let me ask you have you ever met somebody before who seems really nice
friendly and the more you get to know them however they always seem like every
time they reach you that they want something from you if you're nodding
along yes this is one of many signs you've got to know to be able to spot a
fake nice person and the more success you get in your life
the more this becomes important to know all of these five points the reason
being is the more success financial success fame whether it is that you want
you're going to come across these people on a day-to-day basis in my life right
now it happens every day it literally
happened today and this is why it's important you pay close attention so you
can get these people out of your life and you can only begin to attract the
genuine people into your life so make sure to pay close attention especially
to the final one because that is the most important without further ado let's
go on to the first which is lack congruency be sure to write it down so
you lock it into your memory lack congruency fake nice people
typically will be very friendly in front of you of course you've got whatever it is
that they want so they all seem very friendly and I always find the fastest
way for me to spot somebody who's being fake-nice it's not so much how they act
in front of me that's almost like an act like an actor or an actress i watch to
see if we're having a meeting in a hotel reception or whatever maybe I am
watching to see how do they communicate with people they don't know how do they
speak with a receptionist the waiter the waitress whatever maybe because how they
are on a day to day basis you'll find fake nice people are incongruent
they'll put on the front to be nice to you but to other people they don't like
you will see the real side of them that's true testament of who they really
are so this gives you a clear indicator straightaway whether or not you're
dealing with a fake nice person they lack congruency in their day to day life
they'll act really nice to you but probably not so nice to other people
they don't like so lack congruency the second is they
will use you fake nice people their ego driven they focus on what they want and
they see you as a tool that they can exploit to get whatever it is that they
want fast so see for example it could be money it
could be fame you may have the leverage or a connection that they want and
they're going to do whatever it takes to be able to seem nice to you so you can
basically help them get what they want so it's a secret agenda that fake-nice
people tend to carry and have and it's just like today I got a message through
I'm not gonna name this individual I'm not about that but I got a message from
somebody I've not spoken to in many many months and I thought this person's been
nice to me so I began to converse back and you know shortly after I find out
they want things from me right and I wouldn't name what it is done go to
specific into it but yeah this is what they're like fake nice people they just
want whatever it is that they want because they're ego driven and they
rarely help you they just want something and they want to take it from you that's
the second sign the third sign is only them so just like how the second point
is about using you the third sign is about the focus on only them whenever
you're conversing with this individual pay close attention to see where does
normally the conversation go towards is it about their story their life their
life goal life mission if it's just about them them them them them them well
that's the third sign you're dealing with a fake nice person
they're ego-driven so they just focus on their model of the world they couldn't really care
less about what you want what goals you've got and to be honest once they
get whatever it is that they want from you they'll probably leave and I'm sure
you can think of those people in your life you come across who once they get
it they go and so this is the third sign they focus on only them let's go into
fourth sign which is gossip and this is a big one
gossipers who gossip in front of you I want you to realize they gossip about you
also in front of others think about it gossip is gossip so if you've had people
gossiping and telling secrets about other people which is often negative to
you they will share the exact same thing that you've shared with them with other
people as well if you've got these people in your life get rid of these
toxic naysayers this is a harmful energy you don't want as part of your peer
group because negativity is contagious when
one person complains about the weather watch the whole office complain about
the weather when one person complain look at how the whole office complain
how the whole world complains when one person gossips everybody begins to
gossip get them out of your peer group otherwise you'll begin to do the same
and you'll become a fake nice person because I mean think about it why do you
want to spread negativity there's enough of it in the world begin to get people
who've got a positive energy agenda and they're coming from a nice place which
goes on to a five final sign which is your heart knows your heart knows your
intuition knows or as science like to put it the vagus nerve knows and if you
are constantly find yourself having to logically justify something if you find
yourself every time you go away and you get some time to clear your mind and you
begin to have second thoughts about somebody that's a sign that they could
be a fake nice person so ask yourself tap into the intuition and the only way
you can do that is by calming the mind meditation journaling all of the typical
morning routine evening routine practices can help you to tap into your
heart's desires as well as the heart's intuitive clarity so work on this and
ask yourself does this person seem congruent to you do they really seem
genuine or are you talking yourself into it and as your little voice coming from
a scarcity mindset you don't want to let them go because you fear of an official
partner you fear you might not be to find another one whatever maybe get
clear in regards to what your heart wants and take action these are the five signs
that you're dealing with a fake nice individual if somebody you know matched
up all of these signs you've got to be willing to make bold moves in your life
one of the things you realized insider is successful people do not hang
around with toxic people period because we become who we hang around with and so
although it might seem a little bit ruthless to get rid of people in your
peer group realize everybody's on a different journey and what gets you from
A to B not necessarily get you from B to C so you got to be willing to basically
close chapters in your life and move forwards with that I hope you found
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friend and loved one who will benefit from knowing these signs as well as one
act of kindness a day will transform the world and that's why it's all about at
the end a right so insider just wanna say thank you so much for tuning in and
as always my friend follow your heart and take action and go live the life you
truly born to live I'll see you on next video soon take care my friend