this video I'm gonna be showing you the vibrational difference between wanting
love our relationship into your life to actually having love our relationship in
your life and this video I'll show you exactly what to do so that you create it
in your life easier than ever welcome back to another video my name is Erin
and I help people expand their consciousness now in this video I want
to be sharing with you that vibrational difference between wanting love and a
relationship and then actually having love or a relationship in your life as a
reflection now the first thing to understand is that we have an energetic
field around our body that other people can feel and how we feel about ourselves
is being projected out into the world so for example if we feel insecure about
something and we go out into public many times what will happen is someone may
notice that insecurity or they may pick up on it or you may feel like they're
judging you however if you were to not even focus on that insecurity then they
wouldn't even be able to pay it they won't even pay attention to it but in a
way the more we feel insecure about something or the more we focus on it and
resist it the more we are we are emphasizing it the more that we are
activating it within our energetic fields now this is a big common thing
when we talk about in law of attraction and we talked about manifestation or
understanding how our thoughts create our reality it's thinking that desire is
the key to everything but you see if desire turns you into enter taking
action did not gonna be powerful but normally what people do is they remain
in the vibration of wanting and anytime we say I want we are also saying I don't
have like what I want to be making a video right now I want to make the video
I want to make a video I want to make a video well I'm making a video so I'm not
in the vibration of watching I'm making a video right now so
the vibration of having or being you see but that's the key is understanding the
difference we cook because if we want something we are saying we don't have it
I wouldn't drink water and go I want water you might say I wanted water but
now I have water you see but a lot of people will remain in the wants
vibration and say I want a relationship they'll look at it another couple and
ago I want that they'll look somewhere else ago I want that but you see there's
an infinite number of parallel realities that exist ok I know sounds esoteric but
this helps you to also understand the version of you that wants love and
relationship in your life or some type of relationship and the vibration of
actually having it there are two totally separate realities one is lacking that
love one has that love one doesn't even have the love one realizes the love and
in our own life the things that we perceive up on the outer reality in a
relationship with someone else would be the outer reality is a reflection of the
inner reality I made a couple of videos on this idea of the wanting versus
having paradigm and I talked about money when people want money they're saying
they don't have it and they're going out looking for something that's actually
within themselves because money is energy and the more energy you put out
into the world the more value you provide for other people people are
going to want to give you energy in exchange which may be the the money
which is a form of energy that we exchange on the planet you see but it's
funny to think of somebody looking for something outside of themselves going
where's the money where that money yet weird of money at weird of money yet but
in actuality it's all in here and the more you tap into the well of your own
energy the well of your own passion the more you then have an expression of it
and the more that adds value into the war
because everyone has a purpose now in the same way the reason I say that is
because we were looking at the vibration of wanting versus the vibration of
having the love that you would feel in a relationship is already within you you
see this comes the relationship the love will come as a reflection of the self
love you have for yourself and then when that comes out of your vibrational field
of the wanting you can then actually move into having the thing is that
sometimes action will help people start to feel in the vibration of having so
for example you know sometimes I want a relationship want a relationship want
love want love well if you were to maybe start going and doing and taking action
towards loving yourself which is kind of the purpose of where this video is going
but the idea is sometimes people will start dating around and when they're
dating then they start to feel what it's like to be in a relationship and then
they're in that vibration now I'm not saying that's the answer
because really what I'm showing you is that this is about shifting your
consciousness into understanding that everything on the outside is a
reflection of the inside the more you love yourself the more people will feel
that love off of you and think to themselves that person's pretty dope
maybe I want to be in a relationship with that person maybe I want to maybe I
want to try this out and see what it's like but if you feel about yourself that
you're not cool you're not worthy you're not lovable then they're gonna
feel that off of you and you're gonna play out those patterns and that's why
the key to this process is the awareness the awareness of where your energy is
the awareness of what you feel on the inside about yourself what is your
self-image how do you view yourself do you view yourself as worthy and anything
that is not conducive to you feeling the love that is already within yourself to
be aware of it and to let it go to be aware of it and let it go a lot of times
in the awareness itself is the letting go of it if you become aware that you
feel unworthy to be in a relationship because an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend
you a certain way you can remember you can look at that you can notice that
note you can notice that emotion inside of you you can be aware that it was a
meaning you gave to something else in the past and doesn't have to equal your
present and as you start to realize that it you learned something from it you
learned how to go within you learn how to love yourself more you can then
observe it and then let it go and out your energy field it goes its leaves
like a beautiful bird off into the distance and then you start to feel more
and more this love inside of yourself for you and as you feel more love for
you you go out into the world and you admit off that energy and other people
are like Jim who's that person you see so it's all about energy but realize the
more we say I want I want it means
disturbance in her energy field and the key is realizing you good either way
whether you manifest love relationship money what it whatever the focus is
realize it's about cultivating your own energy from within if you love yourself
you will emit out an energy other people will feel and other people will feel
more inclined to love you the more you tap into your own energy your own
passion your own love you see how you can add value to other people the more
money will come back as a reflection reality really is an inner game if you
master the inner game of reality the outer game will just start to work
itself out and all reality really is is a game anyways it's a game that we
forgot we were playing and you forgot that part of the game is if you want it
you don't got it you want it you don't got it I share this analogy before but
it's like that area on a grande song song where she goes I want it I got it I
got it you probably saw in another video that I did this but it's repetitive but
guess what I want I want I want it that's really really wanted
you can steal how desperate I am do you want to be in a relationship with me
would you like to be in a relationship with me I really like you I really want
