hey what's up it's me Jessica J and I was just wondering if you've ever sat and
thought to yourself how do I get her thinking about me non-stop well I'm glad
you asked cuz today I'm gonna talk about three things that a woman needs to
experience in your presence to get her thinking about you constantly and
desperate to see you again face to face so I've said this before in another one
of my videos that we don't remember what you say we remember how you made us feel
and with women this is absolutely more so true because we women are more so in
our feels in a given moment the reason you want to get a woman thinking about
you non-stop is because once you do that all bets are off you don't have to work
so hard to make her want you just as much as you want her what happens is she
starts to put in more effort she tries to chase you down even harder and you no
longer have to worry about flaking cuz you know damn well that she wants you
just as bad for all the shit I talk about girls will never make the first
move on you so you have to make the first move on her I'll tell you right
now for every single guy that has gotten me thinking about him in an obsessive
way and the ways I'm about to teach you I've made the first move every single
time on him so the more you can get her to feel you in your presence the more
she's gonna think about you and feel you in your absence so the very first thing
a woman needs to feel in your presence is she needs to feel connected to you
this is what I refer to as mentally arousing her cuz when a woman feels
connected to you and I've also said this in one of my past videos when a woman
feels connected to you what she does is she says hey this guy's a lot like me
and what is our number-one interest you're right ourselves so if she can
look at you and say oh my god this guy reminds me so much of me then she's
gonna be that much more interested in you because you remind her of herself so
where the first one is she needs to feel connected to you meaning she needs to
feel mentally aroused by you the second one is she needs to feel emotionally
aroused by you did I say that already first one is mentally aroused second one
is emotionally aroused and the way to do that is to get her feeling positive
about you so with the first one she feel mentally stimulated by you and she feels
connected to you the second one is when she feels an emotional connection to you
where it's not like oh man this guy both ordered the same coffee on Starbucks
it's like oh my god this guy who orders the same coffee at me a Starbucks makes
me feel good this can be achieved simply by making her laugh really getting her
to feel any sort of heightened emotion works they've done studies where they've
thrown people they haven't thrown them they've put people over like a
drawbridge together like two like a man and a woman and they had them walk
together and when people were done walking they fell in love with each
other because they were in these heightened emotional states with one
another so while you can make her cry or scare the shit out of her I'm gonna go
as far as to say let's just make her laugh and the third thing she needs to
feel she needs to feel physiologically heightened now when I say this I mean
she needs to feel any sort of body sensation that comes from you whether
it's by touching or flirting and indicating that the two of you are gonna
share some sort of experience in the future either way we're talking about
you putting your bodies together once she feels that physical touch from you
or once you allude to having a connection with one another in the
future what it does is she tells herself that like oh my god this guy that I'm
like a great connect to in who makes me feel so good about myself could be my
prince charming what so once you got all three of those going basically she's
gonna provide the water and sunshine for that little seed that you planned in her
to get her obsessing about you thereafter because some of our best
memories are tied to our emotions and if you can get her feeling mentally
emotionally and physiologically aroused in your presence she's gonna take that
and create her own memories and obsess about you later trust me I do it all the
time the great thing about these three steps is that you could do it in a
matter of minutes in fact I went skydiving over the weekend and I spent
maybe like 20 minutes with my skydiving instructor and by the time we jumped out
in that plane landed I turned to him I said oh my god
I think I'm in love with the you and he was like yeah I know it happens cuz really
what was happening is we're in this moment I know I'm gonna jump out of the
plane with this man he cracks one joke and mind you the entire time I'm not even
say anything because I'm so nervous he's just talking to me like this is what
we're gonna do this is what we're gonna do if you weren't scared I think you
were a psychopath ha I laugh and then we jump out of a fucking plane together
lo and behold 20 minutes later I'm obsessing over him thinking like oh my
god I love you even though I met your wife and I have a boyfriend
either way this is just the end result of what happens when you can mentally
emotionally and physically stimulate a woman so those are the three things a
woman needs to feel in order to get her obsessing about you when you're not in
her presence and for a more in-depth look on how to do this step by step I go
over all this in my speak to spark arousal program which you can check out
at speaktosparkarousal.com not only do I go over the signs and the mechanism
behind getting a woman to obsess over you without any rhyme or reason I also
tell you exactly how to do it so that you don't just sit there wonder well
how do you make her feel connected or get her to laugh or touch her without
getting an assault charge on me I go over it all in speak to spark arousal so
you won't have to worry so check that out now thanks for watching and I'll see
you guys next time