- How's the guy get this around his penis?
- Just stretches it around.
They're big and tall and ...
They got like, big ones.
- Oh God, please no!
- Oh yeah.
(playful music)
- I'm Donna.
These are my kids.
Alisha who's 13 and Andrew who is 10.
- And annoying.
- Today, we're gonna talk about birth control.
- Eww!
(laughs)
- What do you know about birth control?
- You take pills
to make sure that you don't have a kid.
- Why do you think someone would prevent getting pregnant?
- 'Cause they probably don't want a child.
They're not ready for it.
- Okay, what, no bananas?
(laughing)
- Bananas!
- [Man] Almost forgot.
- Awesome, I knew you'd like that.
- What's bananas have anything to do with it?
- We'll get there.
- This is an option, a good option,
to prevent what?
- Pregnancy.
- Okay.
- These are prescription.
You have to have the--
- You have to get it from your doctor.
- Right, you have to get it from the doctor.
- It's not 100% effective.
Mommy got pregnant with you when I was on birth control.
- What do you think this is?
- Liquid?
- It's a condom.
- Chocolate syrup, this is candy.
- Well, sometimes there's flavored condoms.
So--
- Why?
- Umm, that's another-- - Ahh ...
- Wait, what?
A female condom?
Where does this go?
- What's that?
- A female condom.
- Condom, oh it's a female condom.
I've never even seen one.
- Eww, it's oily, eww.
- Why does it look wet?
- It's a lubricant and also, I believe there's spermicide.
- Okay, why is this thing so big?
- Because she has to put it inside her.
To capture the sperm.
- Oh, that's nasty.
- So, you put this thing in the--
- Vagina.
- The banana is kinda the shape of a man's penis, okay?
Bleh!
- Do you wanna open one up?
- Mega big boy!
Mega big boy!
- Okay, so ...
- Oh good Lord.
You got the right idea, dear.
- Make sure there's some air.
- Some air?
- Mmhmm.
Gotta leave some space between the top.
- Okay now, remember, there ya go.
There needs to be room for the sperm to shoot out,
is it backwards?
- I don't know. (laughing)
- So, what you do is you put it on
and you roll it.
Do you have experience doing this, dude?
- No!
- When did you learn how to do this?
- That ruins a perfectly good banana.
- Well, I know and then you just, you roll it down.
- Just remember, this is just as much the male's job
as the girl's job to prevent pregnancy.
- Let's say, condom breaks, now what?
- You're S-O-L.
(blows raspberries) (laughing)
- No, you're not.
Don't use that term like you did.
It's the day after pill.
- There's a lot of forms of birth control.
- There's another one like a diaphragm.
- You can get a IUD and get inserted in your arm.
- Which is something that is surgically
I think placed inside her
that is always releasing some sort of spermicide
or something that kills off the sperm.
- But what's this one, what is this?
- Birth control women trust.
The spermicide doctors recommend the most.
- And then it looks like you use your finger
and you insert it into your vagina.
- It kills the sperm.
Now, will that prevent disease?
Correct.
- Wait, you don't put this in your mouth, right?
No, I saw a lady put something--
- Baby, that's a breath mint.
She put a breath mint in her mouth.
- Woah!
- There's another method called the pull out.
- It don't work half the time.
- How do you know?
- 'Cause I just--
Just a guess.
- A man can get a vasectomy.
- Does that mean
we get our balls chopped off?
- No.
- No, we don't.
- Do you know what outercourse is?
- No.
- Different ways that you can express your love
and you can be sexual without having to
use condoms and birth control that won't be risky
to pregnancy.
- Outercourse is where you're kind of having sex,
but you're not inside.
The boy's penis is not inside.
- Oh, so like you're still doing this,
only he keeps his thingy out of here.
- You know what dry humping is?
- Yeah.
- You ever dry hump a girl?
- No.
- So, the penis can rub on the outside.
Some guys rub their penis between the woman's breasts,
especially if they push the breasts together.
- Ugh.
- I believe it's also called oral sex.
Am I correct?
- I don't know.
- Blowjob?
- Oh.
Yeah.
- What is that.
- Putting his mouth or his tongue--
- No.
- In her umm ...
- I get it, I know.
- My whole childhood is ruined.
- Your childhood is not ruined.
- There's another way of making sure that we
prevent pregnancy and it's actually
maybe the best way, okay?
That is not to practice at all.
- Only way to prevent pregnancy completely--
- Is not having sex.
- Which is abstinence.
You abstain.
- Let's do abstinence all the time then.
- I would appreciate that until you're married.
- Well, I'll never get married then, so.
- Abstinence!
Really, okay!