Do yourself a favor and stop giving women free attention. What does this mean? That means that
you are chasing her down, you are trying to give her your attention plus gifts,
plus compliments. You are giving your all to her and she's not giving you
anything back. She might be and then that's great. That means that it's evening out,
you guys have some sort of relationship going, and maybe you're hooking up or whatever it is.
But do not be giving all of your attention away to her because this is exactly what she wants.
And when she gets that attention, half the time, she's going to drop you to the curb. Because
she's getting what she wants and she doesn't need anything else from you. Plus, she's seeing you as
a beta simp guy because she knows that you're not busy, you have no life, you're doing nothing else,
and you have all this time in the world to give her all of this free attention. Instead,
I want you to be focused on you. I say this a lot on the Tripp Advice channel – focusing on you What
does that mean? That means that you need to keep busy on your path, your purpose, your mission.
What is it that you're here to do on Earth? That's going to solve two things. One,
it's going to keep you busy and it's going to give you some sort of purpose because what
else are you going to be doing with your life? Just sit around? That doesn't sound so fun.
Two, it's going to make you more attractive because women are attracted to
a man with a purpose a mission. Here's what I want you to do right now. I want you to write
down in the comments what you're working on or something that you want to work on.
That we can help all the people watching this video to give us ideas on what this means. What
is it that you're working on? For example, for me, my mission is to help you. That's a little meta
right now. But you understand my mission is here to help you and help as many guys get the women
that they're attracted to. What is your mission? Hit the like button and then write it down below.
Then we can have ideas for what it means for us to be able to spend time doing things other than
chasing women. A woman is supposed to earn your attention. What does this mean? This
means that the women that you're interested in or that one girl that you like, she has to earn it in
the way that she is showing respect to you, and most importantly, showing interest in you. We're
not going to be just giving away attention to a woman that is not at a high level of interest,
versus a low level of interest. What's that? Her never responding to your text messages,
trying to meet up with you, or physically escalating. A woman that you're interested in
has to have a high level of interest in you. And then you can give her your attention. Do you
understand? We don't want to deal with low level of interest women. I talk about this quite a bit
on my podcast. If you haven't checked it out yet, you should. My podcast is called How To Talk To
Girls. I'll put a link down below. You should be able to check that out. There's over 500 episodes
where I go deeper into some of these topics. Again, we're talking about you trying to
find women who have a high interest in you. That means that they're showing up to date,
they're physically escalating with you. I want to say that again, it's so important. They're showing
up on dates, they're physically escalating with you. A lot of guys are chasing women,
giving away all of their attention, even though that girl is not doing either of those.
And then you're just further, boom, digging yourself into the friend-zone. I understand
you have been taught the wrong way. You've probably been taught by your dad or your brother,
or Hollywood. You're getting false examples of what it means to be an attractive guy.
That you have to persist and persist and persist. I even have guy friends and people I've talked to
where I say to them, yeah, you want to make sure you're not talking to the low level of interest
girls, only the high interest. And then I get girls and I get guys telling me stories well no,
Tim he asked me out eight times and I finally decided to say yes. I'm sure that story is
true. And I'm sure there's 1000s of stories like that where a guy persisted and persisted
and they lived happily ever after. If that's what you want to do, that's fine. But you know what
kind of relationship with a girl I would want? The one where I don't have to persist at all,
the one who (snap) likes me right away. I can only imagine what that relationship is going to be
like, versus the ones where the guy has to persist. I have a hunch that some of those
relationships and marriages down the line are probably at the point where the guy is back to
the beta male tendencies and is getting stepped on by his wife or girlfriend. What I want to do is I
want to have a relationship where the girl likes me high interest off the bat. In fact, I have that
right now. And I want you to have that too. I want her so interested right off the bat. And
I'm not saying that she has to be kissing your feet. All I'm saying is she has to
want to show up on a date right away when you ask her out and it's not going to take
several dates to physically escalate. I want her at high interest from the very beginning. That's
what you should want too because that's going to create the dynamic that you want, the one that's
going to be powerful for you and for her. Check out my podcast where I go deeper into this. I
know we already went deep, but there's a lot more to say and I have lots of episodes on these kinds
of topics. It's called How To Talk To Girls. It's on Spotify, Apple and Stitcher, anywhere where you
find podcasts. Click that link and get on that immediately. I don't want to take you away from
the YouTube channel. I want you to go into both. Hope that helps. I'll see you on the next video.