Hey everyone, and welcome to TopThink. Today, we will learn about ten principles most people take
a lifetime to learn. Now, let’s begin.
Giving life advice is a tricky business. Most of the time, the best advice anyone
can give is that life is far too complicated and unpredictable to define by a simple set
of rules… though that doesn’t stop us from trying. It’s human nature to impose rules and
principles onto the world around us. We want life to make sense. We want it to abide by
repeatable patterns and organized routines, but that’s not really the way life works, does it?
For better or for worse, most pieces of life advice are as vague and circumstantial as life
itself, but that doesn’t mean these kernels of wisdom are useless or unhelpful. To many people,
they are guiding lights, allowing you to make sense of the confusing world unfolding all around
you. This is the real value of life advice. It’s not designed to give you an exact set of rules
or to solve every problem in your life. Instead, the secrets of life, which you hear from family,
teachers, and mentors, are there to give you a helping hand and spare you from making the same
mistakes as the people before you. While it’s unlikely you will encounter the same
problems as they did, their wisdom can help you make sense of your struggles and quickly
find value in life’s many challenges. To that end, there is a long list of
profound principles that can and will aid you on your journey through life.
In this video, we’re going to cover ten of the most important and common principles, which
you will almost definitely recognize in your own experiences. By no means is this an all-inclusive
list of the world’s wisdom. However, if you listen until the end, you might realize that
all of these principles relate to hidden truths you have been struggling to find on your own.
Instead of wasting years trapped in toxic patterns and self-destructive cycles, you can learn how to
improve your life, rethink your problems, and eventually set yourself free. So, take
these ten principles to heart, and you may learn these lifelong lessons years ahead of your time.
1. The Value of Rest Many people place a tremendous amount of value on
hard work and self-discipline. We force ourselves to work long hours, invest every ounce of effort,
and push as hard as we can. But most people don’t realize that life is more than one long workday.
The truth is that rest and relaxation are just as valuable as hard work and self-discipline.
Taking a break, for example, provides a necessary breath of fresh air,
giving you some perspective on your problems and helping you to approach difficult situations with
a cool head. Resting as needed also helps you avoid physical and emotional burnout,
which can take a much larger toll on your life. Without breaks and vacations, you simply cannot
perform at your best. So, don’t hesitate to rest when you need it. Take a day off every
once in a while. Get away from work, turn off your work phone, and disconnect from all your
everyday responsibilities. In other words, give yourself a break. Chances are… you really need it.
2. Character vs. Reputation Do you often worry about what
people think of you? We make all kinds of sacrifices to improve our reputations. You
may gain some sense of satisfaction from the good other people see in you, but do
you see the same amount of good in yourself? In life, who you are as a person matters much
more than who people think you are. Other people might dislike you, look down on you,
and underestimate you, but the only thing that matters is whether or not you respect yourself.
Your character will always be more valuable to you than your reputation. As long as you remain
the kind of person you genuinely like, you can be proud of yourself and confident in your decisions.
3. Inevitable Mistakes
In life, mistakes are inevitable. No one in the world has lived their life without
messing up in some way. Even the most successful people have failed more times than you realize.
They’ve said the wrong things. They’ve made stupid decisions. They’ve taken risks and
fallen flat on their faces. These mistakes are, in many ways, a necessary part of life.
In other words, there’s no such thing as perfection in any aspect of your life.
Everything has its flaws. Everyone makes mistakes. Unless you’re willing to accept those mistakes and
learn from them, you may waste your life chasing a vision of perfection that doesn’t exist.
4. The Fear of Letting Go You, like many people, may spend
your life trying to keep things exactly as they are. You may be afraid of change. You may worry
that giving up what you have now will leave you filled with regret.
For example, you might be holding onto a comfortable but unsatisfying job. Or maybe
you’re lingering in a relationship that you know deep down isn’t strong enough to last.
As terrifying as it sounds to plunge into the known, change is a good thing.
It takes many people a lifetime to learn this lesson, but change is the only way
our lives improve. If you leave things as they are now, nothing will ever change,
and, down the road, that’s what you will regret the most. Not the risks you took.
Not the mistakes you made. But all the time you wasted being afraid to let go.
5. Don’t Be a Duplicate We all want to fit in and be
accepted by our communities. So, we make choices that we believe our people will accept and admire.
As a result, many of us are hyper-aware of what is popular. But it takes a lifetime to
learn a powerful lesson about “fitting in”: it’s not as satisfying or meaningful as you think.
The truth is that copying other people will never bring you the strong sense of identity that you
want and need. In almost every situation, it’s better to be yourself and make your own choices,
instead of following in the footsteps of the people around you. While you can learn and improve
thanks to the wisdom of others, you’ll never be satisfied trying to embody anybody but yourself.
So, be unique, be an individual, and take pride in the things that make you different.
6. Attitude Is Everything
How you approach an experience completely changes your perception and mood.
If you’re pessimistic and self-defeating, you’re not going to have a good experience
or find the success you crave. On the other hand, if you are positive and enthusiastic, it doesn’t
matter what you’re doing; you will always gain something positive from the experience.
In many ways, life is a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you expect the worst, the worst will come. But
if you look for happiness in the world and spread positivity, you’re bound to find the
same happiness everywhere you go. 7. Reasons to Do Good
We all know that helping people is a good thing to do, yet we avoid helping people unless there is a
clear reason to do so. But here’s the truth. You don’t need a reason to do good things.
Don’t wait for permission to make other people’s lives better. If you want to do
good in the world, you can start at any moment. For example, why not make helping people a
regular part of your life? Make a choice to help someone simply because you can.
Spreads kindness because you have the kindness to give. Not only will you make
the world a better place, but you’ll also learn to appreciate the things and people that you have.
8. The Right Critics When you invest your
heart and soul into something, the last thing you want is to be criticized.
But listening to your critics can teach you valuable lessons that you may learn on your own.
There are two different types of critical people in the world. Some critics will attack your work
to make themselves feel better, but others only criticize your work to help you improve.
These are the kinds of people you need in your life. Otherwise, you, like many people,
may live your whole life in a shallow box, unable to see the problems right in front of you.
As painful as it can be, don’t run away from your critics, especially the good ones. Always try to
consider what your friends and allies have to offer. Listen to their constructive criticism,
and you may discover new ways to grow and improve. 9. Relish Those Little Moments
We spend most of our time thinking and stressing about big decisions in our lives.
We worry about the future. We think about career paths, relationships, and our place in the world…
but how often do you slow down and relish the little things in life?
Often the best things in life aren’t big decisions or life-altering experiences.
They’re small moments of calm, happiness, and peace. No matter how busy your life
gets or how much pressure is on your shoulders, never forget to appreciate the little things.
Because those small, beautiful moments make life worth living.
10. Life Is Full of Surprises Sometimes, life hits you with a curveball.
Most of the time, the biggest surprises happen when you least expect them,
and there’s nothing you can do to change or prevent what life has in store for you.
Instead of trying to control the unpredictable tides of your life,
why not focus on what you can control? Your environment may change. The people around
you will come and go. But through every stage of life, you will always have control over yourself.
In other words, you can always make good choices and become the kind of person you are proud to
be. Regardless of your circumstances, or the surprises that come your way,
you always have the power to do better, live happier, and make your life worthwhile.
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