Hey girls, are you frustrated because you can't get your guy to commit to you or you
don't know how to get the guy to commit to you? I'm going to show you today exactly how
you can have that conversation so that he's going to commit to you every single time.
Hey, it's Mark here from Make Him Yours. Stick around. This is going to be fun.
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Okay, girls, today, we're talking about commitment, the big C-word. How do you get a guy to commit
to you? I'm going to give you a couple of steps how to approach that conversation, how
to have it so that the guy will commit to you just about every time and for the ones
that don't, they aren't worth your time anyway. First thing you want to do ladies is check
in with your own standards. So before you go doing anything with him or saying anything
to him, check in yourself. Is this the type of guy that I could see myself spending a
long time with? Is this the type of guy that I really want to give up all my options for?
I mean as a girl you have so many options on the table and there's so many men who'd
be excited and enthusiastic about dating you. So double check with yourself that is this
definitely the guy you want to commit at least for a little while too.
So next thing you want to do is you want to have the conversation. So I'm going to give
you a few guidelines to having the conversation and then I'm going to give you a bit of an
example of how to bring it up with them. So there's four basic guidelines. The first one
is you don't want to put any pressure on him or at least you don't want to make him feel
like there's any pressure on him. Even if it's kind of your doing. He has to make the
decision for himself or at least think that he does when you're really doing it for him.
He really has to feel like though that he's making decision himself, which means no pressure
from you. The second principle is that you want to remind him that you are a high value
woman with options and you're willing to use them if he's still gonna use his other options.
So it's like a delicate push in the right direction. Number three is you want to avoid
the key words that set off alarm bells in a guy's head, which our relationship and commitment.
And number four, if you need it, you want to set a time constraint to make the guy feel
more comfortable committing. To give you an example, ladies, I'm going to bring in my
friend Stacy to show you exactly how this conversation should be done. Oh Hey baby.
I just want to have a quick conversation with you. Oh, don't worry. Don't worry. It's nothing.
It's nothing big. It's just, just a small thing. I just want to chat, you know, just
we've been dating a couple of months and I just wanted to, no pressure, I just wanted
to see where you're at with things. You know, I've um, had a couple of guys ask me out the
other week and I had one of my own booty calls call me up again and I haven't done anything
with them. I haven't done anything but uh, I just want to make sure we're on the same
page and everything because you know, if you're still doing that then that's, that's cool.
I just want to make sure we go ahead in the same way so that everything is fair in our
newish kind of whatever you want to call us, seeing one another. So you know, if you did
want to try the exclusive thing just for like a week or two, we can do that. It's totally
up to you though. If you, if you want to try it, we can come back and like week can see
how things are going or if not and you don't want to do that, that's cool as well. But
you just, let me know and tell me what you think about the whole thing and we'll go ahead
from there so at least we're on the same page together.
Thank you. Stacy. What would I be without her? So girls, I hope that gives you a bit
of an idea about how to have that conversation, how to bring it up with your guy. So remember
the four main principles. Don't put any pressure on him, he shouldn't feel any pressure, delicately
remind him that you have some options too, make sure you don't use the words relationship
or commitment, and pop in a time-constraint. Thanks again for watching ladies. I hope you
enjoyed the video. Don't forget to give it a thumbs up. Subscribe to the channel and
pop some comments in the sections below. What excuses have guys given you not to commit?
I'd love to hear from you, love to hear your thoughts on the video. And finally, don't
forget to check out, check out the blog and makehimyours.com.au I can't wait to chat to
you all again very soon.
You want to remind him that you are a high value with it... Ladies, thanks very much.
And I'll talk to you slide kick.... Try to keep it flow. So ladies, I'd love to hear
your thoughts from me as part of the making yours.