Are women attracted to men with money? Or is that just an excuse poor guys tell themselves
to justify the lack of women in their life?
Well, the answer might shock you.
My name is Matt Artisan from The Attractive Man
and I am going to finally answer the question “Are women really attracted to money?”
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Look, I’m sick of guys whining and complaining that girls only want money.
That you need to be rich to get hot women.
No that’s *bleep* wrong.
Let me explain…
First of all, yes women only care about ONE THING.
When it comes down to if she will sleep with you or not, it all boils down to one thing.
How you make her feel.
It’s not about the money.
It’s about how the guy with the money makes her feel.
Listen, if you’ve ever take one of my courses, you understand that the most influential thing
in a woman’s life… the thing she bases all of her decisions on… whether its the car she buys,
the neighborhood she lives in, or the man she sleeps with is…
How safe and secure does she feel.
So let me ask you, do you think she will feel more secure with a guy that has lots of money
or a guy that is flat out broke?
She obviously feels more secure with guy who is well off, that’s why women often look
for guys with decent jobs.
It’s a more “safe” situation for her.
If you are poor and stressed out about money all the time, then she will feel
unsafe and stressed out as well, which releases the stress hormone cortisol making it
very hard for her to get turned on or aroused.
That’s why most women don't prefer guys that are dead broke.
But the good news is,
like I said before, it’s about how you make her feel.
Just because a guy has a lot of money, it doesn’t mean she will feel “safe and secure.”
If you have a lot of money but you have a scarcity mindset and you are afraid you’ll
lose your money then she won’t feel safe either.
She will still feel stressed out.
And I’m sure you’ve seen guys who are dead broke, that do incredibly well with women.
It’s because they are secure in their money situation..
There are plenty of really great guys out there who might not
Be like, financially successful, but they have a lot to offer in a relationship.
You can be making pennies, but if the girl can see that you are confident and secure
in your future, then she will probably be attracted to you.
For example, when I was a struggling musician I had no money.
But I had passion and I believed I was going to be a rock star.
Yeah I know, pretty funny.
But I had confidence, drive and determination, even though I had no money, I made women feel
safe because I had the attributes of someone who would become successful in the future.
So what's more important than having tons of money is having enough money that makes her
feel secure, and having the attributes, body language, groundedness and confidence
that make her feel safe when she’s with you.
You see, a man with money typically has attributes and traits
that helped him acquire his wealth.
These traits are also very attractive to women yet most guys just see the “money” but
they don’t see the Man with core characteristics that women find attractive. Such as leadership, decisiveness,
assertiveness, passion, dedication, intelligence, confidence, status and influence.
Do you think these are traits that women find desirable?
Of course they do! Because they all influence her feeling of safety.
So if she sees a man wearing an expensive suit driving a Lamborghini she can safely assume
that he has many of the characteristics that she desires.
The good news is that even if you are broke you still demonstrate those characteristics and traits,
and many women will be attracted to you.
But if you are broke and you show no leadership, drive, dedication, passion, etc. and you just
stay home getting high playing Dungeons and Dragons all day -
"I recite the magical incantation of AdaleDar"
Then women will probably lose interest in you faster than a toupee in a hurricane..
WING GIRL WISDOM: Are hot girls attracted to guys with money? Well... Unfortunately some are, but
we can't really assume that those are very deep relationships. And although they may be long lasting,
How fulfilling are they? Some just want you for your money,
what kind of girl is that? You don't want that kind of girl.
You want somebody you can connect with.
So let’s break down 2 of these attributes that wealthy men typically have that women find attractive:
Ambition, and Status!
Men with money usually have a lot of ambition,
hence the reason they made their fortune.
Women typically don’t find men that waste their life sitting around all day all that hot.
A woman wants a man who knows his path and purpose in life, and is on a mission to accomplish it.
So if you are working a dead end job that you hate just to pay the bills then it’s
time to reconsider.
Stop playing it safe.
Man up and take some risks in life.
Even if you haven’t hit the big bucks yet, when you talk about your passion and purpose
women will find your enthusiasm and ambition very attractive.
Like I said before, I used to play in a band and I got a lot of girls even
though we were hardly famous and we were actually in a lot of debt.
But we had a whole lot of drive and ambition.
Now let's talk about status because a lot of Men with money also have status.
All female primates find status attractive because the high status male in the mammal
kingdom has better access to resources; which means more bananas for her and her offspring.
But you don’t a lot of need money to be high status.
That’s why you don’t often hear women raving about some of the richest men in the world because
even though they have more access resources they don’t look or act like high status men.
So instead of flaunting your diamond necklace, your gold plated shoes or
writing your number on the back of an ATM receipt that you found in the trash can,
walk, talk and act high status.
Move slow and calm.
Speak with authority and volume.
Stand tall with your shoulders back. And walk with purpose.
Make strong eye contact.
Approach women with confidence and groundedness
instead of nervousness and your high status body language
will actually make you seem more attractive to women.
So, don't make the excuse that women only want money.
Because that simply is not true.
Work on making women feel safe around you, demonstrate high status body language and
have ambition and other characteristics such as leadership, passion and drive, and guess what,
those characteristics you will also probably make a you lot of money.
And if you want to learn how to demonstrate those qualities when talking to a woman then
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My name's Matt Artisan from The Attractive Man, and I'll see you in the next video.