Have you ever went on a date with a man who nearly bore you to death with dull stories
or cheesy pickup lines?
He probably seemed desperate or creepy...
Don’t be that person.
Hey YouTube, Amy North here, and today I want to talk about some conversational flirting
tips for women.
As you may already know, I’m a relationship coach from Vancouver Canada, and over the
last few years I’ve been working with women to help improve their love lives.
Today I’m going to share with you five important tips for winning over a man with words.
However, before I jump into things I just want to say that if you like what you learn
here today then please subscribe to my YouTube channel for more dating advice videos.
Now then, let’s get started.
Tip #1: Be playful
If you’re looking to win a guy over, then it’s important that you show him your fun,
playful side.
Now, that’s not to say that you have to be an over the top goofball, but rather let
your guard down and enjoy yourself.
To do so, be able to laugh at yourself, and his jokes too.
You’d be surprised how much of an impact laughter can have on a man and if you’re
the one who makes his day brighter, then he’ll be much more willing to commit to you.
If you’re interested in learning ways to bring out your inner wild-child then pop over
to my website, www.coachnorth.com and check out the free video presentation.
Tip #2: Be mysterious
While it’s nice to feel like you know someone, it’s important not to give him too much
too soon.
This means that as tempting as it may be, it’s important not to spill your guts out
to him because if you do, you could send him running.
So, instead of sharing your entire life story with him, pick the key bits, and focus on
those.
Just as you don’t want to know all about his best friend from second grade or his uncle
bill’s old ranch, share stories that will give him a glimpse of who you are as a person.
When you can do this in a mysterious, yet flirty way, it’ll keep him wanting more.
Simply put, save the less exciting details for down the road.
For now, be concise to keep his attention.
Tip #3: Be positive
Hand in hand with my previous tip, it’s important that you show your date your positive
side.
This means keeping the conversation light and breezy.
Don’t talk about your issues with your image, or your fear of dying alone, but instead be
positive and talk about the things you do enjoy.
Be sure to avoid any negative or draining conversation topics.
Watch your tone, be cheery and smile lots.
As the saying goes, a smile is worth a thousand bucks, and believe me, you’re toothy grin
is key to conversational flirting.
For a more complete list of topics to avoid on a first date, check out my video on this
topic.
I’ll post the link to this video in the description below.
Tip #4: Ask him questions
As you probably already know, guys love to talk, especially when it’s to someone they’re
into romantically.
Instead of hogging the spotlight be sure to bounce questions off him, too.
Now this may sound counter-productive, especially since we’re talking about how to flirt,
but you’d be surprised what a powerful impact your ability to listen has on him.
Giving him the floor to talk will not only show him that you’re interested in what
he has to say, but it’s also a huge sign of respect.
Just like you’d avoid a follow up date with someone who didn’t give you a chance to
chat, he feels the same way.
When he is speaking give him your full attention.
That means ignoring any texts or phone calls you may be getting, and keeping eye contact.
If you’re looking around the room or get distracted by something on the table he’s
going to know that you’re not into him.
Be polite and make him your sole focus.
Remember, flirting is about more than just the words that come out of your mouth.
Tip #5: Be yourself
There’s nothing more attractive than a woman who is confident enough to be her true, genuine
self.
And truth be told, men are much less oblivious than you may think...
This means that spotting a woman who is faking it is easy, which is why it’s so important
to be yourself.
To do so push aside anything that’s bothering you, and allow yourself to be happy.
Keep in mind that flirting is meant to be fun, and don’t take it too seriously.
If you can show the guy you’re with that you’re comfortable in your own skin, then
he’ll be hooked in no time.
Well that just about does it for this video.
If you have any flirting secrets that you’d like to share, please post them in the comments
below, I’d love to hear from you!
Same goes for questions or comments you may have, just post below and I’ll do my best
to get back to each you.
As I mentioned earlier, if you liked what you learned here today then please subscribe
to my channel for other dating advice videos and I’ll do my best to keep coming out with
more!
So, until next time ladies, take care and good luck!