I hope everyone that's in a relationship going through a tough
time, looking to hook up with their specific person,
building a new relationship, overcoming a breakup,
whatever the circumstances are.
I hope everyone watches this video because circumstances
don't matter when you're manifesting a relationship
or a specific person.
Hi everyone. Robert Zink, Miracle Mentor and Alchemy Success Coach.
And today we are soaring high, like a big,
beautiful Eagle,
and we're flying in the direction of your dreams and your
goals. High Flyers.
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I get phone calls.
I get letters and emails every single day from
someone who says Robert,
I noticed my, my ex, uh, with a,
with another woman on his Facebook page,
or my ex told me they don't want to talk to me anymore.
They've blocked me or any number of things like
that. So you get the idea.
People tend to believe that the circumstances
control the relationship.
When that really isn't true circumstances have very
little to do with your relationship.
The relationship you desire is not outside
you, it's inside you.
The late Neville Goddard says everyone is
you pushed out another words,
everyone in your reality is part of your
reality. Say it, my reality,
write it down below my reality.
Everyone is a part of your reality.
And so what goes on with your beliefs and your
vibration determine the nature of your
relationship.
The ancient teachings of the Emerald tablet of Hermes say as
above so below as within.
So without what it really means is this.
If you change the nature of the relationship,
the vibration of the relationship within yourself,
it must change outside of yourself.
But High Flyers people keep looking for external
circumstances. They drive by someone's house.
They call late at night, they check their social media.
They're looking for, I'm not sure what they're looking for.
They're looking for an affirmation of what they believe or what they would
like to be doing. Leave. I understand that,
but guess what?
We don't manifest what we want.
We manifest what we are. So if you're in a,
a broken relationship right now,
or if you're not connecting with your specific person,
that's what you are manifesting. So High Flyers,
listen to me.
This is what you need to do.
You need to make an affirmation,
a promise to yourself right now that you will take on the
role of being a conscious creator of your reality
of your life.
That you will act as a full co-creator
of your relationship and the world in which you live.
So the first thing I think you need to absolutely do is know that
you are worthy. Yes. You know, sometimes people will say, well,
it's all my fault. I blew up. We had a problem. We had a fight, whatever.
And then you start to feel unworthy about yourself.
And then the begging begins. And then the crying begins.
And then the self shaming begins and the wanting and the needing and all of
that kind of stuff. No,
you are worthy and deserving of
love. What does love mean to you? Define it?
What does it mean to you in the context of a relationship you
need to know? Well, what it means, because whatever it means,
as long as both of you are getting the same out of it,
it's worth having and you deserve it and you're worthy of it.
You're worth worthy of, and this goes hand in hand with love.
Sometimes I think it may even go a little higher than love.
You're worthy of respect. You know,
many of you have heard the story of the client that I had that was
interrelationship where every Friday night they got together for a couple of
hours. And that was it.
Aside from everything else, there was a lack of
self-respect and there was a lack of respect, you know,
in the whole circumstances you see, when you don't respect yourself,
when you aren't willing to say no,
then no one else is going to respect you.
But people are afraid to say no,
because they're worried about the outcome. Well, then he'll stop loving me.
He'll find someone new, she'll go out and date other people.
It goes on and on and on.
But if you don't respect yourself, how can you have the magnetism?
How can you attract that specific person,
that person that you desire to have in your life?
And number three is committed.
Look at a relationship.
That has gone through the preliminary processes of getting
to know each other, falling in love,
or liking each other a lot spending time and weekends together
needs to get to the level of commitment.
And that kind of ties in with respect. Doesn't it. So love,
respect, commitment. Number two, High Flyers,
keep yourself in a state of self-empowered
consciousness. You know,
when you see yourself as empowered,
when you feel yourself as empowered,
then you are more likely to manifest the kind of
relationship, the kind of circumstances that you would like to see.
So remember,
High Flyers circumstances are not the final
test of anything, vibration connection,
alignment. That's what's the final test.
So people ask me what to do. Robert, what do I do?
If something undesirable shows up in my life,
something that I didn't expect and boom, there it is. Number one,
what you give power to tends to grow.
So if you're focused on the set of circumstances that you don't
like,
and you keep focusing on it and focusing on it and focusing on it,
it will tend to grow. So number two,
applying limiting beliefs,
engaging in limiting beliefs, empowering your doubts,
your worries,
and your fears will invoke more limitations
in your life.
And that means you will be less likely to attract what you desire.
Number three,
always remember that your beliefs determine
your future reality.
You can choose to believe that everything is falling apart,
that everything is coming on done.
Or you can choose to believe that this is simply a bridge you're walking
over and everything is getting better.
I love this old affirmation. I still use it.
Everything is getting better every day in every way.
So now what is the fastest way to create
positive change within your,
your circumstances and within your life and within your energy field
and within your reality, what is the fastest way to do that?
And I believe the fastest way is with future tense,
gratitude,
taking circumstances that haven't happened yet
focusing in on them and being thankful for them
happening. Another words,
if you have someone that is sick, that you're praying for,
rather than pray that they get well, that's acknowledging that they're sick.
Why not be grateful for the fact that they're making a full
and complete recovery.
You see there's a little bit of difference there,
but it's enough difference to change the entire vibratory
scale and put you in a position to receive.
And I think next, you have to raise your personal power.
What are you doing every day to make
yourself the highest version of you on a
vibrational level? And I'm not going to go through all the things you can do.
We have nearly a thousand videos on this channel. That'll help you with that.
But let me just say this. When you do that, you start soaring like a big,
beautiful Eagle, and you're flying above the mountains and above the trees.
And all of a sudden everything's blue.
The sun is shining and before you know it,
everything is getting better and better because
internally first you got better
and better. Hey,
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