What do men want in a woman? Today, I'm talking about one huge thing that men
love to find in the women they see and date and seven ways you can represent it. Stay tuned.
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Okay. What do men want in a woman? Today, I'm going through something that men
absolutely love to find in a woman and women love to find it in men, by the way as well.
It's being down to earth. Everyone loves down to earth people. We all get along with people
who are down to earth and it's a really attractive trait that men love to find in a woman, but
how do you demonstrate that you're down to earth? It's kind of a fluid concept. Everyone
puts it in their online dating profiles, right? Everyone knows it's an attractive trait, but
how do you actually demonstrate it? How do you actually show him in that you're down
to earth? In today's video, that's exactly what I'm going to tell you. We're going to
show you seven ways to demonstrate that you are down to earth, to the guys you see and
date. Now, the number one way to demonstrate that you're down to earth is to not be concerned
with the superficial, but down to earth woman still takes pride in her appearance, but she
knows it's not her trump card. She knows it's not her best asset and she doesn't put excessive
focus on it.
Jermia: Oh my god, oh my god. God dammit. Jessie, hey, did I leave my makeup case at
your house? Can you bring it over please, it's an emergency. I have a date in half an
hour. Huh? No, what do you mean you're out with your mom? This is way more important!
[Beep]
Jermia: Dammit. I guess he's getting no makeup Jermia today.
Number two, you don't feel the need to flaunt your achievements. So the down
to earth woman is still proud of what she's done and she's still strides in her own life,
but she doesn't feel the need to put it out there to everyone she sees or dates or meets
just for the sake of it. Modesty, humbleness. You have to kind of pry it out of her.
Mark: So how's everything been going with you lately?
Jermia: Oh, so I get this, this new show I'm in. Me and these other three girls applied
and they gave me the lead role, plus I'd been nominated at the Queensland State Theaterwood
and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna win. Yeah. Plus my YouTube channel has got like 50,000 subscribers
now, which is pretty much double my closest competitor.
[Beep]
Mark: So how's everything been going with you lately?
Jermia: Yeah, really good. Um, yeah, the theater's going great. I got a part that I'm really
excited about and um, it's gonna be a big challenge, so yeah, I'm really looking forward to it.
Mark: Your sister was saying that you've been nominated for like some award, like a top
award in Queensland, something like that?
Jermia: Yeah, a lot of the other people who have been nominated are really, really talented.
So to be even considered in the same league as them is just phenomenal. I'm so honored
by it.
Mark: Oh right, well, and like your YouTube channel is getting huge traction too.
Jermia: Yeah. Yeah. See, people seem to really be resonating with what I'm saying, so that's
really exciting. But anyway, how's your channel going?
Number three, not taking yourself or your date too seriously. So the down to
earth woman is relaxed. She's happy, right where she is. She's taking things as they
come and she's not too concerned with the outcome. One of the best ways to demonstrate
that you don't take yourself or the date too seriously is just the ability to make fun
of yourself.
Jermia: Yes. Opening night went really well. Yeah. People were loving it. I had someone
come ask me... Oh my God, I am, I'm so sorry.
Mark: That's alright. Don't worry about it. Um, you were telling me that your show.
Jermia: Yeah, the, the uh, the cast was a really good. Yeah, Um, the turnout turnout
was great.
Mark: Don't worry about it. You keep telling me.
Jermia: Um the casts there, the cast was great. It was a really good turnout.
[Beep]
Jermia: Yeah, so opening week came out really, really well. Yeah. Audiences were loving it,
they're all saying how great the cast was. And you see this right here? This is why all
the boys want me.
Mark: Right. So anyway, you were telling me about the show.
Jermia: Yeah. All the audiences absolutely love the cast. They were saying it was one
of the best shows they've ever seen. It was such lovely feedback. So sweet. We had people
saying they wanted to come back again.
Number four, being accepting of others. The down to earth woman is very rarely
judgmental of others. She's accepting. Judgment often comes from comparisons of others to
you and it comes from us wanting to look good in comparison to other people. The down to
earth woman has that core confidence, so she doesn't feel the need to judge others. She's
accepting of others because ultimately at a deep level she accepts herself.
