- Hey there, you sexy single ladies.
Hey there, you sexy single ladies.
Now while we play that intro
I want you to fill out the survey in the card right there,
and I want you to let me know which one
you think was the most flirtatious intro out of the three.
Keep watching.
Hey there, Adam Lodolce from sexyconfidence.com,
where I help the 21st century woman
create a love life that she absolutely freaking loves.
And in this video we're gonna be talking about
how it is that you can read a man's body language.
Now of course I'm shooting this video
before even releasing it to YouTube,
so I clearly don't know which of the survey you chose,
but chances are you chose the last one, number three,
as being the most flirtatious.
Hey there, sexy single ladies.
Now assuming I'm right, assuming you got this right,
make sure you comment in the Comments saying,
Yes, I read his body language correctly.
And hopefully that gives you
just a little bit of confidence
when it comes to body language.
Men's body language is really not that complicated.
You just need to be watching it.
Because most women just completely overthink body language.
So in this video, I'm going to be walking through
a few different types of body language,
and how it is that you can read it.
And you're gonna find that
in your interactions moving forward with men,
you're going to find these things,
and you're gonna find that, wow!
You're gonna get so much information moving forward
on what to do and how to react.
So let's start with number one, which is the head tilt.
Now if a man tilts his head when he meets you,
it is very likely that he is attracted to you.
There's warmth in a head tilt.
Many times you'll find that when a guy
is being professional with a woman,
he's not gonna say, Hey.
He's just gonna say, Hey very nice to meet you.
He's being professional.
But there's a certain level of warmth and intimacy
that goes along with kind of tilting your head.
People do it completely subconsciously.
We don't even think about it when we do this.
Chances are you do this when you meet guys that you like.
So keep an eye out for it the next time you meet a guy.
Maybe it's even in the workplace,
and you're not sure if he likes you.
If he starts doing that, chances are he's into you.
Number two is fidgeting.
Now back in the day when I used to coach men
on how to go out and meet you,
you sexy single lady,
I used to take them out and we'd go out
to a park or we'd go out to a coffee shop,
and, yes, I would actually kind of push them
to go out and meet women.
Kind of push them to confront their social fears.
One of the biggest things that a lot of these guys
would do is they would fidget.
They'd have a lot of nervous energy.
You've probably noticed that a lot of times
when you guys maybe out at a bar,
or out at a restaurant or wherever,
they might be fidgeting a little bit.
And it's probably a turn-off to you
because it shows a lack of confidence.
But just realize that, look,
having the courage to step up and be able to talk to you
and approach you and have a conversation with you,
it takes a lot of courage, takes a lot of guts.
So try to give him just a little bit
of room there to fidget.
Give him a little bit of room to be nervous.
It's totally natural.
Even paying him a little bit of a compliment,
it'll boost his confidence a little bit
and he might feel even more confident.
Then the nice thing is,
once a guy feels confident around you,
you're gonna get to know the real him.
You're not gonna get to know that Nervous Nellie
who came up and is still really nervous
as he's talking to you.
I should say, by the way,
as just an extra note to this,
is that I found that a lot of the guys
who are nervous when it comes to meeting girls
end up being really good, genuine guys.
It's unfortunate that, because they have
this bad body language, they fidget a lot,
women aren't attracted to them.
So if you find that you do have a guy
who's coming up to you, talking to you,
and he's kind of nervous and he's
fidgeting a little bit,
please just give him a little bit of time to get to know you
and feel more comfortable around you
and then you can get to know the real him.
He might just completely surprise you and, who knows,
that might be the guy you end up with.
Number three is when a guy touches you.
Now I think most women will agree that
the easiest way to creep out a woman is
when a guy touches you when you're not attracted to him.
But if you are attracted to him,
you are interested in him,
chances are if he touches you,
you're gonna feel much more connected to him.
If you're finding that he's really comfortable
touching you,
and of course the hand and the arm,
that's more cordial, that's more like friendship,
But if you're finding that on your shoulder,
your lower back, he's comfortable with touching you,
chances are he's giving you signals that
he's seeing where this could potentially go.
So keep an eye out for that.
If a guy is breaking that touch barrier,
it's likely that he's interested in just a little bit more.
The next body language to read is
how long he holds a hug for.
Now you've probably had this happen to you.
But if you've ever hugged someone and they just held on for
just a couple seconds longer than is kind of normal,
it's likely that if he's holding on to that hug,
he doesn't want to let you go.
I mean he really cares about you.
There's something going on there.
There's something more there than just a friendship.
Friends, girl and guy, they don't hold on
to hugs for longer than normal.
It's just a quick hug.
But if he's really holding on,
he's taking that time for your bodies to connect
and your energy to connect with one another.
So keep an eye out for that if he is
holding on to that hug for a just
a little bit longer than it feels socially normal.
Next, is he constantly touching his face?
Now this was one of my worst giveaways
when I was going out and meeting women.
And Jess would always say this after we,
of course, were in a relationship with one another,
she would always say,
and when we first started talking that first day
we met on New Years, it's three years ago now,
that I was just constantly touching my face.
That is just something I do when I'm nervous.
I've seen it even when I speak sometimes
in front of large audiences.
Sometimes if I'm nervous I'm touching my face.
So if you find that a guy is doing that,
it's his way of grooming himself,
or just making sure he doesn't have anything
on his face, or on his lips.
It's more likely for you women,
when you are attracted to a man,
that you're gonna be actually touching your hair, okay?
So both of these are indicators of interest.
And finally, the best body language to really look for
is just if he's constantly smiling.
Humans smile when they're interested,
when they're happy, when they're engaged.
One of the best things that you can do
to attract an amazing man,
is to keep that smile.
I call it smocking, smiling while talking.
So these are all really important
indicators to be looking for.
But don't necessarily read into them more
than just them being indicators, them being signs.
It gives you just those subtle moments
of when you should keep talking to a guy
or when you should stop talking to a guy.
And I really believe that
really what separates great communicators
from bad communicators is body language.
The best way to improve your body language
is just by noticing it.
So now that you've watched this video,
you now know more than 99% of people out there
when it comes to body language
because most people don't even think about it.
But if you want more help to be able to get out there,
attract men, flirt with guys,
I recommend you click on the link in the description.
It'll take you to a free training.
I also have a link at the end of this video
that's gonna help you be able to
get out there and be more effective
when it comes to talking to men,
flirting with men,
and more effective on dates.
Also, if you enjoyed this video
please leave a comment below the video.
I really appreciate it.
Let me know any questions you have.
I'll answer as many as I can.
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Thank you so much for watching
and I will speak to you,
you sexy single lady, next Sunday.
Bye-bye.