- So, how do you understand that
and the connection with the head?
- We had a really close friend,
a Sheriff's Officer who was shot.
- Okay.
Blunt in the head.
Died instantly.
- Died instantly.
And, are there like memorials like, in the town?
Cause he just showed me like a tree
and a bench, and like a big plaque,
like a park-like, in the town?
- Yeah.
- Perfect, so what happens is
when we loose someone tragically,
where does the mom come in that's passed as well?
- Not, his mom's still here, his dad?
- No, No. Where's the mom for you over here?
Where does the mom come in?
She's like running and she's saying,
I need to speak, I need to speak,
I have this opportunity to talk right now.
Okay, could you stand up please?
You stay right here.
I'm gonna, I'm probably gonna,
what happens is spirit piggy backs
so were you like thinking about your mom
or like saying, mom are you gonna come
through? - Yes.
- What your mother just validated
for you each one of us here.
They hear you.
My main way of, reason why I do what I do,
it is not for people to believe in Mediums,
I want you to know that you still have
this connection with your mom.
That she hears you because that is what you say to her
every single day, and you wanna hear her.
- I feel her all the time.
So know that what you sense, what you feel is real
and more importantly,
she just heard you speaking to her saying,
mom this is your chance Theresa is here, step forward.
- My heart is so full.
- So know that that is her.
Now your friend, I feel it's more
of like a brother energy for you, is that correct
or like you were very close?
- Oh we were very, very tight and going back to the bench,
the community did a park bench
and dedicated a soccer field to his name.
- Knowing that his soul knows, cause especially if we loose
someone tragically, sometimes we're afraid that their soul
is not at peace because of the way that they died,
or more importantly how they died.
So know that it is his way of validating
if he knows what's going on and in memory
and in honor of him, he is so happy
and knows and wants to thank you
for remembering him every day of your life.
Where do the balloons come in?
Did you release the balloons or the lanterns?
- What? (laughs)
- November it happened, and so every year,
so this will be the, because coming up the third year
so the last two years we've gathered at the bench,
as a community and done balloons with lights
and we do a balloon release. - Perfect.
- So know that he is there with you.
I am very sorry for your loss. - Thank you.
- Now, where did, is your dad still here
in the physical world?
Okay, so I wanna go over here where the mom is
and then dad is still here in the physical world.
- It's not me.
How do you understand that?
- My mom's deceased and my dad's (murmurs)
Okay that would be you, could you?
- What?
- Okay, so your mom says you know.
Now this does not mean, now you understand
what I was going through with your father.
(laughs)
Right?
- Correct.
- So it's just your moms way of acknowledging
that she knows that how you were trying
to keep everything together in the family, correct?
- Correct.
- And how difficult it has been.
- Right.
- So know that this is your moms way of saying that,
I support you in every choice and decision
on how you choose to handle things and that you talk to her.
You say, mom how did you do this. Right?
- Yeah.
- Know that when you do that,
know that her soul is with you.
Do you look like your mom? - A lot.
- Because she showed me a picture and she's like,
look at her and she had me look right into your eyes
but more importantly is right into your soul.
Do you have like the same piece of jewelry as your mom?
So I'm gonna explain to you what this symbol
that she showed me, I didn't feel it from her.
So when spirits shows me a sign or a symbol
and I don't feel it, it means that it has multiple meanings,
or it has a different meaning for you.
So remember years ago, rumor had it back in the eighties
(laughs)
They had a necklace.
(laughs)
There was a necklace and it will be like two hearts
and one would say best and one would be friends?
When spirits shows me that, that's my symbol for
that you either placed something for them to be buried with,
and, or you have the same piece of jewelry
or you had the same thing?
Does that make sense to you?
Cause what happens is they, I can piggy back,
which means that I can say something to someone
and she might not understand it, but you can.
Does that make sense to you?
What do you have matching of?
You have like matching tattoos,
or a matching, or a tattoo of someone that died,
that they had or you have? - No.
- Okay, how do you understand the double necklace?
Or the piece of jewelry or the same thing?
- Well my sister was buried in the same jacket
that my mom has.
- Perfect, you very angry that she died?
Cause she said tell my sister she can be as angry
as she wants that I died.
She says but I cannot have,
you didn't know that I was gonna be here today, right?
This is why I do what I do because your life
is so different since your sister died, correct?
She's showing me all these things that you feel
that she's gonna miss our on, are you married?
Or do you have children, like you're getting married?
- I'm married.
- You're married and you feel that she's missing out
on all these great things in your life and you feel.
Can I, I don't wanna use the word guilty,
can I say guilty or bad or you're mad and sad?
Because you feel that she's missing out
on all of these things
and you're having a hard time
embracing everything, fully.
Does that make sense? - Yeah.
- Look you have to interpret the message
on how it fits to really how you,
there is no way in the world
that I would know how you feel, right?
This is the great thing about spirit.
She's letting you know that she knows how you feel
and she says I need you to stop beating yourself up,
feeling guilty that you lived and I died.
You have to let that go.
Your sister says please,
imagine me standing in front of you healthy
with this suitcase open at the bottom of my feet.
And place in this suitcase every burden, guilt, angry.
Whatever it is, she says and I need you
to love and honor and more importantly,
respect yourself more than the anger
that you have connected to my departure.
Your sister is like, Theresa, thank you
for letting me speak to my sister
because she never ever, ever would have come
to see a Medium.
- Never.
- So things do happen for a reason
and I think I said this to you earlier Kelly,
you change people's lives with music
and I wanna thank you allowing me to come on your show
and share my gift.
Because this is going to change her life.
- I've never witnessed anything, I know it's time,
I hope you still got the tissues I sent you.
Crazy and totally cool.
Thank you so much Theresa. (applause)