This is the financial law destiny number 3. Which is purpose. And purpose has
to do with values and rules. Because the reality is we all have a value system. We
have things that we value in life. And then from that, we create rules. Sometimes
called beliefs. And what I'm going to do is I'm going to endeavor to give you the most
accurate blueprints of your life so that you can better understand why you do,
what you do why you think what you think. I'm looking for someone that on a
regular basis deals with perhaps even suicidal thoughts, deep depression or
sadness. And frankly, can't figure out how to get out of it. They're trying their
best. But the reality is it's hurting, they're suffering and that would be the
best person that I could bring on stage because I want to help you understand
how they got there. I want to give them one of the biggest gifts and I think
it's going to end up being one of the biggest gifts for you. I could tell you
something about, Nate. He's got a big heart. He has big goals for his family. He
doesn't want to let his family down. But I also know that mindset-wise, it's been
pretty shot.
What's going on in your life? What's it like being you learning about all this
conversation, emotion? What's your emotional regular state like?
I've never... I grew up really poor. In fact, I was homeless for a while with my
mother. We lived in a homeless shelter. And I have continued to be poor. And
that's just been really frustrating to me because I thought that after college
or whatever I... You know, I thought that eventually through hard work, I would be
able to escape. And then when I saw that that wasn't happening, it just you know,
crushes your spirit over the... Over the years. -I want you to take me to the
bottom of the barrel. Just get real, get vulnerable. Because the deeper and the
more authentic you're willing to be, the greater the gift they have for you because I
have some things to show you tonight. And all of you that are going to rock your
world in understanding personal identity, what your purpose is. We're going to show
you how you're constructed as a human being and then what you can do to
manipulate what isn't working. Because some of you, you guys know what
deep depression is, right? There's this confusion that this sadness is me. And
you've lost control of your emotions. And I understand how many of you know how
powerful emotions can be. They can be insanely powerful and they can be so
convincing that they destroy people and destroy lives. Bottom-of-the-barrel,
what's down there?
-Yeah. Like unfortunately suicidal ideation, acceptance that you're a
failure. Fear. Fear that you'll be a failure. -And yet, how many of you can
identify with what he's felt and experienced in the past?
-Thank you. -Definitely not alone. So, even though it's not the most comfortable
conversation to have, believe it or not, when I told you to come to this event
and you came with your wife, I want you to understand something.
I knew that the work that we would be doing here was going to run far deeper
because you've been putting yourself out there on real estate and have you seen
moments where you've lost faith and that like this isn't working, this isn't
getting me where I want to go. And once you understand that all of your efforts
are a waste. I need you to understand something. Some of you, waste
extraordinary amounts of time thinking you're being productive. Saying something
isn't working when you don't get what you want. One, what's wrong is the
operating system. So, if you lean into this, this isn't about just real estate
or your business. This is for your marriage. This for your wife, this for
your kids, this is for your future. This touches everything.