10 Things Women Notice That Guys Are Oblivious
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[Music] Whoa! Whoa! Whoa! So,
the first item up surprised me not because it was on the list, but because it dominated the list.
Seriously, gents, I did a lot of research on everyone's favorite snarky website,
Reddit. And the detail that popped up more than any other that men are totally oblivious to,
but women notice, strong clean hands with well taken care of nails.
Specifically, this is what they said. Mrs. J Baxter, “I always look to see if they have clean
fingernails.” Another random redditor chimed in, “And cut fingernails. I have a horror story from
college when this went wrong.” And the ladies kept piling on this, “This is such a major thing
for me. It's hard to look past dirty hands.” I also found a whole subsection on feet. And,
no, for those of you with the fetish, I'm not talking about wikifeet. No,
we're talking about the horror stories, the guys who don't pay any attention to foot maintenance.
In fact, this redditor was pretty clear how important good foot hygiene is to her, “I won’t
have sex with a guy who has disgusting feet and I won't tell him why either.” You know, think back,
this explains a lot. [Music]
Now, let me be clear, I'm not saying you got to have perfectly manicured hands. In fact,
the majority of the women said, “Hey, I want a guy that just looks like he works with his hands,
has tough strong hands.” At the same time, they want them to be clean. They
want you to take care of your nails. Now, some of you guys may be saying,
“Antonio, it sounds like too much work” or “I bite my nails. How can I stop that?” Well,
consider going and getting a manicure. Antonio, did you just say a manicure? Yes, I
did. In fact, I'm stealing the manicure trick from best-selling author James Clear. He talked about
in his book, Atomic Habits, how he used to chew his nails. Until he started getting manicures,
then he realized he had mindfulness awareness of I'm spending all this money to have nice nails.
You bet, I'm no longer going to chew on it. Another tactic that works for some is thinking
about all the bacteria on your fingers and how chewing your nails can get you sick. My point
here, take care of your hands, the ladies notice. Next up on the list, your vocabulary. In fact,
Pink Anime27 had this to say about, “I like a man with a good vocabulary. Proper
and thought out sentences with great word choice is incredibly sexy. However, using the same
adjectives too often is a big turn off for me.” Now, Reddit user SynonymousAnonymous replied to
her saying this, “Hey, girl. So, I hear that you like verbose eloquent men. I can insurance you
that I studied thesauruses with such ferocity, that it entrances the most demanding of the
feminine homo sapiens. My verbose vernacular is copious to say the least. Are you not enthralled,
my lady?” I think that example goes to show there is such a thing as too much.
Now, when it comes to a person's vocabulary, the average adult has
access to between 20,000 and over 40,000 words, really depending on what they've been exposed
to and their education. The easiest way to increase your vocabulary, be a curious
person. Be someone that seeks out knowledge. And I'm not saying you got to go out there and
read tons of books. That will help though. But, be someone that looks for new experiences. As
a person learning new things, you naturally pick up the new vernacular that's associated
with the skill set you're acquiring. The next thing women noticed a lot of
guys are oblivious to, real confidence. And when I say confidence, I'm not talking about being cocky,
I'm not talking about having a big ego, I'm not talking about being arrogant. What I'm
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The next thing the ladies notice that we apparently are oblivious to, how many times
we interrupt them. Now, I'm not saying this is you because you're perfect,
but I will admit that I have been that guy. I've just got something to say, I want to
jump in there and I start talking over people. And I do find that I am pretty bad about this with
the women that are close to me, the women that I know well. And this really depends on the crowd
because I've been around a bunch of guys that we're just doing this to each other, we know this
and this is how you get your words in. [0:05:04]
Now, talking about this points and the other ones in this video begs the question that if
you're oblivious to something you're doing that other people don't like
or maybe they do like, how can you actually find out what you're doing and their thoughts?
One of the best ways I find is simply to ask people. Ask them in the right way,
but, “Hey, you know are there things I do that annoy you? I'm just curious,
I'd like to know. I'd like to get better.” Not all of us have somebody that's going to
stop us and say, “Hey, you interrupt a lot of people and you need to stop. I care about you.
I want you to get better and succeed in life.” No, sometimes you have somebody like that, but
majority of the time you've got to be self-aware and conscious enough of what's going on around
you to maybe inquire about that information. And once you find that out, take action on it.
In my case, it was my wife pointing this out over a decade ago and me realizing,
you know what? You're right. I’ve got to be careful about this. I just need to do
a better job of listening to others and not jumping in because I have smart things to say.
Now, this next one's a positive one and I'm happy the ladies pick up on it and that is when we're
laughing. And they didn't really focus in on any particular type, although a lot of women did say
they like that unapologetic deep hearty laugh in which you aren't -- you're just not afraid
to be happy and to laugh in front of others. They talked about the smile, they talked about,
you know, the wrinkles around the eyes. They just find it attractive when a man is in a positive
mood and he's just jovial, he's just fun, he's just somebody that people want to be around.
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find our videos that they start dressing better and, boom, we create a better world. Seriously,
more men dress better, had good manners, well, that’d be a step in the right direction, right?
Oh, apparently, they catch us smelling our armpits. I didn't realize this was such an
issue until I talked to my wife. And, yes, I do it as well. I don't know, maybe it's just a guy
thing. I'd like to know, you know, do they want us to not do this? Because I always think I'm
looking out for somebody if I'm going to put my arm around one of my daughters around my wife,
I simply want to make sure I'm not, you know, I'm not going to stink out the house.
Now, this next one, I don't think it's bad, I don't think it's good. I just simply think it's
the way it is and it's something that apparently all the ladies notice we are oblivious to
and that is adjusting ourselves, Now, the reality is we've got anatomy
that sometimes does need to be adjusted. And you're in public you're walking around and what
are you going to do? Yeah, you're just going to drop into a squat, you're going to do a side
step. Sometimes, yes, you will just reach your hands down there and take care of business.
Apparently, though, the ladies don't understand this. And my response to this
is you never will because you just don't have the parts. I mean, I'm not going to question
a woman if she has to adjust her bra. And speaking of the chest area, apparently,
they notice when we're checking them out. Yes, Mike, we're talking about you. [sound effect]
Now, my thoughts on this is it is what it is. Don't gawk, don't stare, be discreet. Leverage the
power of sunglasses, use your peripheral vision. And if caught, well, try to escape with a smile.
I think this redditor had the right attitude when he said, “Hey, I'm just looking into your heart,
but the boobs are in the way. Not my problem.” Now, this next one may make you feel a bit
objectified or head to the gym to spend more time on your squats and that is apparently the ladies
pay attention to our butts. Apparently, they like the round shape and they love it when it's wrapped
in a great looking pair of jeans or trousers. Now, personally, I got no issue with this. And
if you want a better looking butt, one of the things that could help you is to actually wear
jeans that fit. Wear pants that fit your body. Most guys are wearing jeans that are too large.
Consider sizing down one or try a different brand which actually works better with your body build.
Next up on the list, eyebrows. Apparently, you don't want to have a unibrow. And I get it,
it looks like you're scowling like you're mad all the time. Unless you're Anthony Davis,
which a trademark look, I would avoid it. Now, do you need to go and clean that up yourself?
I would say bit by bit maybe get rid of some of the stray hairs there. Now, some of you
guys may be saying, I don't know how to clean up my eyebrows. Well, talk to your barber,
talk to your stylist. It's something that they can actually take care of very easily for you.
That being said, I'm not saying you want to go out there and shape your
eyebrows. Let's not be going crazy here. All right, gents, so what do you think so
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