Uncle c back in the office
and today I wanted to tell you a cold hard truth that you may or may not
be ready to hear.
I get a lot of people asking me whether through Instagram direct message, it's through the
comments section people say, Casey, why do I have so many women problems?
Why did my ex leave me?
Why did this girl not texting me back?
Why do Why do I have to ask 10 different girls to get a date and they'll say no.
Why do I have so many women problems Casey?
And you might not like this answer.
But the fact is this you do not have women problems.
You have personal problems.
And it shows up in your dating life.
You can apply this one exact statement to literally anything in life.
If you're a man and you are broke and you hate it, you must realize this, you do not
have money problems.
You have personal problems that reflects in your business.
If you're a man who is overweight you must realize that you do not have fitness
problems.
You have personal problems that reflects in your fitness.
I think it's time that everybody just cuts the bullshit.
All these issues you want to tell yourself you're plagued with everybody, everybody says
this.
They say Oh, I got this problem.
I got this problem.
Ask around.
Go to another counselor, another doctor and other therapist people.
Always people are easy to find to tell you that something's wrong with you.
And if you actually have these issues, if you're finding it hard to escape your current
situation, I think it's time that you actually take a look in the mirror and say, What do
I have in my capability
to control the outcome of tomorrow to make this situation better?
Because what people do to get over their problems is they often treat
it like a symptom.
rather just say, hey, let me let me sprinkle in this medication, this will mask it.
Right instead of fixing the problem all together, making sure that problem never arises making
sure that problems the relevant, what they try to do is they try to incorporate some
mechanism to cover up the symptom of the pain that they're feeling instead of just fixing
the reason why this pain is arising in the First place.
If you take a look at the problems you're having with women.
I think a lot of men just don't realize that they Hey, you might not be attractive.
That does not mean you can't put in the work to be attractive though.
It just takes time.
It's not going to be old.
Let me hit up Tinder.
And in two seconds here, let's just get something to fill this void quick.
You got to realize if you want to be fulfilled, it might take a year.
It might take two years.
thought man, it might take five years.
But you can understand it.
This game work is getting more seductive with your speech
work.
Yes, you'll get some results.
But the fact is you'll get some results doing anything.
And if you get results with that, the problem is is that if you're really focused on your
love life and you want to improve on Well guess what if all you're relying on his game,
if that's the dividing line between you and another man, dude, like your shit is broken.
Because if it's you versus another guy, and there's one woman, you guys all have the exact
same traits and you're just another Joe Blow that just doing the same shit.
Chasing love.
And the only dividing line is that you have some pickup or some tactics or you have some
pull backs on texts, dude, you're a fraud.
She's going to know you're a fraud and deep down, you know, you're a fraud, because you
haven't made yourself a valuable man yet.
If you're having issues with your love life, ask yourself, Am I the type of man that a
woman would even find attractive in the first place?
What about me can be fixed so that way these women see these traits and qualities that
I have just a little bit better?
How can I emphasize my positives, and so to mask all of those negatives and not even incorporate
them anymore?
If you're eating cheeseburgers, small Patil they're playing video games, you think you're
an attractive man that deserves a woman?
Let's think about it for a second, just stop beating around the bush.
If you're playing World of Warcraft if you're drinking on the weekends, if you're just out
fucking around, you ain't getting any shit done.
Guess what, you're not going to be recognized for anything.
You're not going to be leveling up in this life, which means you're not going to walk
with that arrogance or that swag to you.
Yes, I did say arrogance, confidence, call it whatever the hell you want.
You won't have it.
If you look at a man's business life if he's constantly broke, well guess what happens
is probably that his work ethic is destroyed.
He's probably doing the exact same things that's breaking him in his love life.
putting his time to the wrong things, putting his focus to the wrong things, putting his
deviation to the wrong things and not only that, giving the wrong type of people his
attention.
If you constantly find a guy who's overweight, you see, he's going to tell you he doesn't
have time for the gym, that he needs work life balance.
That's cool.
But then when it's him against another guy, when it comes time to meet that woman, and
it's him against the other guy that hasn't made the excuses.
It's the other guy that doesn't need work life balance.
It's a guy that will just kick ass and sacrifice no matter what.
Who do you think is going to win?
Because you can fill yourself with this fluff or filler all you want.
I need downtime.
I need relaxation time.
I need time to sit on my ass and do nothing.
It's great.
I'm happy for you.
Because it makes guys like me a hell of a lot easier out there to win and crush you.
Whether that be in the business world that be in the love life that'd be in anything.
And I'm not saying this to be a dick.
Like I want you to get on your grind.
You know, everything else he says is for some motivation for you.
I'm trying to get you to think a little bit broad.
Because here's what you got to remember apply this to women apply this to business, apply
this to finances, apply this to anything.
I'm going to give you an example right here.
If we take me right here working 365 days a year, seven days a week and we take you
we take you working five days a week, so five days a week, times 52 weeks a year.
We got you working 260 days.
Dude, every three years I've worked a full year more than you.
If you give me a decade you will never catch up.
Do you get that you will never catch up.
So you can keep telling yourself you need work life balance but the fellows the reason
why the women want the guys at the top is Because I'm not saying I'm at the top like,
I'm 23 years old, I'm just happy like I figured this shit out at an early age before I destroyed
like all these 50 year old divorced men that like still can't figure this out, dude, get
this.
If you don't figure this out, it really hinders your happiness.
it hinders your satisfaction because you got to ask yourself, do you want short term fulfillment?
Do you want short term pleasure?
Because me I could get a short term dopamine spike right now I could go pound two beers.
I could go to a sports bar.
I could flirt with some cuties and then I could pull one home and I could do that for
the whole day.
Doesn't mean I'd be happy the next day when I wake up, doesn't mean I accomplished anything
as a man.
What that said was Casey, you just had to fill a void because your current situation
is that worse.
This goes so much further than pickup artistry.
This goes so much further than game This goes so much further than anything that you think
any of this shit matters at the end of the day.
You got to realize these women are going to want real men.
They might not if you're 1617 right now surfing on the internet all day.
But fellas, eventually these women are going to need men in their lives.
In order to do anything great.
Let's say you want to figure out how to be rich.
You want to figure out how to be wealthy.
Guess what Money Follows value.
Meaning nobody lets you find a millionaire.
No one just poof out of thin air and gave that guy a million bucks out of his ass when
he woke up one day, he probably worked his ass off for it and figured out how to make
himself a viable option that's worth that money.
You wonder why women like rich men is because rich men have all of those traits that it
took to become dedicated and strong and smart and viable.
You got outworked.
So if you're having issues with your love life, if you're having issues Use with yourself
as a man if you're having issues with your finances, if you're having issues with your
fitness, it's time to take a look at the clock and a look around your house and say what
the hell am I actually spending my time with?
Because if you're spending your time with screens and box, video games and all of this
stuff that's robbing you of your excellence.
I want you to remember that one day you're going to be dead.
So your time is valuable.
And when you die, you have to ask yourself, were you a winner?
Or were you a loser?