- Now, wouldn't it be absolutely amazing
if there were just two simple phrases
that you could say to any man and would get him to commit
to you for the rest of your lives together?
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"Marry me forever please?".
Now, that would be cool but that really only happens
and really (beep) ROM-Coms or really, really bad
slash good reality television.
This ladies and gentlemen is the Real World
and there are no just simple words that you can say
that will just instantly make someone commit to you.
However, in this video, I will be giving you some mindsets
that you can bring to the table
that is going to naturally make men
want to commit to you
because you are no longer just going to be
the type of woman that guy hooks up with,
never talks to again, moving forward,
you are going to be that sexy single lady,
that is wifey material that a man would never want to just
hook up with a never talked to again.
You're gonna be type of the lady
that he wants to actually spend the rest of his life with.
Keep watching.
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Hey there, Adam Lodolce from Sexy Confidence dot com
where I help you create your love story.
And in this video, I'm gonna be giving you
two simple phrases that you can use
to really convey the right type of mindset to men.
And just as a word of caution,
these are not meant to be like copy and paste
and text a guy,
and then this is what's magically
gonna make them fall in love with you, no,
these are just examples of a mindset
that you bring to the table.
So, please don't just copy and paste these things,
use these as examples and really
try to extrapolate the mindset that is behind
each of these examples, and a second word of caution,
if a man is committed
to not committing to you,
these phrases are never going to work.
Alright, so let's jump into these phrases.
This first phrase really is used
if a guy is really taking you for granted
if he's only trying to sleep with you
and he's not trying to do much else
So, if that happens, what I recommend,
you say something like this,
"look, I think you're an amazing guy
"and I've really enjoyed spending time together.
"But I'm just not the type of woman
"who just hooks up with guys"
Basically what you are doing by telling the guy
that, "I am not that type of woman",
what you're doing is really separating yourself
from most women out there
because most women will just kind of like go with the flow
and see where things happen and hook up with a guy.
And, you know, they may not be sure where things are going,
but then they'll get feelings for him
and then those feelings build and then they're gonna
to now try to make a guy commit
and then wondering where did all these things go wrong?
As you can imagine, that creates a huge mess.
So, instead of being like most women,
what I recommend you do is separate yourself from the pack
and be the type of woman who's
really draws a line in the sand and says look,
"I want to get to know you better,
"but I'm not just gonna like take my clothes off for you,
"and let's just hook up.
This, my ladies out there.
This is what is going to separate you from the other women.
Now, I know, I know for a fact, there are gonna be some guys
that are gonna be just turned off by you saying this.
And that is a good thing.
If a guy is completely turned off from a woman who says
like, "hey, I'm not the type of woman
"who just jumps into bed",
then he was only trying to get you into bed.
What this is doing is weeding out
the guys who are just looking to get laid
from the guys who are open to a relationship.
See how this works?
So, let's jump on to phrase number two.
This phrase is actually half of a phrase
and it goes something like this.
"In the next few years, I really see myself dot, dot, dot".
Now, the reason why I'm not completing this phrase
is because many of you have very different visions
for where you see your life going.
Maybe for some of you, you're ready to have kids
and have a family and really find somebody
you can grow old with.
And for others, you've already done all that
and your divorced and now you're just maybe looking
for someone who can travel with.
Whatever it is, that is totally cool.
It's just all about having a vision for where you want to go
with your life.
Don't be afraid to communicate what it is that you want
in this life.
Now, where a lot of people go wrong
when they have this conversation,
is they communicate their vision for their life
by including their potential partner in that vision.
For example, if you're on a third date and someone's like,
"oh, where do you see yourself in the next five years?"
You will be like, "well, I would really see myself
"with someone like you and you know, settling down
"having kids like", boom,
he's out, not interested.
Notice the subtle difference there were involving him
in the whole vision.
Instead, just talk about where it is you wanna go
and in no way shape or form, are you implying that like,
this is going to be the guy for you
or he's going to be along with you on that ride.
Instead, you're just talking about where it is you wanna go
in your life and a man who has his head on straight
and is really looking to build a life with someone
is going to be incredibly turned on to this.
He's going to be incredibly interested
in a committed relationship.
Having a vision for where you wanna go in life
and being able to articulate that vision
is one of your most powerful tools in your toolkit.
So, much of Sexy Confidence is really just about defining
the type of person you are now and type person you wanna be
and then find the type of guy who wanna walk
that walk with you.
So, there you have it there are the two phrases that make
any man commit to you and only you.
I would love to hear from you in the comments below.
Have you ever said anything like this to a guy?
How did it to go?
Leave a comment right there below.
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