- You've done it good, you've done it well.
- (laughs) Look at the kids of today.
She reminds me so much of my little sister, y'all.
(Gift laughing)
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- Hi, my name is Gift, and I am a teen.
- Hi, I'm Joyce, and I'm an adult, supposedly.
- Hi, I'm Elijah, I'm a teen.
- I'm Megan, and I guess that makes me the adult.
What are we doing?
- We are doing never have I ever.
- Dating edition. (laughs)
- Scared. - This is gonna be
tragic for me.
(Megan laughing)
- I didn't really know how cute I was until like college.
- You know, I'm 27 so I've had some time to date,
and it's mostly gone really well.
- Never had a boyfriend or anything like that.
- You're young and people are a lot.
- I think I have more dating experiences,
but probably not like super different.
- I think that for adults,
they're gonna be more experienced.
Would've had a lot of mistakes that they would've done.
- Talking to 'em might be different
'cause you know like us teens have phones
so now we can text all the time.
- Us adults don't. (laughs) - Yeah.
- But you don't really look like an adult,
so I don't know.
- Oh, I've been around the ringer.
- I think it's gonna go well,
yeah. - I'm very curious
to know about a teen experience.
I have a feeling that yours is gonna be like this
the whole time, and mine is gonna be like this
the whole time.
- Wow, that's some serious shade.
(lighthearted music)
- It's what I'm known for.
- Oh, I have.
- Yes.
- I've gotten messages,
but those are like weird creeps.
- I haven't slid into someone's DMs like we've never met
before, I just find them attractive,
like if I slide into the DMs,
it's because we have some kind of rapport.
- You know what you need to put?
I am a child, Lucifer.
Leave me alone, Devil.
- Did it ever workout?
Did they ever reply?
- Yes.
- And, and?
- The rest is history.
- (laughs) Okay.
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- I have not.
- A staple of childhood,
you gotta get on that.
- Young woman,
young woman with the box braids.
- All I remember was that this girl and this guy
had to kiss, but the guy had never made out before
and it just didn't go that well for him.
And I think he got (beep) for it
for like a long time so I feel kind of bad,
it can go bad.
- Wow, I'm not gonna try that anymore, nevermind.
- It was like a really childish one,
and we were just spinning the bottle
and doing random dares like when we were little.
So it's like I have not, but I have.
- Mm-hmm, mm-hmm, mm-hmm. - She doesn't even believe me.
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- Wow, look at the mentally stable youth. (laughs)
- I'm not a big fan of pranks.
- Yeah, me neither.
- Woo, I used to stalked these boys around the campus.
I don't know if this is appropriate for the child
to hear so I'm gonna need the child to cover her ears.
And I need you to go la la la la la.
- La la la la la - So one time when I was like
pretending like he was a, - la la la la la.
- what?
All right, we're not telling that story.
- I don't think I have
'cause they're so boring, and they get on my nerves,
so like I don't want that to happen to someone else.
- Yeah high-five, I agree.
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- No.
- Okay whoever does this, I'm praying for you.
Like that's so much effort.
I have never made a finsta to stalk anyone,
I just go ahead and stalk 'em.
- Oh that's nice, so. (laughs)
- My Insta is my finsta,
I give you the trash quality.
Why the heck you need two Instagrams?
You better show all yourself, or none at all.
- That's just creepy,
and no one likes a creep in the first place.
- I was being creepy,
but like out in the open, you know?
- So at least the person knew it was you.
I mean I guess that's nice of you.
- Thanks.
(lighthearted music)
- Oh, yeah no.
- I have.
- Oh, I have.
- I used to write to this boy.
My friend would write it 'cause my handwriting was ugly.
- I did it in the second grade,
I was a loser back then.
- Did you ever reveal it was you?
- No never, I was way too embarrassed.
- I haven't because I don't like
writing too much. - Don't waste your time
on these boys, get good grades.
- I don't think I have,
I've written love notes before,
but I'm an aries, so like i'ma let you know it was me.
- Wow.
(lighthearted music)
- (snorts) What?
No. - No, I haven't.
- But I do it on my account.
- And it's not like stalking,
I just didn't know what it was,
so I checked and I was like oh that's nice.
- Why?
- Because you see, I see them in person anyway,
so-- - But then you don't go home
and like just wanna look at their face?
Am I exposing myself? (laughs) - Yeah, yeah. (laughs)
- I see the notification for the new post
because I'm already watching him on story,
so I always wait
at least 15 to 20 minutes - I didn't know that.
- after that, so then I'm not the first person.
So that I don't look like I'm looking,
but I am looking.
(lighthearted music)
- Okay, I'm on the fence about this one
because, no no no. - Mm.
- Ooh I have, not to brag,
hella hella prom-posals, I had a high school boyfriend.
- Because I did it to my friend,
but it was like winter formal
and I was like, "Would you like to go to prom with me?"
On a paper, but never has it been done to me.
- I'm gonna say I have not because I was almost asked,
but then said person texted me before,
and then I was like no.
- So you knew they were gonna prom-pose,
and then you were like, - Yeah.
- "I'm gonna say no, so." - Yeah.
- That's really nice.
- Thank you, you see,
all my friends were like that's mean,
and I was like no, I just saved them from embarrassment.
- Yeah. - See.
- He's a nice boy.
- Honestly these children acting like they getting married.
Let's chill out, okay?
It's prom, your mom's gonna buy you a dress,
your dad's gonna get you a suit.
They're gonna rent a vehicle,
you're not paying for anything,
and then you gotta be home by 11:00 pm anyway,
and you're end up gonna go to Denny's or Waffle House after.
