dating requires a lot of trial and error
to find the right one there like job
interviews the more you date the better
you get at it through your experiences
you discover who you are what your
values are and what you want in a
partner
rather than growing frustrated or
cynical after failed relationships use
them as learning opportunities don't
beat yourself up and allow yourself to
be vulnerable again wondering who's a
good match for you here are eight types
of lovers 1 the child have you ever
dated someone who acts younger than
their age
this person may be capable of developing
life skills such as paying bills on time
cooking and completing chores but they
might make excuses each time at first
you might find them exciting and fun
after all
they most likely reminded you that deep
down you're young at heart too but once
the honeymoon stage fades reality sets
in and you realize they aren't willing
to pull in their weight on everyday
responsibilities as this happens you
might begin to wonder if you can be with
them long term to the controller when
dating the controller you might not
detect their possessive tendencies right
away because they're good at seeming
helpful they may have good intentions
and do what they believe is best for you
but over time you may start to feel
invisible or like your needs aren't
being this individual can be highly
reactive treating disagreements like
battlefield believing they need to argue
in order to come off as strong-willed as
a result they have a tendency to respond
instead of listening in order to
understand when people date controllers
they eventually feel drained and come to
realize they're compromising their
identities to satisfy their partners
desires which isn't healthy consequently
they often leave them and that's ok
because at the end of the day we owe it
to ourselves to find happiness 3 the
codependent one have you ever dated a
Navy person or find yourself drawn to
people with high demands it feels good
to be needed admired and play the role
as a heroic protector but dating someone
who is codependent can also be
challenging
they might rely on you for everything
get jealous easily and seek constant
validation instead of giving in to their
demands remind them that they have what
it takes to stand on their own two feet
let them know that
it's not yours or anyone elses
responsibility to heal them and help
them embrace uncertainty fears are valid
because they will forever exist on the
human spectrum of emotions but they
don't have to drive our reactions for
the player Danny a player isn't a
problem if you're okay with being in an
open relationship but if you're looking
for true loyalty and commitment
this type of lover will only lead you
down towards heartbreak and
disappointment players are notorious for
being manipulative and sweet talkers but
pay close attention to their actions if
they frequently cancel plans last minute
with you or promise you one thing but
don't live up to their word don't bother
wasting time trying to mend this
relationship if they refuse to own up to
their mistakes 5 the workaholic ambition
can be a sexy trait in a lover and by
dating a workaholic you might come to
find that you become more goal-oriented
to dating someone who's career driven
can have its downsides life as we know
it isn't just all work and no play
things don't have to be in order all the
time and you don't always have to
maintain a certain image sometimes
having a good laugh and making memories
is what we need if you're dating a
workaholic but want to make your
relationship work remind them to clock
out and unwind with you over a movie or
a game night with friends 6 the
adventurer do you prefer someone fold
adventurous and free-spirited it can be
an eye-opening experience when you date
a lover who can introduce you to new
places you've never been before and
encourage you to step out of your
comfort zone some obstacles you may face
however are recklessness and haste
adventurous lovers tend to be impulsive
and while this may intrigue you
initially as your relationship deepens
you may come to find your craving
stability over spontaneity it's good to
talk to your adventurous lover and show
them that creating a plan in advance can
be beneficial 7 the therapist having a
partner you can go to with your problems
is essential to building strong
connection but when you start to see
your partner as more of a therapist and
a lover it becomes an issue your partner
is there to offer love and support but
they're not required to hold your
emotional baggage for you nor should
they have all the answers it's easy to
fall for someone with it there
cute Agora but never take advantage of
their kindness because they might learn
to resent you in the end and ate the
logician you want someone who can have
intellectual debates with you if so the
logician may very well strike your fancy
rate problem-solvers self-sufficient and
analytical these lovers may not be the
best at remembering anniversaries but
you can count on them to give you
refreshing perspectives logicians are
deep thinkers by nature so you won't
have to worry about settling for
anything shallow because once they
commit they're in it for the long run
which type of lovers have you
encountered and what is your ideal one
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