Three important things that your wife
needs from you
and this is part three, and I am Paul
Friedman.
So hopefully you've already subscribed
to this channel, you've seen the first
two
and now you're watching the third or you
could start here and go back to one and
two.
It's up to you but this is the third.
The third important thing that your wife
needs from you
and it is important. She needs
constant reminders that you
appreciate her. You're going to go, "Hey, I
need that too."
Who doesn't? This is very important.
You married her which
told her you appreciate her.
I mean who do you marry. You don't marry
just anyone. You marry the most important
person in your entire life
because you're going to be sharing a
life together for the rest of your lives,
your soul mates. And if you're not
appreciating each other if you're not
taking care of each other's needs, if
you're not there for one another
your soulmate status will turn into
cellmate status.
What the heck do you want to be like
that for?
There's over a 50% divorce rate
in our country in the western world
and the reason we are in that absurd
level of divorce is because marriage has
been defined by western psychology. They
don't know what they're talking about.
They even have a higher divorce rate
than the average.
You don't want to learn how to be
married from them.
It's not cool.
So if I was a psychologist, I would be
telling you these BS
things that
don't correlate to anything but what I'm
sharing with you is literally based
on physiology affecting the psychology
of your wife.
It's definable and it's understandable
because she has a drive to survive.
We all do. It's the constant in
literally every single living cell. Our
bodies comprise of trillions of them.
They get together and for her, they form
the female body.
Well, the female body is not strong like
yours
being a male body
so its needs for survival.
The drive to survive are different
than a man's needs.
We as men, we can live without
appreciation it's no
fun but we can live without it. But for a
woman,
her existence
her very existence is threatened.
If she's not assured that you appreciate
her
that's the principle that this is based
on. The three
important things
that she needs from you are based on a
principle
of how to physiology affects the
psychology.
And so, the other principle which is
loyalty
defines you're
the one to give her that
loving support in these forms. Remember,
the first one is reminders
that she's attractive. The second
reminders that you love her, and the
third
reminders that you appreciate her. What
does that mean?
Well literally, this is an easy one.
This is easier than the other two
because all you have to do is tell her
that you appreciate her.
Now you should also tell her you
appreciate how she dresses.
You should appreciate how she looks.
It's God's gift to you that she is
designed in this particular way.
You appreciate how she makes love. You
appreciate
how her voice sounds to you. You
appreciate
these things that can be very subtle,
very special between the two of you. Let
her
know, let her know.
Let her know to the point of where she's
floating
all three of these things. She should be
floating
based on your continual recognition
of how much you love her, how much you
appreciate her
and how beautiful she is to you.
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