It is not that big a deal, I'm sorry.
The Instagrams are cute, your grandma's cute
taking the photo of you, but it is not your wedding.
- And so I'm walking down to my car,
and like all of the people in school are just like
watching me walk to my car,
and I get there, and I had this like old Mercedes
so it was like really long, it was like an airplane,
and the entire thing was covered in post-its that said
prom, prom, prom, prom, prom, prom, prom?
- That's extravagant.
- And then I had to take all the post-its off my car.
- Yeah. (laughs)
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- I definitely have.
I hate texting though, I'm old school.
Call me, FaceTime me, find my location
'cause if you got something to say
you better say it to my face.
- I have.
- What a great night that is.
- Right?
They always are.
I'm gonna say the latest I've stayed up,
three in the morning or something like that,
then I passed out.
Yeah, they were good conversations too.
- Even at 27, that's like a nice thing.
- I just go to the bed, watch some Netflix,
and then fall asleep eventually.
So I was tired, but I was like I'll keep the conversation
going because it's already started, let me be nice.
- Be nice, but you don't ever have to be anything
other than yourself.
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- That is not my parents' business.
- (laughs) Facebook official, people still do that?
- [Producer] Do you even have a Facebook, Gift?
- Yeah, but it's like for family.
- Especially in the earlier days of having relationships,
making it Facebook official was like oh, it's real real.
- It's real.
That seems so like cliche though to me.
Like oh yeah we're official,
so I have to change it on Facebook.
- Yeah.
Is there a way that you guys make it official like publicly?
- You'll see 'em on their Instagram,
on their Snapchat, on everything.
- So it's not an announcement, it just is.
- Basically.
_ I use Facebook for party invites,
but you'll learn soon enough. - Party invites?
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- No.
- I saw your hands. (laughs)
- I tried to, they found out.
- I did, but it was never a serious relationship.
It was like I'm dating someone,
I just don't feel like divulging this, nothing serious.
- Oh okay.
- I'm from a Haitian family, it is a big deal.
So yes, I have.
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- I don't think I have.
I think I was always super careful.
- Speak little, sis.
- It was really late, I was really tired,
and like me and my best friend text on messages
and then Snapchat, so I'm not even thinking,
and then I'm like goodnight.
And I didn't even have a conversation with him,
so I just never brought it up again.
- I would go to send to my friend,
I would like look up to see who I'm sending it to
three times just to be safe, and then I send it to 'em
because if you send it to your crush, it's over for you,
all your hard work has gone to waste.
No I've definitely done that,
but I didn't do it in my teen years,
I did it like last week.
So I took like a weird greasy photo of myself,
the person's name is very close to my little sister's name.
I accidentally sent the ugly picture
of like my nostril, booger in my nose.
He was like, "Are you okay?"
And I was like,
"Yeah that was an accident,
"the photo Apple's on, and it's just like yeah,
"so like yeah."
And he's like, "Okay."
And I'm like, "Yeah."
And he's like, "Yeah."
- Hopefully if you make that mistake you know,
they're not like it's over.
- Hopefully it's like a laugh, you can laugh about it.
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- I have not, no.
- That is a very particular experience.
- [Producer] That makes sense.
You're not old enough to be on the dating apps.
- Wait, of course I have. (laughs)
Like on a dating app?
I think I was picturing like
on Myspace or something, of course.
- First of all, you don't need to be meeting no one.
You better do your work,
in Jesus name you better work hard,
you better get that money, get that grade,
follow your dreams, travel, eat good food,
start arguments, change countries.
- Me, I already did, so.
(lighthearted music)
- They're usually already there,
so it's like-- - Ugh, such a simple life
where bae is just like right down the corridor.
Oh, I used to remember.
- I have not, and here's the reason why
because my school, they will call your parents
to tell you that your child missed school.
If I ever did that my parents would find out,
and I'd just be sitting there well,
and then I'd get caught.
- I don't think I have.
I'm not a rule breaker, it scares me.
- 'Cause I always put my hair like this so I could
hide behind it be like, "Hi."
Now it's like, "Oh, I got out of work."
"Oh yeah, I got out of work too."
"Oh, you wanna get something to eat?"
He's like, "Okay yeah."
I'm like, "Okay I'm tired."
And then we hang out.
(lighthearted music)
- Never done anything to put me in that situation.
- Oh yeah 100%, it hurts, it hurts, it really does.
- I have been rejected so many times
in my life to the point that I thought
no one would ever love me.
- I'm a fairly bold dater,
so if I find you attractive, like I'm gonna tell you.
- And sometimes the guys are just like sorry.
- That leaves a lot of room for like getting a no.
- What I've learned about rejection
is that I don't regret any of it because I put myself
out there, and I did something I would never do,
and I live a life I've never had.
So don't be scared of getting that no,
don't be scared of putting yourself out there
because you are beautiful with or without that job,
that person, that idea, that anything.
- But better a no than a I'll never know.
- This was pretty fun, I've never played this game before.
- Well that was fun. - That was fun.
- I enjoyed myself.
- I learned a lot about teen dating.
- I learned a lot about adult dating.
I also learned that she's kind of a stalker,
so you should be careful for that.
- So I think it's like a life that I can wait to.
Like I'm not like I wanna be an adult already,
like I wanna be a kid for as long as possible.
- My only piece of advice to you
is to not be afraid of going after what you want
even if that means - Okay.
- a little stalking.
- I always try to tell people when they're young
and you're dreaming about love that the only love story
that matters is the one you have with yourself.
Hotness goes away, and quick in high school.
Get money, get education,
that's what I did.
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