- Treat yourself how you want to be treated.
If you take care of yourself,
he will want to take care of you too.
And if you treat yourself with respect,
he will also treat you with respect.
Remember to set the bar for a quality man
and keep the bar there.
Hello, ladies is my name is Ieva Bereisaite.
I am one of Greta's High Value Women Coaches.
In this video, I'm gonna be sharing
three beautiful behaviors that make him fall for you.
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The number one behavior is confidence.
If you ask a high value man
what he finds beautiful in a woman
or what characteristics he really likes
he will most likely say confidence.
Nowadays, there are a lot of people out there
who are insecure about the way that they look
or maybe they're insecure about a certain personality trait
that they have and find it hard to be confident.
Never forget that confidence can always be learned.
So if you are not confident, don't worry we can change that.
When you for example, act high value
by not chasing your guy but letting him come to you,
you automatically show value and confidence
within your self.
A woman who does not doubt her worth
or her ability of finding a high value man
or a quality man is a confident woman.
A woman who voices her opinion, goes for her goals
and her dreams is of course, a confident woman.
A woman who does not seek validation
from either her guy or from other people
shows a ton of confidence.
So for example, don't ask him things like
where is this relationship going?
Do you still love me?
Do I look pretty?
Or do you think I maybe gained weight?
Never ask your guy any of these questions
because it shows a lot of insecurity
and confident women who don't show their insecurities
because these insecurities can be used against her.
Focus on making your life wonderful and beautiful
and decide if you want to give him the honor
of being a part of your life.
You simply decide if he is good enough for you
by looking at his actions.
Look also at the values that he has and also his morals.
And this is important
because after all you want, at the end of the day,
a life partner.
A partner who is with you throughout your life.
So it is therefore extremely important
to look at these things that he has to offer
and the way that he is and ask yourself,
is he actually good enough for me?
Because this is the question
that a confident high value woman would ask.
She would never ask if she is actually good enough for him
instead, if he's good enough for her.
The second behavior is a positive attitude.
Generally, a positive attitude towards life
is extremely important.
This for example, includes not nagging,
not complaining, and not gossiping about life
or other people.
So if you have this tendency, make sure to cut it out
because it is very drama prone.
High value men are not interested in women
who get in involved in drama
or women who constantly complain or nag.
Make it a priority for yourself to be happy and healthy
within your life.
When you focus on living your best life
and doing things that you like
or things that you're good at,
your confidence level will rise
and you will become happier and therefore more positive.
If you feel like, "Oh no, my confidence is low.
"What can I do?."
Do things that your good at.
Your confidence level will literally start growing.
This is very attractive for men
because positivity is associated
with a fun and happy mindset.
And it's associated with making happy memories and moments.
You can't make happy and and have fun times
with a negative person.
It's much more difficult or a person who nags or complains.
Having fun is key for men when they are in a relationship.
The relationship starts blossoming
when the pair are having fun
and the guy will fall in love with you more
because he will associate you with a fun and happy life.
Remember to not force or fake happiness,
instead do your best to create a life that brings you joy
and brings you a healthy mindset.
That is the most organic
and the best way to build positivity.
So don't fake a smile or fake happiness
instead build step by step for yourself
and it will naturally bring you more joy into your life
and also into your relationship.
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The third thing that men find beautiful
is to have a certain standard set for the relationship.
Let me elaborate.
It's important to set a standard
at the start of the relationship
of what treatment you accept and you do not accept.
Sometimes the struggle comes later on in the relationship
because you need to keep that high value standard
that you set in the beginning.
See how the relationship goes from there
and how he reacts in certain situations.
If he says something rude or mean,
make sure that you set a boundary
and let him know that he has crossed the line with you
and that it's not accepted.
Men secretly love when a woman is able to set a boundary.
Okay?
It shows a lot of confidence and feminine strength.
When you start setting boundaries
in the start of the relationship,
he will get used to this idea very quickly
and will know that if he crosses the line with you,
you will set a boundary and there will be a consequence.
Very simple boundaries can be just things that you say.
For example, if he says something rude
you can say something like,
"That wasn't a nice thing to say,
"I'd appreciate it if you didn't say that again."
And if he says it again,
you simply can give him the silent treatment
or you can distance yourself emotionally a little bit.
And he will notice that he has stepped over the line
and that there are consequences
if he does not respect your boundaries.
A lot of the time, if you establish boundaries
in the start of the relationship and he gets used to them,
then boundary setting will come very easily to you.
And it will not be something that has to be forced, right?
And so if you tell him something like,
"Yeah, I don't like you calling me that
"I'd appreciate it if you drop it."
And you will see that he will drop it.
But in order for the boundaries to work beautifully,
start establishing them in the start of the relationship
when you start pushing boundaries
in later on in the relationship,
it can also work for sure
but it can seem like it's a little bit more tricky.
Remember that if the relationship is going well,
don't start initiating.
Let him take the lead instead
because high value men always want to feel
like they are leading the woman.
Let him do that and see if you want to follow.
Remember to treat yourself like you want to be treated.
If you for example, take care of yourself
he will want to take care of you too.
And if you treat yourself with respect
he will also treat you with respect too.
This is why establishing this in the start
or early on in the relationship is very, very beneficial.
For example, you don't let anyone disrespect you
but you also don't disrespect anyone.
He will follow this value of yours
and treat you with respect as well.
So set the bar for a quality man and keep it there.
The right man will show up and see you as his prize.
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