The fact that this is also a small group study, and that ladies can gather together in
a small group of ladies and interact with the material both biblically and practically.
Because that's why we wrote it together. You know, I'm kind of focusing on the biblical part—
Not the women part. That's a good thing.
Chrystal comes along and she adds that feminine part in real time, realistic
experiences and relevancy, and so I think women will be able to sit around the
table, sit around some coffee and cookies and tea, and be able to
vibe with one another over the practical reality of what it means to be a woman,
but the biblical hope of what it means to be a kingdom woman. I think that will
add a uniqueness to the study.
That's a great idea because if you look at women, traditionally,
women had that before technology took over our lives. You know,
hundred years ago, fifty years ago, women we're together. They raised their kids together.
They prepared meals together. They just hung out together a lot more
than they do today, when you just simply put up your garage door opener up and go
in the house and get going on all the chores. So that kind of
curriculum study helps, helps women connect.
As my grandmother used to lean
outside of her window when she wanted to have a conversation with her friend next door,
and we just don't have that. In the last couple of years, I've had the blessing
of being able to live next door to my sisters. So I've been able to experience a
little bit more of what that might be like. But I tell you, these small group
studies where you have a reason to gather around and discuss, not just to
have fellowship but also to say, "Hey, you know, what is God's hope for me? You know,
at a real high level, real broad level, what is God's hope for me?" And to be
vulnerable enough to share that with other women and then to be challenged
with the idea, "Now that you know that, what are you gonna do about it?"
You know, the strength of women, too, is that ability to connect. There's been many
books written about it—Mars and Venus and Spaghetti and Waffles. Just that
women's brains are so interconnected, and men's brains are so compartmentalized.
Men, Tony, when we get together we, we want to do something like go play a sport,
go play golf, and a man can go play golf all day with another guy and get
back, and his wife will say, "How's Betty, his wife, the guy you played golf with?"
And he'll go, "I don't know. We never talked about it."
Didn't even know he was married.
Exactly.
It is such a weird thing. Men just do stuff, and they don't necessarily connect. Women need that don't they?
Yeah, absolutely. I've had women's groups in my home, and we have husbands that are calling for their wives,
"Where are you? You should be home by now," because we're just so excited
to get together and have the experience to share. This is another opportunity to do that.
A lot of Chrystal's roles here is, having my wife in the women's ministry,
and that also intersects with our small group ministry, so she's actively
involved in connecting women with other women, women with other needs, and it's
exciting to see women bond with one another so naturally in helping one another.
It's a fight to get men to do that because being vulnerable and
being a man, they don't equal, okay? Being vulnerable and being a woman, well that
really facilitates. That's a party. That's a party, that's right.
So they love having these parties, and so I think this book will facilitate that.
I mean, we talk about things like the significance of a woman, the faith of
a woman, the strength of a woman, the impact of a woman, the excellence of a
woman, the commitment—
The value.
Yeah. Women will feel valued. They will feel like,
"God values me, so you should too."
So I think it will be a beautiful exercise.
I feel a war coming up in my spirit right now.