Hey, it's Mark here from Make Him Yours and today, I'm talking about one incredibly simple
attractive thing that you can do to make you stand out massively from other women and be
incredibly attractive to the guy.
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Let me paint a little picture for you that's common in early dating. You've been seeing
a guy for anywhere from a few weeks to a couple of months. You haven't yet had the exclusive
chat and you may or may not have slept together. It's a position where you're starting to feel
really good feelings for the guy, it's time to become really into him and you suspect
the same in return and then he asked to go away. He might be away for a week interstate
or he might have a buck's weekend or he might just be out for the night at a concert or
seeing a musician with his friends. This is a really common early dating scenario. Basically
you are really into each other and then you have some time apart. This is a scenario where
many women kill a guy's attraction and it's a great opportunity because it's so common.
It's a great opportunity for you to stand out from other women and show the high value
woman that you are.
Here's what most women do in this scenario.
They become threatened.
They start to act out of fear and it's incredibly unattractive to the guy.
They send him texts every 30 minutes like, "Hey, what are you guys up to now?"
Or "who are you with? Where are you guys going?"
Wanting to keep tabs on him to quell their own fears. Then perhaps if he doesn't respond,
they make it even more dramatic.
"Oh, well I guess you're not as into this as me," or
"Which girls are you with and who's that on your Instagram?"
What it communicates to the guy is that you only want him to enjoy his life
when you are around as opposed to what the high value woman does.
She knows her goal is not to take the fun out of his life, but
to show him that his life will be better with her in it.
She doesn't send him texts like, "Who are you with" or "Who's that girl?" She sends him texts
like, "Hey, hope you having the most incredible night, have a blast and
can't wait to hear how it all went."
She sends him texts like, "Hey you, have so much fun tonight at _____"
"Thinking of your face and hoping it's smiling all night."
She sends him texts like, "have an amazing time with the fellows this weekend,
so make sure Marty has the best weekend of his life and I hope you have fun too."
Seriously, texts like these blow a man's mind because men don't receive these texts.
Men don't meet women very often who actually want them to
enjoy their life even when the woman's not physically present with him. Now, a lot of
women worry that, "Oh ain't I giving him the green light to cheat on me or to go
with others if I do this?" Well, here's the reality. He has that option anyway. If you
haven't had the exclusive conversation, he has that option whether you like it or not.
And even if you have, he still has the option to cheat on you. You can't control his actions
and any attempt to do so is actually going to make him want to do it more. All you can
do is show him the type of woman that you are. Show him that life with you is going
to be more fun than life without you and then let him make the decision. If you put your
best self forward and he doesn't want that, then you'll go and find a man who does and
a man who's going to appreciate this rare kind of confidence. So as hard as it is, don't
let your fears and insecurities wish him a negative time when he's not with you.
Encourage him to have a great time. Send him texts like the one I sent before and show
the type of woman you are and that you genuinely want him to have a great life even when you
are not physically present with him. Doing so will make him see you as an absolute standout
and as one of the most attractive things you can do with the guy you're seeing.
Well, that's the video. Thank you so much for watching!
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