Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com, dating coach for shy
men all over the world. Today we're gonna be talking about tension. I bring
this up in a lot of videos. It's so important so crucial for you to get a
girl attracted and to want you on a physical and an emotional level. Tension
women love it. I have to say, I don't think guys like it as much. Guys are
just like alright, I see a girl, I want her. Let's go, let's do this. But for a woman
that build is so important. It takes time for her to be attracted it takes time
for her to be turned on. But when you pump that up and pump, pump, pump
it up and get it to the point where she is so just like I want this guy, then she
is going to be all over you. That's what we're talking about on this video. How do
you get her to make the first move? There's never a guarantee. Most
of the time a woman, she will signal and give you signs that she's interested but
she's waiting for you to actually make the move. Whether that's gonna make the
move for the kiss or to go for sex or to get her number or to approach her.
She's waiting for you to do that but how can you get it so you flip the script a
little bit and you get her coming on to you? This is gonna be where tension
comes into play. Tension should be built no matter what but especially if
you want her to make that move. There's various scenarios where you're
gonna be doing this, so it depends. Where can she make the first move?
And what move are we even talking about? Specifically the move I'm
talking about here is something more on a physical level. How do you get her to
make the first move on you? Again no guarantees but either way in the process
you're really getting her excited. There's different scenarios. Maybe one
you are at a bar or a loud club, loud environment, very popular place to
meet women and I highly recommend it because lots of women go there who are
looking for men like you. On the other hand, you might be with her on a first
date or maybe she's over at your place. You guys are on a couch similar to that
one, wherever. How are you going to get her to make the first move? You build the tension
by getting physically close to her. Literally your body is going to be close to hers
and you're gonna be almost going for a kiss or almost going into pull her in for
a hug or to touch her in some sort of way. You're coming very close but
you're not hitting it quite yet. Examples of what I'm talking about.
Let's say you're at that loud environment. One thing you should do
is when you're talking to a girl, you guys been talking for maybe five minutes,
maybe ten minutes really utilize the fact that it's so loud in the
environment that you have to get close to her. Now of course maybe your
body's aren't gonna be completely pressed up against each other, but you're gonna be
very close to her and what are you gonna have to do? You're gonna have to lean in
to say something to her. You're going to have to lean your head in to say something to her in
her ear and the ear is wow a very sensual place for actually men and women.
But women love it so imagine you're with a girl, you're at a bar or in an
environment and you're talking to her and you lean in and your lips are just
like right about to touch her ear because they're so close to it but
you're just saying something to her and she can feel the little vibrations in
her ear, this is going to turn her on and it's gonna get you guys close
because literally you guys are close to each other. I'm gonna give you another
example here. Let's pretend maybe you guys are dancing, so you're at the
club and you guys are dancing. Well what happens when your dancing? Again
you're physically close to each other. Maybe so close to each other that your
face is pressed up against hers and your noses are touching a little bit but
you're not kissing her yet. Again remember here, we're talking about
tensions. It's like you're getting really close but you're not going all the way
and that is very key here in terms of turning or on. You're building up that
tension so you guys are close, you're about to kiss but you're not and maybe
when you're dancing that your cheek is like a little bit of grazing hers a
little bit but it's not fully pressed up against each other. Let's get out of
the bar scenario. Let's pretend you're on a date, you guys are talking and you're
having a drink. Maybe you're actually at another bar but you guys are close to
each other okay so again you being very close to her. Maybe your leg is
grazing hers again maybe it's a little bit loud so you're kind of whispering in
her ear a little bit. I don't mean you're whispering like sweet love nothings to
her. I mean you're talking to her but you're doing it very close
face-to-face. Now imagine not only are you there, but
maybe you're back at your place. You're back at your place.
What can you do here? Well you guys can be on the couch, you guys can be talking
to each other and I'm not gonna spoil it because I'm gonna actually show you how
it's done. I want you to go in the description and there is a link that's
gonna give you a free video showing you how to build tension with a woman when
she's at your place that gets her wanting to jump your bones. That's
what we're talking about here. You're getting so close to her physically
that she's getting turned on in the process and then she's gonna have no
other option but to just go in and start kissing you. I actually have that
video, it's a demo of me doing it with another girl showing you how you're
gonna get physically close to her. Your face is gonna be close to her and
close to her ear and then you can easily go for the kiss or she's gonna go and
try to kiss you because she's so turned on. Remember this area right here,
all up and down the neck all, by the ear, even inside the ear is so sensitive
to a woman. So sensitive to a woman that when you get close to it when
you're talking to it maybe even you're starting to kiss it a little bit, when
you're with her, she is going to love it. And then she's going to just pull
you in and grab you. And if it doesn't happen that's fine you can still always
make the first move because it's your job anyway as the man to lead and be
dominant. To sum this all up I think really the main idea is don't be afraid
to get close to her in an environment. Of course you don't do it right away.
You got to calibrate it a little bit. You're not gonna just go up to a
girl be right in her face. It's a little awkward she doesn't know who you are. It's kind
of weird. Of course you can maybe do that and get away with it but really you
build up to a little bit. You build up to a little bit so
when you meet a girl and you're talking her, make sure that eventually you're building
the tension enough that you're talking to her and you're getting close to her
and you're flirting with her and you're looking her in the eyes and giving her
really good eye contact showing her that you're not afraid of her and that you
are attracted to her, that you are interested in her and then you getting
so close to her, it is slowly getting her attracted and turned on and hopefully
she jumps her bones and makes the first move. Go in the description right now and
get Tripp's Famous Tension Technique where I show the demo of exactly how to
build that tension with her when she's at your place and you guys are together
so then you can go and turn her on and then she will want you so badly. Go in
the description and get that. Comment down below and I want to hear your comments.
Watch the demo and and throw me down a comment down there and let's talk about
it and see if it works for you. Alright, peace out. I'll see you in the next video.