how has this past month affected your relationship oh my mates we broke up
i don't know i wouldn't try to force something that's not there for me hey guys it's Naka and
Dominic what's going on so you guys know what time it is you guys read the title so let's
get into this the first question is will you raise your children in a religious environment no um
i think it depends what a really what you mean by like religious environment like i think yes and no
i think like yes we're gonna raise them knowing faith and like having the same faith as us but
we're not gonna push it on to them yeah or like force it on to them i'm a believer that
religion can help a lot when someone's growing up like me personally like it's like you almost have
like you know like little angel and devil and like if you have the fear of god into your eyes i think
there's a lot of things that as a kid i didn't do because i was christian so i feel like it's
good to raise kids in a religious environment they have discipline it helps with discipline it helps
to raise them it helps them i think being a good better i don't know i don't want to say better
kids but like yeah exactly like some they almost have like some some of the worst kids sometimes
are you know raised in a religious background but i think it's it's when it's put strongly upon them
but i was also like i was raised in the house and i was very independent i was very flexible
at the age of 16 my parents basically let me do almost whatever i want same if i made a mistake i
learned from it and then we talk about it and this and that but like i was very independent and i was
taught to be in you weren't sheltered like i was in shelter yeah and like my like my parents taught
me how to be independent by like cooking by like cleaning by doing my laundry all this stuff i
would never really ask for rides i would take the bus or like i would drive i had my license so like
stuff like that right so i kind of want to do a little bit of that yeah i also want to have our
kids be able to like approach us of anything that they're going in their life without any
judgment like we both want to have a very open relationship with our kids where we can like
not just be obviously like be friends but like discipline and parent them but i mean like feel
like they can come to us for advice and help with anything right you know i always see these people
they're like oh parents nowadays you're trying to be friends with their kids and not discipline me
i'm trying to be friends with my kids i'm always like a fine line to cross that's because growing
up like my mom was very strict when i was younger and i always wanted like i would watch tv shows
and like the mom and daughters were so close and i was like i always wanted like a friend
like me and my mom are like best friends now but growing up she was like very strict up until i
was 12 years old so it's like i don't know i feel like i'm gonna try to i'm gonna be my
friends with my kids i don't care what people think like i really don't i think the only thing
that would matter or that is important if you have a friendship relationship with your parents your
mom or your dad whatever is that your kids still have to respect the authority of a parent yeah i
mean because sometimes when they have a friendship relationship like if you say something you try
and discipline them yeah right yeah it's like a joke or like you know like how your friend tells
you something you kind of brush it off you don't take it seriously yeah but like as long as there's
still the authority you know and the disciplinary measures that like they respect and they listen
then you know my dad always said he was like i'm he's always like i'm excited to
see how you're going to be with your kids because they're going to be very spoiled
so i know i won't be the discipline is going to be hard for me because i'm the type of person
when they ask for something like emmanuel like i give him everything he wants you give in very
yes so i don't know i'm gonna let but i definitely know i won't be like religious or anything but i
the discipline part i don't know it's gonna be hard for me but
we're gonna i don't have a problem with this yeah i think i'm gonna be straight but flexible
don't worry kiss a teddy bear that's what you say until the kids come we're not none of that
we're doing that okay next question would you consider ivf or adoption if you can't get pregnant
naturally dive right in here what the question is like yeah they cut yeah so i actually don't even
know what ivf is so if you know what ivf is put it down in the comment section below but i do see it
on tick tock all the time like people they kind of like bring down other women that had ivf treatment
i know that they're like oh you didn't conceive your baby naturally no no no you know like we've
seen that a lot they throw jabs out there so me personally if i can't have children naturally
then i would just rather rather adopt like i know you put needles in yourself like i don't want to
be in this position where it's just like it would be too stressful for me and i'm someone
that's extremely emotional and people say ivf is extremely emotional and if you can't handle it
like i wouldn't be able to handle it like i've seen videos and it was like it's too much so
i would rather adopt because i have a lot of family members like in congo that i can adopt
so that's what i would do like and i told myself like if i can't give birth like if i can have
children naturally then it's just not meant to be there's a reason why right i believe in everything
happens for a reason and if i try for like five years to have you know children it's not happening
it is what it is like there's adoption there's tons of babies out there that want
a loving home so that's the route like i would go i wouldn't i don't know i wouldn't try to force
something that's not there for me like you know so what about you would you how would you feel
like five years we're trying can't have kids i think that it's obviously like a decision that
we would talk and make if we get to that point i feel it's hard to kind
of know how we're going to feel that's true right now if it does happen in the future
but yeah i think first step would obviously like do research about it in the whole process
and you know pros and cons if there's risk and stuff like that and then i think there's
also other ways besides just ivf no surrogate yeah there's also like a lot of different types
of ways that we could look into as well and then you know kind of figure out the options
i would be open to it to find another way to have a baby um because i would prefer kind of like not
exhaust all the options before adoption but kind of look into all the options and see if there's
an option that is good for us and if it works and you know like we're both okay with it then do that
and then if it doesn't work then consider adoption but i would probably do adoption at the end after
if you go through of ivf whatever like that there's nothing i have nothing against that
i feel like it's still your child you know what i mean so i would still want to try and conceive our
child and then if we can and then have other discussions about me like i would give up i'm the
type of dominic he's very like strong emotionally and that's why he's saying he would be down for
it but i would personally give up like i'm not strong like that yeah like it would just break
me too much especially like sometimes it doesn't work ivf and like surrogacy doesn't the the baby
doesn't go full term like i wouldn't do like one thing i would not do is to do it continuously oh
