sign.
Especially with girls because girls let their friends know usually, unless
they're like painfully shy, most of the time girls friends know who we're
crushing on. And so if they're acting a little bit different that's a
very good sign. Speaking of which drop me a comment if
your friends have ever done that to you. It can be kind of a painful
experience so let's commiserate together. So all you have to do is just
type in yes. And if you would like to elaborate, by all means go for it.
Number four. She blushes when you are around. This one resonates with me. I feel
like this is something I probably do a lot and don't know. If she's blushing
when you're around or when she's like talking to you, interacting with you, that's-
seriously that's one of the most obvious signs you can get. Number five. If she
uses "we" instead of "you" or "I". If she is using "we", well then she's like, she's
committed to like- she likes you, she's already seen in her mind
how you could like be a couple and how that would be cute.
She she would like to be close to you. If she's using the word "we", even if
she doesn't see you as a couple, she is certainly thinking towards that
direction and wanting to get to know you better. So if she uses "we" instead of "you"
or "I", that is an incredibly good sign that she likes you. That is it for my
five signs however I have a bonus one that I'm gonna give you right now. And
that is if she follows you on social media. Especially for girls who don't
know you very good or who aren't quite as bold, she'll follow you on social
media because she's looking for a way to connect with you. She's looking for a way
to start up a conversation, to know a little bit more about you, to get you to
notice her. This is especially true if she tries
to interact. Again if she's more shy she may not interact at times, she may just
like your stuff every now and again. But if she likes you she's going to find you
on social media, she's going to like every picture of you, she can find, and
she definitely is trying to get you to notice her. Now, we've got to go through our
cautions. These are so important. Guys, the last thing I want is for this to not
work the way it's supposed to. So it's very important that you pay attention to
these so you do not misinterpret and end up getting hurt.
I did mention these in my Top Five Signs that a Girl Likes You. They are very
worth going over again so let's just get started. Number one is to look for a
chain of signals. Do not just assume because you see one signal that by
default "oh she's interested." Look for a chain.
If she's interested there will be a chain of signals. What I mean by a chain of
signals is not just one signal, but like three to five. Each girl is going to be
different this is why it's it's so beneficial to know a lot of different
signals. Because not every girl is going to use every signal. So the more you're
familiar with, the easier it will be for you to read these signs. Again if this is
something you're interested in learning more about I talk about it more in
How to Find and Attract Your Dream Girl, which is my membership area. I will put links down
below if you'd like to learn more about that. But basically, do not just assume
one sign means "oh hey she's interested." Look for more
than one. Caution number two is established what is normal.
Are you the exception? Does she show these signals and these signs towards
everyone? Or are you the exception? For instance a girl who literally follows
everyone on social media and comments and likes and interacts on social media
with everyone, that's not necessarily a signal. It could be, but it's hard to tell.
However if instead she's more shy, more reserved, doesn't do a lot on social
media, doesn't interact a lot on social media, but she does with you, that is a
very good sign. Last one is to keep it in context. Does she leave her friends to
talk to you because she has something important she has to tell you?
Or does she do that just casually and frequently? Is she blushing when she's around
you because something really embarrassing just happened? Or she has to
tell you something that makes her uncomfortable? Or does she just blush
around you no matter what because she thinks you're cute?
So that's it. If you follow these cautions you should be pretty safe to be
able to know if a girl likes you. The truth is if a girl likes you the
signs are everywhere because it's actually really hard to hide when you're
feeling that much attraction and interest. As I mentioned I have a special
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If you want to be a total heartthrob, you want to be the things on this list.
All you have to do is click the link in the description below. It'll ask for your
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heartthrob be sure to check that out. Thank you so much again for watching my
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I don't know that I did anything funny today... I'll have to try harder tomorrow.