Hey, it's Mark here, founder of Make Him Yours and today, I want to show you the five things
guys absolutely love to find in a relationship and how you, more importantly, can show you
possess them so that you can get the guy you want into a relationship.
I'll see you soon ladies.
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All right. What do guys want in a relationship? I'm going to go through the five things that
guys really want in a relationship, but stick around to the end of the video because I'm
going to summarize these up and tell you something really important
about these five things that you absolutely need to hear
if you want to get the guy you want into a relationship.
So the first thing guys love to find is support.
This is absolutely fundamental to what men love about having a girlfriend
- it's the support she provides, that feminine presence in his life,
that caring, supportive, you know someone that can pick him up when he's
down and bring him back to earth a little bit when he gets too far in the clouds.
That support is invaluable to men.
The second thing is companionship. This is probably the strongest thing men love about
relationships. It's the ability to have that companion they can share
with and be vulnerable with.
Men can't share their emotions and feelings with their guy friends the same way you can
with your girlfriends, and so having that companionship is just massive to men.
Now the third thing is security or loyalty. Men love the security of knowing that you are
not out there on your Friday nights getting crazy with other guys, without him or even
accepting advances from other guys in any form. By the way, this is the one that women
most often give away for free, so make sure you watch to the end of the video.
Now the fourth one is excitement.
Now my opinion is that a good relationship, should be more exciting
than his single life ever could be and I think that for you, that's a wonderful girlfriend
goal it's not only can you provide support, companionship, loyalty, but can you make his
life more exciting now you're in it than his single life ever was. If you can do that,
you have absolutely cleaned up as a girlfriend in providing what men love about relationships.
So not only does he get to enjoy more sexual adventures with you in crazy places or trying
things that he's not comfortable to try with someone he doesn't know.
You guys can go on adventures together and travel and experience
all the excitement of life as a couple.
Now the final one is sex on tap. Now, it's not like you're going to have sex with your boyfriend
every time he wants it, but let's be honest, a guy can get sex a lot more easily once he's
in a relationship than when he's not.
So these are the five things that men love about relationships.
But here's where a lot of women go wrong. They think, "okay, so I'm going to go into
dating and I'm going to show this guy I like that I can provide security, that I can provide
support, that I can provide companionship, excitement, and perhaps even sex to his life.
And I'm going to provide these things so well and so emphatically that I'm going to show
this guy what a great girlfriend I am. I'm going to, I'm going to just blow his mind
with how good I am and how much of these things I can provide."
It makes sense. And it's totally wrong.
What you do if you go in with the attitude that "I'm just going to provide these things
as much as I can," is you show you don't value those things you show, you are going willing
to throw them at the guy you like as much as you possibly can. And what that's really
showing is that you don't respect those things. And if you show you don't respect those things,
he's not gonna respect you and he's not going to commit to you. Dating is like an insight
into these things that he can get from you.
So when you're together with him, you provide support and you provide companionship and
excitement and perhaps even sex, but you don't provide those things at his leisure. You don't
provide them when he wants them. He doesn't get unlimited free access, 24/7. He only gets
those little passes when he sees you and it's a little window for him to see what he can
expect from you as a girlfriend. It's a little window for him to see how much potential you
have, and when you value those things and when you only give him limited access to those
things, this isn't playing hard to get. This is just valuing those things and prioritizing
yourself because he's not a priority in your life yet. So you prioritize yourself. But
when you do get to see him, you give him those things and you give him a window to what he
can expect when he has you as a girlfriend.
So if you value those things, you show him that you value them, he's going to want a
relationship with you. So those are the five things ladies, and how you can demonstrate
that you have them without giving them away for free, so that the guy you like once you
are in a relationship. I hope you enjoyed the video. I hope that makes a lot of sense
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