Take a moment to think about the WORST date you’ve ever been on.
Maybe he spent the whole time sobbing about his ex, perhaps he shared his weird fetishes
with you or hey, maybe he even surprised you by introducing you to his family (yes, that
happened to me once).
As bad as some dates may be, if there’s one thing to learn from them it’s that there
are certain kinds of guys to avoid when it comes to romance.
Hey ladies, Amy North here, and as most of you already know I’m a relationship coach
from the west coast of Canada.
I specialize in women’s relationship coaching and today I want to share with you some insights
about the kinds of guys to avoid when it comes to dating.
However before I do so I’d like to ask that if you enjoy this video then please show your
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So, let’s get started.
The first kind of guy you should avoid is Mr. Self- Righteous.
These type of men are controlling, bossy and opinionated.
They put themselves on pedestals and have a habit of belittling other’s opinions.
Self-righteous men tend to be arrogant know-it-alls.
Unless you want to be told what to wear, how to eat or what to believe in, skip on these
egocentric guys.
After all, healthy, loving relationships are based on a mutual respect for one another
and self-righteous men only worry about one person: themselves.
The second kind of man to avoid is the barbaric man.
When you hear the word barbaric you probably think of some primitive, unsophisticated beast
of a man.
The type that takes what he wants with little regard for others.
Well, that’s more or less what these kind of men do…
Flash back to modern times, these are the kind of guys you see in college movies and
sleazy nightclubs.
They’re the bros who brag about how many notches they have in their bedposts and who
holler at women on the street.
Needless to say, they lack respect for women and speak and act crudely around them.
In some ways they may even be considered misogynistic.
Unless you want to put up with their sexist views and savage ways, avoid these kind of
guys like the plague!
The next kind of guy you should avoid is the self pitying man.
He’s the “woe is me” type and thinks that the whole world is out to get him.
He sees the cup half empty and usually has something to complain about.
Nothing is ever good enough because he’s the “unluckiest” person ever….
In reality, he just thrives on sorrow.
You can usually guess what you’re going to get with this type of guy and that’s
a gloomy experience.
Self-pitying guys tend to fear spontaneity because they’re so caught up in their ways.
They crave sympathy and may even be a bit masochistic.
Unless you want to feel like you have a little black rain cloud lingering overhead, don’t
date self-pitying men.
The fourth type of guy to avoid is the angry man.
These type of guys are hot headed and quick to pick a fight.
When you spend time with them you’ll find yourself on the defence because to him everything's
an argument or debate.
What’s worse is you’ll have always to worry about what’s next.
Like a loose cannon, a night out on the town could quickly turn into a street brawl, or
a quiet evening in may end in tears.
While it can be nice to date someone so passionate about their opinions, be careful not to confuse
strong convictions and deep rooted rage.
Simply put, unless you want to walk on eggshells 24/7, don’t date this kind of guy.
The last kind of man you should avoid is the needy one.
Sure, it’s nice to feel important to someone, but these kind of guys are like leeches and
will suck the life out of you.
For instance, he may give you a hard time any time you make plans without him or make
you feel guilty when you leave him behind.
He’ll want to spend every minute of every day with you, and when he can’t be physically
close you he’ll blow up your phone with texts and calls.
You won’t be able to make a move without him knowing your exact location.
While it’s nice to feel cared about, needy men kill the romance by being cling-ons.
Unless you want someone to need you insufferably, don’t date these type of men.
Now that you know what to avoid, you can stop wasting your time on men that probably won’t
work out.
Once you do find someone who you feel makes a good match, try out my secret tips to make
him desire you, chase you and commit to you.
To learn these tips visit my website www.coachnorth.com and watch the free video presentation.
Now it’s your time to weigh in.
Are there other kinds of guys you avoid?
Do you think these are the biggest red flags?
Let me know in the comments below!
I’d be happy to hear from you so share your thoughts, questions and opinions!
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Well, that does it for now so until next time take care and good luck!