she will fail your way to greatness
most people allow their fear of failure
tog way their desire to succeed when
you're willing to fail again and again
and again when you make up your mind to
become unstoppable when you make up your
mind to become a no matter what person
then that will then give birth to a part
of yourself that you don't know right
now imagine if you will be on your
deathbed and standing around your bed
the ghost of the dreams the ideas the
abilities the talents given to you by
life and that you for whatever reason
you never went after that dream you
never acted on those ideas you never use
those talents you never use those gifts
and there they are standing around your
bed looking at you with large angry eyes
saying we came to you and only you could
have given us life and now we must die
with you forever see most people stop
short of their dreams in park and get
off the highway of life because of the
rejections of life you will always be
rejected it's no big deal I can't feel
said rejection is a myth it's not like
when somebody says no and then they slap
you no it's just you know to me make
know your vitamin get excited about that
know why because every time someone says
no I brings you another step to a yes
you're getting closer trust me you will
win if you don't quit you will win if
you don't quit even a broke clock is
Right twice a day
as you go through the challenges of life
and you look at it and embrace whatever
comes to you don't run from it step the
water
don't try and duck it like most people
do see most people want it easy see if
you easy come easy what easy go
see but when you go out what you're
going to deal with and you deal with the
difficulties of it when you handle those
hard things close at hand making those
hard decisions right now that you don't
want to make learning those things that
you don't like to do but you know that
in order for you to get where you want
to go this is one of the hoops that you
have to flip through and I'm saying to
you whatever you got to do do it because
if you don't life is gonna whoop you
until you surrender you have something
that you brought to the universe and
that if you decide that my life deserves
my developing this is what I do well and
becoming the best at it and mastering
myself and seeing what I have within me
if you decide to drop your buckets where
you are and develop your gifts I grant
you you'll never ever be without I grant
you that your gifts will take you places
that will literally amaze you I grant
you that if you begin to work to develop
your gifts you develop a strong sense of
happiness you'll get a larger vision of
yourself because part of beginning to
get a larger vision of yourself all of
us need some area of our lives where we
can have a feeling of competence that
people know when they think about this
area that's something you do
that you eat and sleep back and that you
do that you do that
changing is not easy but changing your
life changing heavens reinventing
yourself yeah picking yourself up after
life has knocked you flat on your back
I've got a saying when life knocks you
down try and land on your back because
if you can look up you could get up
well that sounds cute but that's not
easy when I was diagnosed with prostate
cancer 17 years ago that first time that
happened I said hey I can handle this
then when he came back a year late I
mean last year 17 years later and this
time it metastasized to seven areas of
my body and eight forty percent of my t1
vertebrae now the stakes are higher is
this life saying okay mr. motivator you
beat cancer the first time what you'll
do now who you know started laughing
when the doctor Tony's there why are you
laughing are you in denial
I said no I said I feel like Mother
Teresa he said what do you mean she said
Lord I know you know how much I can bear
I just wish you don't have so much
confidence in me so the stakes are
higher so I've got to dig in and got to
fight more because at the end of the day
life is a fight for territory and once
you stop fighting for what you want what
you don't want will automatically take
over and so it's a fight it's a
challenge in life every day and what we
have to do is embrace it what we have to
do is see it as a project to be worked
on it in life you will always be faced
with a series of god-ordained
opportunities brilliantly disguised as
problems and challenges and so I see
even cancer as a gift as a god-ordained
opportunity
if you die today what dreams what ideas
what talents what books what music what
leadership what voice will die with you
there are a lot of people who are biting
their fingers and fear that they might
lose their jobs but there are few people
who have decided within themselves I'm
going to make it some people aren't
waiting to be cut some people are moving
on their own because they feel within
themselves I've got what it takes to
make it they're not afraid about
tomorrow because of how they see
themselves because of what they feel
that they deserve because of what they
feel that they can create for themselves
because these people have decided as
they look at the future as they look at
themselves there's a way where there's a
will there's a way for me to begin to
create a way out of no way and when you
have that kind of consciousness when you
have that kind of spirit nothing can
stop you nothing
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there's no secret to success there's a
system to success and no matter what
organization you become a part of the
system works if you work in if you don't
work it it won't work but it works if
you work it and that's one four-letter
word that most people don't like they're
not willing to work
they're winners they're losers and there
are people who have not discovered how
to win and all they need is some
coaching all they need is some help and
assistance just a little support all
they need is some insight or different
strategy a plan of action to make some
adjustments that will open up the key to
a whole new future for them that will
give them access to the unlimited power
that they have within themselves that's
all that they need so what I want you to
do is think about something you want for
you that's real for you that's important
for you that will give your life some
special meaning and power and I don't
even want you to say I can do that I
don't want you to assume that see five
years ago when I started out in this
area I would not have been able to make
the mental leap that I would be up to
where I am right now I don't want you to
begin to just psych yourself out no no I
want you to be able to say something to
yourself that will enable you to
maintain a level of integrity with
yourself that when you say this even
when you face tremendous setbacks it it
will be a benchmark to keep you in the
game to keep you moving forward in
experimenting and readjusting your
strategy and your plan of action
continuously looking for ways to win I
think we have to reflect on Who am I why
am I here what drives me if I died today
what three words would I want said about
me
died today you know what is it that
defines me how how do i define myself
traveling to the next world necessary to
stop talking to people and seeking and
asking but what I wanted and leveraging
relationships and trying to find out how
do the people do it that went ahead of
me how do they do it and then what is it
I need to do how is it I need to train
myself to develop myself
what's the resources that will be
required in order to make it happen and
as I start seeking out and asking
questions I started running into people
said I know someone who can help you do
that and they helped me get connected
with those people remember we have so
much energy that can take us so far it's
necessary that you hook up with some of
the energy that can take you to the next
level I hooked up willingness unless
let's go I said away we go
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