my name is Marnie and it's my job to give you the no BS honest truth about
what women want versus what they say they want and I put a new video up every
Monday so please keep an eye out for my videos in this video I'm going to tell
you five things you can easily do to be more interesting and how to not be
boring you probably know that one of the biggest mistakes you can make with women
is to be boring and that if your conversation and puts her to sleep she's
not gonna be sleeping with you so while it's easy to say hey just stop being
boring what does that actually mean in their practical sense
how can you present yourself as an interesting guy that women can't get
enough of here's where my advice is going to differ from what most male
dating coaches will tell you their take on it is that you usually learn some
shallow technique to try and fake being interesting but the problem is it's only
gonna take you so far you might fool someone into thinking you're interesting
for an hour or so but then what happens after that do you want to be out on a
date feeling like you have to trick someone into thinking you're interesting
I actually have people that I work with who tell me that they used to struggle
with this because they would do this and they would resort to things like running
to the bathroom every 20 minutes to read a bunch of notes on their phone about
what to talk about to no surprise they would feel sick with nerves and anxiety
because they could never truly relax and be themselves that's why I teach guys to
actually become more interesting instead of just faking it not only is it much
more effective at getting you what you want with women but it also leads to you
getting more enjoyment out of your life so the number one thing is change your
boring mindset if you keep thinking you're boring
you'll always be boring self-fulfilling prophecy right here right now I want you
to acknowledge that boring is just a state of mind
I mean how boring is it to constantly think you're boring use that brain space
to think about other things like you're awesome or you're interesting you're
great in bed the mind is pretty powerful trust me so say it with me right now say
I am no longer boring instead I'm the most freakin interesting person in the
room alright now that we've got a new mindset we can get the actionable stuff
that is really easy to do to guarantee you will never
see yourself is boring again so number two try something new every day you want
to know why most people feel boring and bored in their lives because they're in
Zombie auto mode doing the same thing day in and day out they drink their same
coffee before work then drive the same road listening to the same radio station
blah blah blah like aren't even bored right now saying this so you see where
I'm going with this if you want to snap yourself out of auto mode and be
interesting instead of the same old same old and switch it up drink tea one day
or have a shape or matcha then getting your car and listen to a different
podcast or a different radio station I used to do this thing to challenge
myself where I try to do my morning routine backwards just to feel something
different it kind of backfired on me with a whole tooth brushing thing but it
definitely made me feel more interesting routine is the definition of boring so
switch up your daily routine by doing one new little thing every single day
then you can talk about it with women you can talk about it with other people
I myself was always very interested in people that did interesting kind of
goofy things and a guy that does one new thing each day just to keep things fresh
is super goofy and totally interesting number three get out of your comfort
zone if you want women to find you interesting it helps if you actually
lead an interesting life the more you put yourself out in the world and try
different things the more you'll have cool stuff to talk about but many guys
fall into a routine of doing the same thing day in and day out and getting
stuck in their comfort zone which is really freaking boring typically this
will involve gonna work coming home surfing online or watching TV or reading
a book and don't get me wrong I'm a total web surfer and Netflix junkie so
I'm not knocking your interest I'm simply telling you that if this is all
you do on a weekly basis it's going to be boring and you're he's interesting
level it's gonna go way down and have you labeled as boring truth is this is
what so many single guys do especially if they're older and if you do the same
thing as everyone else then by definition it makes you boring so you
want to make an effort to try new things here are a few examples of some other
things my students told me that they've taken off so adventure travel mixed
martial arts they tried photography learning Japanese a new language improv
comedy painting wine-making singing skydiving dancing
Toastmasters hiking CrossFit to see how many options there are and how its
limitless and even if some of the things you tried don't end up being good for
you at least you'll be able to talk about them and it will make you more
interesting I tried wine tasting it was horrible like it's interesting number
four stop trying to blend in a common trait
of boring people is they're afraid of standing out and showing their true
personality this can manifest in a ton of different ways such as dressing and
boring fashion or being afraid to speak up and voice your opinions but the more
that you express your true self the more interesting you're gonna be because even
though it's a cliche there really is only one of you in the world and nobody
else can offer that so don't be afraid to talk more and let the world and women
see who you truly are and what makes you unique
so I'd note on that is that when it comes to dating if you aren't being you
on your date and speak your mind and having your own take on things then how
the hell is she going to feel any spark with you that spark comes from when you
actually be you and act like you instead of trying to blend in and be like a guy
you think she wants to date number five become interested in other people and I
know it sounds kind of backwards but research shows the more genuine interest
you showin someone the more they find you interesting the key word here is
genuine interest that's because as women or good at spotting when a guy is faking
interest just because he wants to sleep with us or when someone is acting
interested out of social politeness a dead giveaway is when you ask a question
and when we giving you a meaningful response you ignore it and then just ask
another unrelated question instead you want to follow up and explore what we've
giving you in a more in-depth discussion genuinely be interested in discovering
who we are and what makes us special and you'll immediately be more interesting
than the average man all right there you go five easy peasy things you can do
starting right now to quickly become interesting and avoid being boring start
trying these five things out and you won't have to worry about women finding
you boy ever again of course being boring isn't
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