Narcissists love to blame you for everything.
Everything.
that totally are not your fault.
So stay tuned.
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So five things that narcissist will blame you for
that are totally not your fault.
which are basically constant by the way
and it's not your fault,
but they get a hangnail.
They get a
like a freaking hole in their sweater or whatever.
Totally, you know, anything that goes
wrong in their life
and it's your fault somehow
and, you know, you manipulated it.
They're just raging at you
and then, you know, when you're upset,
then that becomes a reason
that they get to be angry because you're angry,
because you were mad at them who's,
you know, you treated them poorly.
The way you were treated in the first place,
I mean, it's so messed up.
Right?
That's what they do.
So number one, their daily problems.
This is by the way, if they are
business partners with you,
you work with them.
Even worse, by the way.
Their failure.
Something happens with them,
your fault.
You know, they gotta find somebody to project.
Project and deflect. That's what they do.
Project and deflect
and so they're gonna project and deflect it on you
and so that's what they do.
It's gotta come off onto somebody else,
especially what happens when they get caught in lies
and I have a whole video on that,
What happens when narcissists get caught in lies?
and you could definitely wanna check that out.
When they fail at something, your fault.
Totally not your fault, but they're gonna blame it on you.
So that's number two.
things that a narcissist will blame you for,
totally not your fault.
they're gonna say,
“oh well, it's because they don't like you.”
So that's your fault that somebody doesn't like them.
They can't take responsibility for their stuff
and by the way, they hate themselves,
so that's why they hate you too
and so they constantly picking fights
with you and they thrive on that too.
They get supply from picking fights
and I have a whole video on
why narcissists has picked fights as well,
which you should definitely check out
because it's so annoying why they constantly pick fights.
Isn't it?
Definitely check that out too.
Why narcissists pick fights?
You should fight back and fight back against for your life.
Get the heck out of there.
So I want you to put that in the comments right now.
Fight back.
Problems with custody, with their kids, anything like that.
That's your fault too somehow.
Even if you were trying to help.
If all you did was try to help,
somehow that gets turned around and becomes your fault.
Even if it's not your fault, you get blamed for it.
You get blamed for it.
Everything's your fault
and number five,
number five is the one that drives me absolutely insane
If they cheat
and then they blame it on you
because you didn't pay enough
attention to them,
because you were cold,
because it seemed like the relationship
was going in that direction
because you didn't respond the way they thought
that they were going to,
because you flirted with somebody or even if you didn't,
but they perceived that you did
or whatever it was but somehow,
they cheated and then they
turn around and blame it on you.
It's like a second level of hurt,
a second wave of victimization that you
end up having to deal with
like not only are you not getting any remorse,
any kind of feeling like
they care about it at all.
They actually turn around and blame it on you.
That's when you know you gotta get out of there.
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