okay i do know people who have gone through like the process who couldn't get pregnant
and then now they have like i think they got like two sets of twins and stuff oh shoot and like
yeah i feel like if you would ask them they would not they don't regret it you know i mean i feel
like a lot of people that go through it and know what works they definitely don't regret
it but i would kind of go through it with the open mindset that like if it doesn't work i'm not gonna
exactly like i will probably try once you know like kind of see what the doctor says
but like first things first i think like before even going through that well i think like
if we still have trouble like within a couple months i think or even like i perceive like
wouldn't even mind if we go get checked now we are going yeah like we did do research and
stuff like that and we talked to friends and we got recommended really good doctors yeah so i
would want to make sure that like that aspects taken care of and like that thought in our head
my head or whatever is like not there and then you know whatever happens in six months a year
just see with the doctor like if the doctor says there's issues and then we get the recommendations
and then if that doesn't work and then we move on to like i feel like it's a step process it is i
mean like you get checked everything's good okay you work or like if there's something
not good then you know you can kind of discuss other options you know what's funny i've always
loved angelina jolie because she adopted a bunch of babies and i've always been drawn
to that so i i personally like never really thought too much into adoption yeah i like i
i didn't get to that point because no i just i don't i just well maybe because like i have a
lot of family that's not here right so adoption has always been on my mind my family members
your cousin yeah so i don't know i would be down for it ivf or
adoption okay why are you touching me daddy next question would you consider moving back
to canada and being closer to family since you want to start a family absolutely not
me personally like it doesn't matter where we are in the world i just love having the beach close
to me and the warm weather 24 7. if there was a place in canada that was warm 24 7 with a beach
i would live there you know it's not because like we live in mexico like it's literally not we chose
mexico because it was close to family and it's just one flight away that's the reason why or else
we'd be in thailand right now so i personally feel like we're closer to family and we're
like a good compromise yeah and we're watching my 600 pound life and the people were like crying
because they're moving away from family and i was like it takes a lot of like guts to do what
we did hey just pack your bags and up and go to another country can you imagine people having
mental breakdowns to move from different states and provinces yeah but yeah we literally switched
packed our bags we were gonna go to thailand but thailand was very very far so we chose mexico
because like the plane ride it's it used to be an hour yeah now two hours no it was like four hours
oh yeah four hours sorry four to five hour direct flight but now the flight's always screwed up
yeah so ever since they had closed some airports in canada and stuff so it's a little bit more
complicated but but it's still better than yeah thailand yeah and stuff like that so um for me
yeah basically the same same as naka there wasn't like i'm a little bit different though in the
sense that i wanted to get out so i feel like if there was still this type of tropics climate and
everything in canada personally from like personal things that you know i would have still kind of
wanted to leave um ever since growing up my entire life i just felt like it wasn't the place for me
and like yeah like my entire life it wasn't really the place for me it was like one big
big thing was obviously like the weather but there was a lot of other things that tacked on as i grew
up that i always knew i wanted to go to another country whether it was you know latin america the
states south asia caribbean just somewhere else yeah canada is very limited you know
whenever i would leave i would always be happy extremely happy and you know when like you go back
home a lot of people are like happy and like it's like oh you miss home me it's like the opposite
like that was when i was doing vacations with my family stuff that was one thing that like clicked
with me is that like i felt more at home out of home you know what i mean really yeah so i was
like i love going back to like my parents house it's like you say being the close to the family
and stuff like that yeah i mean i love visiting you know what i mean like oh my gosh last time we
were there like to visit dominic was complaining 24 7. oh my god i was trying to make the best of
the situation you weren't though but it just like i don't know just so negativity and toxicity too
much allergies so dominick was getting stuffed up like he was like i'm over it and i was just
like this is cloudy yeah but yeah like me i was always ready to dip set you know but like yeah
all right next question how has this past month affected your relationship oh my mates we broke up
like yeah the video i think it made us stronger i think like yeah okay will you answer well i just
um no like it made it really like stronger it was definitely a shock when i wasn't pregnant
that was like a huge shock to me and well yeah to us because me and dominic we're very cocky
cause i don't know we're not cocky we're confident yes we're very confident so i was like i'm gonna
get pregnant i'm gonna have my april babies and then it didn't happen and i was like
oh my god and it was just like a wake-up call like it didn't happen and then it didn't happen
again the next month and i was like oh my like what is going on so i just learned that things
don't go according to your plan and to just relax like i'm someone where i plan how my life
should go and my life has always went the way i had planned right i've never really
had a situation that didn't go according to how i planned except for this one so
it was just like a huge shock but you know it is what it is we're coping and yeah it made us
stronger what doesn't kill you makes you stronger i feel like i feel like we've been through so much
in our relationship and like we've been through like like hard stuff you know like a lot of like
stuff that has happened that every time that like we get like knocked down like we always
get up stronger and we always come together like there's no i don't i don't foresee anything that
could happen that would never say that no like i just know it's like you just said we're confident
but i just don't see anything that can happen that would make us grow apart god willing i feel like
you never know me we come together stronger and like that's why like we're you know perfect match
you know we always you know like god willing like when knackers down like i bring her up
yeah i'm down she brings me up and like we're stronger together you know what i mean so like
it did make us stronger and we always communicate and we're humble we never go to bed angry we
always talk before so yeah it definitely did make us stronger and i'm happy we went through that
and we're gonna go through more things too in the future right so like
as hard as some things were in the past like i'm sure there's gonna be harder things in the future
but i'm not worried about it we're not but anyways guys hope you like the video don't
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