Hey everybody I'm Sam and this is the success mindset Entiversal podcast and
today I want to talk about the one character trait the one thing that is
the biggest advantage you can have no matter what you're doing and I would
like to think that we should all work on to have more of it and be better at it
because guess what no one is perfect if you want to listen to more of the
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leave a review if you enjoyed my content so which is that advantage well I think
it is very simple it is understanding but the same way it is simple I think it
is the house of very complex right so understanding why is it so important
well first of all if you really understand yourself you'll be at peace
with yourself which is the best thing you can do for your mental and physical
health you can first of all make the best decisions about your goals in the
future in what you want to achieve you can make the best decisions every day
about how to achieve those things which ultimately set you in the best position
you can be right now second of all if you understand the world around you once
more that helps you make better decisions and you can really have
insight on what's happening now and so what can happen in the future and so
seek opportunities and the third thing is understanding other people which
arguably is almost as important as understanding yourself because whatever
we do we probably are doing it with other people if you can understand them
if you have empathy if you can really understand how to help them how to bring
them value how to get them to be the best of themselves which automatically
makes you leader it makes you person who can really influence
and changed the things around them so all I'm saying right it's all about
understanding right but I think another word for understanding which kind of
covers all of the things that we talk about is wisdom right I think wisdom
sometimes we kind of use wisdom as a word but we don't really understand what
it means right we kind of see it as a fun abstract thing that you know you
know a lot of stuff and so on but I don't think wisdom is about knowing
right that's just knowledge or something like that I think wisdom is about
understanding about making the best decisions at every point of time and
about having insight about what's happening and so what will happen in the
future and obviously that's made that is based
on experience that's based on inside and the way your brain works but ultimately
you know experiences and so on they only matter when we understand them and when
we have a good vision about what happened what's happening and what can
happen in the future that's why one of my mottos in the channel is we're in the
packed wisdom right because nobody is there right and probably nobody will
ever be but if we are on this path and we're learning together and we are
working on our mindset to understand much be empathetic really appreciate the
things around us then we can be on this pattern be better and better edit and I
just believe that we'd get a better understanding you know you just can't
help but being more successful because in the end it's all about bringing value
right if you understand other people you can bring them value and by bringing
them value you make an impact right and the bigger the value do that you can
bring that just means the more value you get in return and that could be as
business that could be you know what I'm doing now right just talking and making
content that couldn't be in any other ways right that could be in politics
that could be you know Martin Luther King Mahatma Gandhi and so on but all of
this is about having is in understanding so how can we actually
get better than understanding right well I'm really working on that for myself so
obviously I'm not some kind of guru or a prophet here that's what introversive is
all about talking about the things that I'm thinking and hopefully you can leave
me feedback back in the comments or connect with me so we can together learn
more and help each other right this is a society for all of us but I just believe
understanding is a what about listening right and you can start about listening
to yourself which is a bit interesting but you know a lot of people just they
don't spend the time to listen to themselves right they have some kind of
ideas that you know were inserted there when they were little maybe by their
parents by media by other people but I just world around us and they just never
questioned them right which is why a lot of people you know live as we say it in
a box may have some kind of baggage and you know I don't say that the Arabs had
chinks in this world and a lot of people haven't had you know good upbringing or
what things happened to them but you know dwelling in doors and leaving them
bring you down doesn't good any good for you right to just listen to yourself and
the stand-off things and when we understand ourselves we can find ways to
better ourselves right which is what we are doing now right we are listening to
things that can give us ideas that can influence us better then we go ahead and
every day work on those things so you know I would just encourage you you know
just sit down in big honest with yourself like absolutely hundred percent
honestly what you're good at right what you're bad at what you're afraid of
maybe watch you aren't admitting to yourself and just think about those
things eliminate think about how to eliminate
the negatives and how to focus on the positives and really find what you want
to do with your life second of always listening to others a
this is very very important but it is very very hard really so little people
are good at but I believe if you really want to make impact and bring value to
other people and be a leader like a true leader if you watched some of the simon
Sinek talks I have shared with you previously you can check them out in my
previous videos he talks about real leadership so your job is to actually
help the other people and enable them to be their best selves you really need to
be listening you really need to understand them right and that happens
by listening right by not going there and you know just giving your best talk
that you have ahead or just giving you ideas and you know they just need to
listen right but no on the coach we just listen to them listen and you know when
they're done talking you can just give your feedback and really appreciate them
and give them something that they really need instead of for teaching or assume
that they need or want to hear what you just want to say and Nelson Mandela
right probably most of us will say that he was a great leader he actually said
when they asked him about you know how he actually were to be such a good
leader he said that his father was a chief in their tribe and he actually
learned from him right because what he was doing is when they had a meeting his
father didn't go in there and start talking about his vision of what they
need to do but he listened and all other members of the council or whatever it
was were talking share ideas talk about problems and so on and he would only
talk at the end and most of the time he would talk actually very briefly because
probably everything was already said and a good solution was already found and he
will talk only when he could actually bring good value right and that's the
way that you can enable other people to grow and really be their best selves and
understanding the world well that's a completely other talk that
surely do very soon but about understanding the world around us we
just need to keep in our minds that there are world of things that are facts
right so I truly believe that we can change almost anything but I think that
for most of the things is not worth it's trying to change them right so we have
to just accept a lot of stuff and I talked about that in my previous success
mindset podcast about acceptance but we need to accept a lot of genes and use
them as our foundation to actually jump ahead so when I'm talking about
understanding the world around us I mean about really listening really seeing
what's out there accepting it finding the things that we
want and we can change and focus on them in just work and work and work so I
hoped you enjoyed this podcast in Italy I'll be just sharing with you things
that I'm thinking about that are changing for world changing my mindset
and actually see how they are making me more successful in my everyday life and
I hope they they can help you true but this is also an open conversation right
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