Brainy Dose Presents:
10 Choices You Will Regret in 10 Years
Life is a series of choices; some you will be happy with, others you may regret.
As you get older, you probably wish that you could go back in time to correct some of your
mistakes.
You might wish to do things differently if only given the chance.
The best way to move on from those feelings is to learn from your mistakes.
Plus, if you take the time to look at the big picture and the possible consequences
of each choice you make, you’ll be less likely to experience regret.
With that in mind, here are 10 things you will surely regret in 10 years or MAYBE even
sooner!
Number 1 - Failing to Be Honest with Yourself
Being honest with yourself can be difficult.
It requires a lot of self-awareness, and it’s easy to fall into the trap of telling yourself
what you want to hear, rather than what’s actually true.
However, if you’re not honest with yourself about what you’re doing, why you’re doing
it, and how much it matters to you, you’ll end up feeling like your life is out of control.
You’ll feel like you’ve made all the wrong turns, and there’s nothing left for you
to do but keep going down this path because it’s what you’ve always done.
But maybe there is another way!
Maybe there’s a different direction for your life that would give you more fulfillment
than what you have now.
Perhaps things can change.
You don’t have to wait years to start making those changes.
You can start today by being honest with yourself about where things stand right now.
Number 2 - Getting Caught Up in The Small Stuff
Everyone’s got their own definition of what’s small and what’s big, but when it comes
down to it, you’re going to be wasting a lot of your precious life if you let yourself
get caught up in the little things.
Sure, when you’re stressed out and overwhelmed, some things can certainly get under your skin.
But years from now, when you look back on your life and its ups and downs, you’ll
regret getting hung up on things that didn't really matter.
As a matter of fact, the things we get hung up on are rarely worth the time and energy
we spend obsessing over them.
If something is important to YOU, it’s OK to be upset about it, but don’t let it become
something that consumes you and keeps you from living your life.
Number 3 - Becoming Polarized and Judgemental
Are you the type of person who tends to jump to conclusions?
Or are you more likely to withhold judgment until you have all the facts?
If you’re the former, then there’s a good chance that this will be one of the choices
you regret.
Why?
Because things are never so black and white.
Life is full of so many shades of grey, and you might not understand why someone would
make a choice that seems so wrong at first glance.
It’s also possible that you’re not making the right choice because of your own biases.
At the end of the day, everyone is just trying to find their own path in life, which often
involves learning new things and making mistakes along the way.
We all want to be seen as kind, accepting individuals who embrace differences.
Judging those walking down paths other than yours will only perpetuate a cycle of negativity
and make it harder to come together and find common ground.
Number 4 - Turning Down Opportunities
Sometimes, it can be hard to make the right decision, especially when you’re making
choices about something big, like your career or relationships.
But you’re more likely to regret saying NO when you could have said YES.
You’ll wonder why you were so afraid of the unknown, and why you didn’t just go
for it.
If something feels right but scary, explore it!
Don’t let fear stop you from pursuing what could be an amazing opportunity or experience.
Number 5 - Not Making Time for The People You Care About
You’re busy.
I get it.
When juggling so many other things, it can be difficult to find the time.
But when you’re older, all those things that seem so important right now will fade
away.
And if there’s one thing you can be sure of, it’s that quality time spent with loved
ones will always be worth it.
Your relationships with friends and family are what give your life meaning, so don’t
let yourself get too busy or distracted by other things that aren’t as important.
Number 6 - Basing Your Self-Worth On Other People’s Opinions
If you base your self-worth on what other people think of you, it can be a trap that
keeps you from being your true self.
That’s because when you base your self-worth on the opinions of others, you’re telling
yourself that if those people don’t like you, you must not be worth liking.
And there will always be someone who doesn’t like you, someone who doesn’t appreciate
your quirks, sense of humor, or whatever else makes you, you.
So instead of worrying about whether or not other people approve of you, why not just
focus on being the best version of yourself possible?!
Number 7 - Working Too Hard and Not Playing Enough
Work is undoubtedly an important part of life; we all need money and want stability.
But sometimes, we take it too far and forget about ourselves.
Sure, by working harder, maybe you’ll make more money in the short term.
But years from now, when you look back on your life, will you feel like it was worth
it?
Think about it.
When was the last time you felt truly happy?
Was it when you were working late?
Or was it when you took a day off work and did something fun?
The truth is that we all need to play a little more and work a little less.
If you don’t stop and smell the roses, you might miss out on some wonderful moments.
If you’re working so hard that there’s no time for fun, you need to reconsider what
you really want out of life.
Number 8 - Staying in an Unhappy Relationship Because It’s Comfortable
You may find yourself staying in an unhappy relationship simply because it’s comfortable.
But it’s something you’ll look back on and regret.
When you feel like you’ve invested so much time, energy, and emotion into a relationship,
it can feel easier to stay put than to face the idea of starting over from scratch.
You might be scared of ending up alone or think it’s impossible to find someone who
will treat you well.
But I’m sure there are people out there who would appreciate you and treat you right.
If your current partner isn’t one of them, it’s time to let go and start looking for
someone new.
Number 9 - Not Looking After Your Health
You might think that worrying about your health is a waste of time, especially since there’s
no way to know what’s going to happen years down the road.
But if you don’t take care of yourself, it will catch up with you eventually…
It’s tempting to choose junk food over healthy meals, skip the gym for another day because
you’re just too tired or lazy, or put off going to the doctor until you’re feeling
really ill.
But your health is the one thing that affects everything else.
If you think that you’ll be able to prioritize it later, think again.
A healthy lifestyle is all about taking care of your body today so that it can take care
of you later.
And while there are no guarantees in life, it’s unlikely that you’ll look back with
regret and wish you would have put less importance on your health.
Number 10 - Letting Others Decide Your Fate
When you let others decide your fate, you’re giving up control of your future and placing
it in someone else’s hands.
And while that might be easier and more convenient in the short term, it does have long-term
consequences.
What if they choose something that doesn’t fit with your values?
What if they make a mistake?
What if they never give you back the power over your own life?
You are the only person who completely understands your wants, needs, and desires.
And ultimately, you know what’s best for you.
If you let other people decide what you can or can’t do, you will surely regret it.
You don’t have to be a rebel, but you should stick up for yourself when others are trying
to sway your decisions.
When it comes down to it, having control over your own fate is always preferable to letting
others decide for you.
What do you think?
If you could go back 10 years, would you have made the same choices?
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