what would Jamie do hi Jamie I'm so
happy that you have this podcast answer
some of our questions so I'm really
nervous kind of with this I'm sorry if
my angle is not good because English is
not my first language but I will try so
before I actually the question I'm gonna
tell you a bit of a story so I like to
dance a lot like it's the part of my
life my whole life so I am I am in this
like dance community like a kpop dance
cover we cover a kpop dances and stuff
you know and we've been together say for
seven years I think since I was in high
school and now I'm in college and I love
them so so much with all my heart
because it literally changed me as a
person but nowadays I feel like the
spark is gone like I feel I'm the only
one who feels enthusiastic about stuff
you know like before when we already can
enjoy in the competition or maybe a
performance everyone seems to be so
excited about it but maybe because we're
growing up and growing up sucks a lot
and we have a lot of growing up things
to do and it's it for me I don't like
growing up I don't feel like an adult
sometimes and everyone's like really
busy with their life and I'm still here
thinking should I continue this or
should I just give up for it but I I I
can't let it go because without them I
won't be Who I am today and I'm just so
confused what should I do
I want to talk about with my friends but
I don't think they get it even though
we've known for almost my whole life but
I just don't like to option you know I
stay or leave but I don't want to let it
go because I love them so much so what
would Jamie do in this kind of situation
thank you so when I was young I started
on swimming
so I swim for at least eight to nine
years and that was like one of my
hobbies I will call and what I would
actually love to do but I started to
sing and get a lot of interest in that
scene not swimming so if you keep
finding something new for yourself you
won't actually feel empty as how you
would feel right now I will call so
rather than dancing and if you feel a
little stressed about it I think you
should try new things with them also
like except dancing like go out and make
a tour for cakes or I don't know like
knitting class or I think you should buy
you should do something with the group
another thing than dancing try to have
your own time not as a group like your
own time I would suggest that we'll see
um the part when you when you told me
that um that you don't want to grow up
and you don't want to be an adult I
think it's not a problem I think
everyone has that in in some way I don't
want to grow up because to be honest I I
don't want to be in all the room of
responsibilities that have to take with
me because when I was young I would just
blame it on people I'd be like she did
it she told me to do it but as you grow
up there's a lot of responsibilities
there's a lot of things that people want
you to be but you're not exactly ready
yet so having the time
the time for yourself I think that's
like the first thing that you need like
for yourself like keep thinking what you
what you really want and what you have
to do because you can't just avoid it
because that's not gonna help
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