Matt: Have you ever been at a bar club and a guy tries to C-block you or steal your girl? In
this video we're gonna tell you exactly what to do so that you don't lose the girl to the douchebag.
David: Well so the first thing to understand is that as men we compete with each other about women so when
a guy talks to a girl other guys are naturally tempted to do the same with that girl and if they
cannot find another one well they will feel bad usually and they will try to steal quote-unquote
"your girl" I personally take it very simply. Usually i just build the connection with her so that she
prefers me in this case it's pretty simple if the guy is next to us talking i just take her hand
and say "let's go" and go somewhere else. Or why is the guy talking to her in the first place because
he doesn't have anything anyone else so i just let them talk for five minutes i go find another girl
and i bring her back and i just let this guy talk to this girl that way everyone is happy
like we don't need to always fight each other. Either i can ignore him
or i can give him what he wants and everybody is happy i'm happy he is happy and the girls are
happy too. Matt: That's really important that you don't fight each other like david said. Because he could
be her brother he could be her friend and he comes in starts talking to her and then you're like
"Hey man what are you doing, she doesn't like you!" and you didn't realize they knew each other
now you're pretty much done. So a great question to always ask is "How do you guys know each other?"
Bryan: Yeah what i've learned from me especially because i'm so small a lot of guys actually want to come
into my interactions and do that. So what i'll do is like - i'll call it out. Uh and i know this is a
little bit more advanced in in regards to like stepping up detention but this happened on new
york i had these guys there about like six two the tallest guy was like six five and i had like five
girls that i was taking home and uh well at least out of the club but i was really interested in one
and they were trying to push me out they're trying to physically do it and i was like bro you don't
have to be insecure and the girls were like wow this guy's really sure of himself and they're like
we're not insecure we're just taller than you and i was just like it's cool man i know you're good
people like i i believe that and then the girls were just like wow and then that just completely
just blew them out of the water and then they're just like look we're just gonna leave with him
and i just took them all and then eventually it was just a really good eventful night from there.
yeah nice yeah. Jules: If a guy comes into my set and tries to take the girl from me. For the most part
i make it seem like he won turn around talk to another girl what tends to happen is that girl
sees i'm not only not affected but i'm creating a new opportunity for myself and i turn and she's
kind of standing there waiting for me it's really conveying that you're the least reactive guy and
you're the calmest yeah most guys have no game or skills with women so if you just kind of do
nothing go talk to other girls usually she'll come find you because you were a lot cooler than the
other guy which is actually a good point for you right because if she's bored after talking to him
then it's much easier for you yeah she'll like you even more. Josiah: BUT when competition gets steep
because everybody enrolled in The Attractive Man boot camp.. I'll just back turn them straight up
back to him like a gangster like guy gets in between me and the girl i'm talking now this
is all given that i know that he's a new guy not something else i'll literally just step in between
her and him and he just doesn't exist anymore quite literally. Matt: He's behind you talking to your back
he's done.. The longer he stands there the worse it is for him value goes down. Bryan: And sometimes it's
either one of two things where like sometimes the girl will actually bring a guy just to kind
of see if you're very sure of yourself when you're going out at night in that context
um she's just trying to see if you're sure of yourself it's almost like a test and i'll
either like you said ignore the guy because he'll he'll start to like talk talk talk and as long as
you have that laser focus and our presence then she can see that you're not reactive the other
thing is to befriend the guy even if he is like a normal guy and you already asked like who he is
you can either do one of the two things and i've seen that's very effective. David: I had a friend like
that in San Francisco we met like that and we were hanging out together for for for a time because
i was the guy that was starting to talking to to his girl but we ended up because i wasn't mad at
him he wasn't mad at me we would just discover that we have good skills and that we like to
we like the same thing so we were just yeah so we just become friends everything that we told you
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