Mark: So I have a mate, who's a dedicated Christian has been forever. And his girlfriend,
who he's only been with for a year, decided to convert for him. Does that seem weird to
you?
Jermia: Oh my God, that is so weak and pathetic. Why would she do that? Why would any woman do
that? Change herself completely for a man? Oh my God. It's women like that who get the rest
of us a bad name.
[Beep]
Mark: So I have a mate, who's a dedicated Christian, always has been. His girlfriend's
been with him for a year and she just decided to convert. She's never been before. Does
that seem weird to you?
Jermia: Huh? Live and let live I guess. Look, it's not something I'd do. But you know, if
it makes them happy, why not right? Who are we to judge?
Number five, she's unfazed about others' opinions of her. So in the same way
that a down to earth girl is accepting of others and doesn't really have the time or
inclination to judge others, she also doesn't have the time or inclination to give weight
to other's opinions of her. She's happy in her own world, right where she is and she's
not going to give her thought time or effort to others who judge her.
Jermia: I've been doing so much gardening lately.
Mark: Gardening. Don't like people make fun of you for that.
Jermia: No, it's, it's like really cool. You should come out with me sometimes you can
see it's not like what people think.
Mark: Yeah, I'll pass, but thank you.
Jermia: Oh my God. He thinks I'm such a dork now. Why did I tell him that?
[Beep]
Jermia: I've been doing so much gardening lately.
Mark: Gardening? Don't like people make fun of you for that?
Jermia: Probably. That doesn't matter though. I love it so much.
Number six, she's calm and unreactive to surprises. What does down to earth really
mean? It means having your feet planted firmly on the ground, right? What's the opposite
head in the clouds up in the air. When you're down to earth and firmly planted, things can't
shake you. Little surprise events or unexpected things that happen aren't going to affect
your mood. They're not going to affect where you're at and how you're feeling because you're
grounded
Mark: Babe, can I ask you a question? So Glenn, do you know Glenn won tickets to the Bledisloe
Cup final? I know we had a movie scheduled for Saturday night, but he's invited me to
go with him. Is there any chance we can reschedule and do it the following Saturday?
Jermia: Yeah, no, that's fine. It's quite clear to see where your priorities are, Mark.
Go have fun and I'll just stay home.
[Beep]
Mark: So I have a question for you. You know, Glenn, he won tickets to the Bledisloe Cup
final. He won tickets! Is there, I know we had our movies scheduled for next weekend,
but he's invited me to go. Is there any chance at all that we can like move it to the following
weekend?
Jermia: Yeah, of course. You would not be fun to hang out with if you missed the final.
Yeah, go have fun. Yeah, we can just do the movies next week.
Mark: You are the best. Thank you.
Finally, number seven. We couldn't do a video on being down to earth without
mentioning this one. Being down to earth means being low maintenance. The low maintenance
woman is incredibly attractive to men because it's really the definition and the pinnacle
of being down to earth. In her relationship, she's secure with the connection. She's secure
with him and he doesn't have to spend excessive time or energy reassuring her.
Jermia: Well, can't believe I'm not going to see you until Sunday.
Mark: It's Justine's hen's weekend. You're going to have so much fun.
Jermia: No, I'm gonna miss you so much. I still want good morning calls and good night
calls. I want you to text me all through the days.
Mark: I will, I will, relax. All right. It's only two nights.
Jermia: You're not even going to miss me. You don't even want to talk to me.
Mark: Of course. I'm going to miss you.
Jermia: Why am I even going? What's the point? I'm just going to be there missing a boyfriend
who doesn't even love me.
[Beep]
New Speaker: You're off?
Jermia: Yep, off for the weekend. All right, so you've got your beers in the fridge, you've
got your call of duty. I called Josh before and I told him to bring pizza over so he's
on the way. Alright, have a good weekend. Um, if I get any downtime I'll give you a
call.
Well there you have it. We've taken what for most of us is quite a confusing gray
kind of blurry concept, being down to earth and taking it and giving you real examples
of how you can apply that in your own life. It's something men love to find in a woman.
And the more down to earth you can be, the more you can represent that, the more people,
not just men, but people are gonna want to be around you and enjoy your company and want
to spend more time around or getting to know you. Well thank you so much for watching.
This has been Mark from making yours. Tune in for the next video and make sure in the
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