hey what's up it's me Jessica J and I was just wondering if you've ever sat and
thought to yourself uh is she cheating on me well if so I'm glad you
asked cuz today I'm gonna go over the six
signs that she most likely is definitely thinking of another man at the very
least and to make sure you never miss out on another girl because of another
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right here right now okay so I just want to give a caveat to these signs um if a
girl is thinking about another man in your place
she is definitely giving off these signs however if she's giving off these signs
she's not definitely cheating kind of like if I'm PMSing
I'm definitely crying how else if I'm crying that doesn't necessarily mean
that I ain't PMSing make sense okay and another thing I want to bring up is
you've men want sex to connect with women and we women one sex when we feel
connected to you that's why women are so much more inclined so we emotionally
cheat and y'all are because you guys um you can get up on a moment's notice
whereas us it takes a little more coaxing and priming so for us all the
signs are usually gonna be emotion based which brings me to number one she
doesn't get mad at you anymore or she's mad at you all the time this depends on
what her regular MO is so for instance for me I almost never get mad at
anything it takes a lot for me to get like a really annoyed because I grew up
with like a super overbearing family that was like always up in my face so I
had to like numb huh my mom so for me when I was a teacher I am no longer I
would find things to pick fights with my boyfriend over I was mad at the way he
drove I was pissed off at the way he ordered our McDonald's anything under
the Sun on the flip side if she's constantly complaining and she's a
Debbie Downer in general when she's thinking of another man who wants to be
with another man chances are she wasn't gonna F about you
in more again one thing I want you to think
about is displaced emotions if she's cheating on you
you don't necessarily rile her up the way you used to so she's not gonna
really notice or get mad at you anymore on the flip side if she never used to
get mad and all of a sudden she's getting mad all the time now in a way
she's kind of creating that emotional distance so look for the changes in her
anger or annoyance number two her communication has dropped significantly
so one thing I talk about a lot is the concept of we women increasing our
oxytocin hormones by communicating with one another especially you this is why
women always want to talk about their feelings and always want you to tell us
about your day and always want you to ask you about our day because it
releases a hormone called oxytocin which makes us want to bond with you and hold
you and snuggle you tired so if you notice that she's not texting
as much as she used to or maybe not even complaining about her workday anymore
again going back to this connection piece we want sex when we feel connected
to you so if we want it with another man or get in to poundtown with another man
chances are we're going to diminish our connection with you which brings me to
number three she doesn't joke with you as much anymore so joking is a way to
positively connect with one another and make each other feel good and I'm gonna
let you make me feel good and then I'm gonna try to make you feel good but if
you notice that like she's not even laughing at your jokes anymore when she
used to say like how super Hilaire or she's making no attempts to joke with
you again going back to this piece of not wanting to positively connect with
you because she is positively connecting with some other man's peen which then
brings me to number four is she doesn't flirt with you anymore or she's
rejecting your advances more and more okay because you men are designed to get
hard on a moment's notice and impregnate the world at your fingertips every
five seconds that's just how you're designed your design to spread your seed
we women we're literally given like one egg a fucking month that you can
possibly impregnate so we're just not designed to go out there and you know so
if she's not flirting with you which has a very sexual component and she's
rejecting your advances chances are she's saving ayala
for some other guy because it's hard for us to divide that energy among two or
three or four separate men number five this goes back to it not wanting to
connect with you on an emotional level is she doesn't ask you questions anymore
maybe you come home from work and she doesn't even ask how your day was or
maybe you told her you got into a fight with your mom and she was like that
sucks I know for me if my man gets into a fight with his mom like oh my god tell
me more let's bond and connect but if she doesn't even care why you're having
a fight with another woman that's not her job she doesn't give it a about you
doing anything that involves anything at all to be honest and number six which
encompasses everything is she ceases to engage emotionally you're probably
already very aware that when a woman says I'm fine it means she's not funny
in fact it actually means that we want you to chase us down and hound us until
we tell you what you did wrong but if she shred up it's like no nothing I'm
fine and walks away and doesn't give you any
more lip about it again that's her not even wanting to engage
because the emotional connection is no longer there and she doesn't even want
to try to forge one in its absence so the kicker for us women when we are
investing in another man is to look at the amount of emotional investment we
have left in you we're more so emotional cheaters even if it is just an ego boost
we women do it because we need to feel good about ourselves or maybe there's
something missing in the relationship but either way please don't take these
signs and be like yo cheer us up you know it just you J said so use them
instead as a catalyst for conversation because maybe you're not even noticing
hard to begin with which is why she's given attention to other
we're noticing huh so at the very least feel like it's simply going on because
you're doing XYZ and I noticed girl chances are she'll totally appreciate it
maybe she's you know going through some shit at work which also happens to and
you're probably in the clear but either way if she is cheating on you she's
definitely showing these signs and if you're somebody who knows you're lacking
a little bit when it comes to making emotional connections with women don't
forget to check out my speak to spark arousal program which specifically
addresses how guys can make better connections with women better emotional
connections and get her laughing and flirting in a way where she does feel
that is shibushi way for you and only you thanks for watching as always guys I
hope you're not cheating on you and I'll see you next time