.The first message you send to a girl is perhaps the most
important thing in the entire relationship.
It creates the first impression.
Sets the frame and dynamic for the relationship.
And conveys your value to the woman all at the same time.
If you mess it up, you’ll be left with nothing, and I mean that literally.
No response. Nothing to look at.
And this is exactly what 99% of guys are used to seeing.
An empty screen and the dumb opening message you said to her
This is typically the impetus for the start of another late night
lotion-y rub session on everyone’s favorite site.
But lucky for you, you have God on your side, literally, and I’m gonna show you how.
And since most guys in 2022 are too scared to meet women in person
I’m going to give you my breakdown of how to text girls on dating apps for fast dates.
Step 1: “So this means we’re dating now right?”
This is self explanatory. This is one of my favorite go to opening lines because
it sets the romantic frame correct from the start.
No “hey” “whats up” “whats your favorite color” BS.
Ain’t nobody got time for that. Just straight shooting and making
intentions clear while keeping it fun and playful.
Most guys suck at texting on dating apps,
so being upfront and direct from the jump will get her attracted.
Step 2: “So when are you free for our first date?”
Once she responds to your first message, typically you can just go for the date right then and there.
If she says something that requires a direct response, respond to her message then immediately
send this message as a followup to keep the momentum going and the conversation directed well.
The wording of this message can be altered, often I say
“so when are you free so I can take you out?”
But the important thing is that you ask when SHE’S FREE.
Don’t just simply ask, do you wanna go on a date?
Go a step further and ask for an available time… that’s the purpose of asking when she’s free.
Because once she tells you, all you have to do is lock in the logistics and not screw it up.
Typically, by this point, she’ll respond by saying
when she’s free and then you can go for the phone number to seal the deal.
If this conversation flow doesn’t match your style,
and you want to try another approach here’s my bonus opening message.
The message is: Hope you’re ready for our first date this week.
It’s open ended… gets the girl intrigued and sets you up to lock in the logistics fast.
Once she responds positively,
all you have to do is ask when she’s free and get the number to lock the date in.
These 2 methods are my current approach on dating apps because they’re most effective.
It keeps things simple, gets immediately to the point and doesn’t waste any time
and it maximizes for what I’m looking for… DATES.
I’m not interested in penpals or long drawn out conversations that go nowhere.
I’m on there to meet and connect with girls in real life.
This strategy requires you to have lots of volume, meaning you have to get a decent amount of matches
for it to work because it weeds out all the girls who aren’t serious about meeting up.
Some girls are on apps for fun, for an ego boost,
free male validation, and tons of other reasons other than to meetup.
This conversation script makes it easy to get rid
of those girls and get you on dates with the serious ones.
If you setup your profile correctly and implement this conversation script,
there’s no reason you can’t go on 2 or 3 dates per week with ease.
Hundreds of guys inside my InstaGame course have been using this script for months now
and they’ve gotten TONS of dates as a result.
In fact, most of the screenshots you saw in this video came from my students inside InstaGame.
Like Rob, who said he never thought he’d be
getting multiple matches on dating apps at a time. Or Alex who said,
the course helped him get a great first date with a girl he’s already planning to see again.
I always share my experimental, and most up to date openers, profile hacks,
and attraction building secrets inside InstaGame first before they go live here on YouTube.
So if you want to learn how to setup your dating app and instagram profiles to get you
dates on autopilot like you saw in this video, then click the link below and join InstaGame.
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That’s it from me today, my disciples. I’ll see ya again soon.