you to beat a relationship with me it would make me feel so good I want it I
want it I want you how are you I want you do you want to be in relationship
with me badly Matt so the thing is energetically that's what people do is
they walk they walk around or they go I wanna I want you oh my god Oh instead of
the other part of it which is having it which is thank God you see love within
myself it's already there I got I got I'm in the vibration I've got it because
love is within me I do not need to go out and look for it outside and the more
as I myself don't moan other people love me so I love I got I got I got so I got
me I got a relationship with me that's the key the first relationship that is
the most important relationship is your relationship with someone up know
yourself yourself it's not about a relationship with other people because
your relationship with yourself you love yourself if you focus on that people
feel that off of you and then other people say this person's breathe though
I feel positive energy we're on them because whatever you feel about yourself
other people will begin to feel about you so if you want to change the way
people perceive of you change the way you perceive yourself and
don't be tied to what people think of you
it sounds easy to say I know that of course don't care what people think but
wouldn't you realize that there really is no other you want to go deeper down
this rabbit hole there really is no other people everyone you see outside of
you is a reflection of you anyway so you get embarrassed something you're getting
embarrassed you're judging yourself and you're embarrassed when you're in front
of other versions of you it's up come it's a shift in paradigm but it's it
also the awareness that everything everything everything is just a
reflection that's all reality is it's a reflection
and the more you love yourself the more other people love you so what another
best way that you can possibly attract love or relationship in your life is
don't try don't try just be be and realize the relationship with yourself
the more you love yourself the more you emit this badass energy that says I love
myself feel this love that I have for myself and other people feel it and they
go whoa that person has this really cool energy I really feel something when I'm
around them and they have such a good relationship with yourself then when you
go out into the world you find someone else that has an amazing relationship
with themself and guess what it's two holes meeting each other versus the
Disneyland type or the Disney type perspective of the unfulfilled person
looking for their other half and then finding some prince that saves them from
the dragon that idea that ideology is a old-school way of looking at it you are
already whole and complete you already have the ability to feel love joy and
peace just by your own making you don't need to give yourself the rule in your
mind that says when somebody finally comes into my life then I give the
neurons and my brain and the hormones in my body permission to secrete dopamine
and feel positive emotion I have this rule in my mind and that's when I will
feel happy instead what you can do is you can realize you can give yourself
permission right now right now to feel that love inside of you right now to
give yourself permission to release the dopamine and the serotonin in your body
and by doing so guess what you will feel that love now and as you feel that love
you will be in the vibration of having it and then actually this about going
beyond having and into baby be not believe because but is a lie the
word lies and believes because all beliefs you use for a certain period of
time you may believe right now you can make 50,000 a year that's not
necessarily your limit that's not your full potential one day
you may build it up and go well I'm gonna make $100,000 this year and then
you have that belief but guess what the year after that you gol yourself add
more you keep letting go of these beliefs which are lies you may think
that it's about getting a better belief it's about just letting go the beliefs
that don't serve because their illusions anyways belief that says you're not
worthy of being in a relationship that belief that says you're not all
incomplete let those go let those go and be experienced reality and be who you
really are which you are an infinite spiritual being that has access to
emotions like love joy peace enlightenment within you right now and
the only thing that keeps you back is your belief that you're not good enough
the belief that you have to be different levels of identity from your past
thinking you are this all version of yourself remember remember you not some
bean workaround so I really really want I really really want you don't want you
just have to go and say I got I got the love within me is there now and I got it
already existed inside me I got it I got the ability to give myself and take away
the rule that says I can't feel love now I got I got okay that's the difference
in this video and it's an absolute game changer is what I encourage you to focus
on and if you want by the way I have this awesome mp3 meditation that will
show you exactly how to decrease importance so that when you're
manifesting love or relationship what you are able to do is you're able to
focus on being in that relationship with yourself and also even visualizing
someone else but you're able to make it natural for yourself image you see one
of the biggest things is when you put someone on the
pedestal you vibrationally separates yourself from them but if you see it as
natural for you to experience that you're naturally unconditional love and
bliss therefore it naturally people love you
because you're naturally amazing so it's natural for yourself it's not on a
pedestal there's out of here it's down here and you look at it and you go wow I
just myself have an awesome party and everyone's awesome okay but know this
important thing no putting people on a pedestal you put them on a pedestal make
you put a little charm on the pet store some of it oh don't fall out you try to
put people on a pedestal but if you want a pedestal hope you really like me just
please like me know everything is normal everything is you anyways everything is
a reflection I'm just here to remind you of that to wake you up from the dream of
separations that you can finally love yourself even more and understand that
everything is an inner game once you figure out changes everything one more
thing if you haven't already realize can you smash that like button keep smashing
you like this video I know this video topic this video stuff that I was
talking about today was very different than normal it's a very different type
of energy I have fun though this video will play very fast if you
like this video because you smash that like button and then maybe in a comment
say hey and I smash that like button and then I'll be like oh cool you smash that
like button that's really awesome I really really wanted you to I really
really really would like it if you would smash that like button it would make me
feel so good or I can move into the vibration I'm saying I got if you want
it you got you can smash it if you want I'm not attached but it'd be cool
because it helps the YouTube algorithm and it helps this video get out there so
that people know it's not about the desperate energy so like I said hope you
enjoyed this video I'm gonna go now and do Power Rangers stuff I felt like doing
that I'm gonna do Power Rangers stuff I'm gonna go jump around my house
I only have like a week or two more in this house I'm gonna start packing stuff
and I'm gonna then move into the vibration of having this travel
lifestyle okay so with that being said if you like this video and you like how
weird it was smash that like button okay other than that guess what I'm gonna go
do I'm gonna go write an email or something because that's the next thing
I do every day all right I love you all peace much love
and namaste okay bye