Hello my ENFP friends! I want to talk to you about a very important topic: saying
no. By the way, I'm Dan, Dreams around the world Channel. If you don't yet know me, be
sure to subscribe. Saying no is so important to our success
because as a people, as a people we see all the possibilities, we see everything
that can be and we never ever like to say no to possibilities. Unfortunately,
when you don't say no to one possibility you often close the door to another one
let me give you an example of that I'm just reading this book about a business
in general but it was talking about really you have two types of businesses
you should want to build you have a lifestyle business which is ultimately
what I'm trying to build or have built depending on how you want to look at it
which is where you have between 3 and 12 team members you have a very high profit
per person and you have tons of fun and freedom within the business the other
type is a performance business this would be something like becoming a
Facebook or a hedge fund or something where you are working your ass off and
you have really huge goals another way to look at it is do you want to become
someone who is like a millionaire or do you want to become someone who's like
rich rich you know making ten million dollars a year
billionaire type goals you might say like yeah of course I want to be a
billionaire but be careful with that because once you like if you set your
site to that that is a very very different path than building like a
lifestyle business where you really love what you're doing and you can still take
holidays and all that and if you try to do both at the same time you're gonna go
wrong somewhere and this applies I think in in all areas of life where saying no
to certain possibilities and just determining like I don't really want to
do that here's what I want to do it really helps us focus and helps us see
the destination we want to go to say no to certain opportunities which frees up
more time and more focus and ultimately is more likely to get us to where we
want to go this is somewhat of a new thought for me to be honest and it
really hit home reading this book is I kind of knew the business I wanted to
build but I never thought of it that black and white is if I say my maximum
company size I want to build there's like 10 people and that's where I want
to get to it really makes it easier to envision how get there what the steps
will be everything else rather than saying yeah maybe I'll get to 10 or
maybe a hundred people or maybe I'll build some other business or maybe out
you know XYZ there's too many options it's really hard to visualize how you
get through the steps so I found this thinking to be really helpful just over
the last week and it really hit home with what I've seen with some enfps I've
talked to who are a little more lost where they don't have any sense of where
they should go because they're thinking of everything they could do instead of
really honing in on like one or two things so if you're in this stage where
right now anything is possible start to make the list of maybe the things that
you don't really want and build that list up and then build a list of the
things you really do want and gradually maybe get a little more specific with
those and start to help you narrow down what it actually is you want in life
because I'll tell you that when you do figure out exactly what it is you want
it becomes a lot easier you've become a lot more focused and that scatterbrain
that's always going of like I can do this and this and this is that maybe
ENFP brain starts to quiet down and you do have a lot more focus as well if you
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but you know what is something you don't want in life that helps you free up
another possibility that you do want thanks for watching
you